Sunday, December 27, 2009

Help! Need some Girls advice on this girl?

i had a date with her on tuesday. I feel we had some connection and a lot of physical contact and teasing between us. so I called her on thursday morning, she didn't answer, so i didn't leave a msg. then she called me back a few hours later, so we chatted a bit and I asked her if she wanna get together this weekend, she seemed a bit unavailable and propose the date on sunday, but didn't really give me a solid answer.





Is that a brush-off that she's lost interest in me or is she playing hard to get? if she's lost interest, i'd assume she probably wouldn't have callled me back right?Help! Need some Girls advice on this girl?
it could be either.....try flirting with her and if she flirts back you'll know or make a move :) goodluckHelp! Need some Girls advice on this girl?
It could be that she only called you back to see what you wanted. If this girl is playing hard to get then tell yourself the game is over. You don't need to run after this girl. If she didn't give you a solid answer then don't bother with her. I think she is acting very immature. Do you really want to bother with someone who is immature or just like to lead you on?
hmmm i personally don't think that she has lost interest. I sometimes do what she has done with guys that i really like. I do it because i need time to think whether he really likes me or not and where the date will lead for us. Just give her time, but still keep texting her to show that you're still attracted to her, then let her make the next move.
no its just what girls do some times. Its a big joke that is use on many TV shows because women love the mess with the minds of men.
If she had lost interest she. 1. wouldn't have called you back. and 2. She most likely wouldn't have proposed another date. This is common because she must have a busy life if she didn't give you a certain answer. Possibly she isn't sure if she's completely available on Sunday. If you really want to know you should just ask her to confirm
next time get a simple yes or no
She probably just had something going on this weekend. If she'd lost interest she wouldn't have called you back %26amp; wouldn't have asked about Sunday
Sounds like she lost interest, IMO. You should try blowing her off and not calling/answering her calls or texts. If she gets angry or furious at you, it means she really was in to you and just apologize like hell. But if she doesn't respond in kind, it means she wasn't really in to you.
It seems a little of both. She may be interested but trying to decide to actually move forward with it or not. It may be too soon for her or she may really be busy. It is the beginning of spring and she may have had plans for a while. There can be a lot of factors into why she is like that. I know when i am not interested i don't answer or call back so i mean she has to have some interest right? I hope this helps.
She is probably seeing someone else on Saturday. That's the bad news.





It's not clear from your message whether it was she that proposed the alternative date of Sunday, or you. If it was she, she is still interested in getting together with you.
Seems like shes playing hard to get, im sure if she didnt want to she would have ignored you and not called u back, just chill till sunday, try not to over analyze it till after sunday.
I'm pretty sure that she doesn't actually know if she has something on. Girls don't really call back and then ignore someone. Just wait for her call, and if she doesn't call back, call her, some of us girls are very shy and want the boy to take the lead. :) Hope this helps!
You're right, she wouldn't have called you back or maybe she would have but wouldn't have chatted for very long.
Not nessicarily. Some people like myself are just not that fond of making absolute plans. Then I feel pressured and feel bad if they end up not working out. Dont give up quite yet. If she's REALLY brushing you off, you wont wonder is she brushing me off. =)
Girls don't play hard to get. Men invented that entire idea, and it is a bad one. :)





If she'd lost interest, she wouldn't have called you. She probably genuinely has a busy schedule. Try to make a plan with her for next weekend - suggest a day and something to do, such as ';Let's see a movie next Friday.'; Don't just leave it completely open for her to think up ideas.





If she continues to not have time for you, though, then she's probably not into you... if it feels like you are doing all of the work just to date her, stop and let her come to you.

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