so i was texting this girl recently, she game me her number just last week. i have known her for five yrs, but we just rele started talking this week. she found out i am movin out of state, from md to al. she said she was devestated and really sad to see me go, even tho im not moving til late march. we talked for a little while and she basically said that i was pretty cool and she could def see me as someone she would date. do you think she is just saying this because of the ';moment';? should i go out on a limb and ask her out, because i do like her. we are both only 15, but go to different schools (i go to private and she goes to public but we see each other atleast twice a wk, but would hang more if we dated)
i am going to her basketball game tomorrow, if i were to ask her out would that be a good time?
need a lot of help pls, thanksNeed girl advice, very important, dont skip over pls?
I think you should ask her out, and the game would be a good time... after you've hung out with her a bit and see if she acts as interested as she says she is. It could be a ';moment'; thing, or maybe she's always liked you but was afraid to say until now. If you date her, remind her (and yourself) that you are moving in less than 3 months, and keep it light and fun, not serious. When you move, don't try to be boyfriend/girlfriend; make a clean break and be firm that you can be friends and keep in touch on myspace or facebook or by email. There will be great girls where you're moving to.
As for this girl, I can't believe she's really devastated about your move, but she could just be sad that it's a missed opportunity for her. Or she could feel ';safe'; saying these things, since you're moving anyway. Maybe she likes drama. You won't know until you spend time around her, so give it a shot. Just remember, you haven't moved yet... don't behave in a way that you couldn't live with should your move be cancelled and you end up staying.Need girl advice, very important, dont skip over pls?
well she may not be saying it because of the moment necessarily. it just may have took her realising that you would be gone to see that she really cared about you alot.
and as far as asking her out as just a date, yeah that would probably be a good idea, but dont start thinking of it as starting a relationship if you are leaving unless yall can have a long distance relationship. i think you should do what you want to do. it sounds like it would be a sweet relationship. do what ya feel
It would only be short lived, but go for it! Hell why not, you only live once....the worst she could say is no. Just make sure you prepare yourself for the fact that even though you've know each other for a long time, you are leaving in 2 months and she may not want to put herself in that situation. Good Luck!
P.S. Don't ask her if she loses her game....that might not be the best time!
I'm not sure why you would even began daing her now, knowing you are moving in less then 3 mths. Maybe you all should just ';hang out'; and be friends. Long distance relationships are NOT fun, and at your age you should be having FUN. You have plenty of time to date later in life.
Probably not the answer you wanted.
Here's the answer you wanted:
Sure she sounds like she likes you. Ask her out.
Friday, January 8, 2010
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