we met up twice last week, nice kisses, touching hands across the table, long looks etc. great!
then she didn't text me for 3 days, and ignored my text. then i said hey on facebook chat, said i'd give her a call this weekend, she said 'ok sure :D that'd be nice'. i text her the next day asking if she'd be reachable that night. she said she could'n talk that night (saturday) because she was going out. fair enough.
she called me saturday night/sunday morning on her way home from that night out, for 20 mins. then she calls me the next night again unannounced for 15-20 mins again after her night out. she wasn't drunk either time. both of them nice chats. i mentioned how terrible she was at messaging back etc she apologised and said if i wanted to talk to her i should just call her. but calling is harder since i feel like i have to have something to say instead of just hey.
so i text her the next day saying hey etc. got no reply the whole evening and no call. she was having a party but i text her like 6pm, before it started. heard nothing from her the whole night.
today she pops up on facebook says hi how was my laser eye treatment (which i got today) answers my questions with one-word responses and doesn't ask anything back!
so how have i gone from holding/touching hands, kisses etc, to hearing nothing from her at all, to her calling 2 nights in a row for a little chat, then to barely even having a decent conversation! in one week!
she lives in a different city to study but is coming home this week sometime. i dont even know if i should ask her to see me or if that is just going to embarass me!? what should i do girls help me out! :S
i want to get an answer from her but i'm scared that if i ask it'll just push her away, since i don't think she's looking for anything too complicated. at the moment i would feel weird dating another girl in case this one does in fact like me.Looking for girl advice:why is she acting this way?
I think she definitely likes you but is not sure if she is ready for something serious, she might be in a relationship which she is not happy in and she is not sure if she really wants to end it completely and start a new one. I think she is confused. She does like you because she spends time talking to you. Thats a sure sign she finds you interesting. I would advice you to take things slowly and keep your friendship going. Do call her and just tell her you are free on saturday and if she would like you can go but also mention that on sunday you have already made a plan to go out with your friends so you are only available on saturday. We girls like guys who have a life and are not desperate. She will know that you have other fun things to do and you are not there waiting for her. She is not 'that' important that you will leave everything for her. That will make her want you more and scared to loose you.Looking for girl advice:why is she acting this way?
Its because you haven't outrightly said oi , I like you and claimed her for yourself is why , just ask her out again and then her mixed messages should calm down
Woah, what a confusing girl... She is sending mixed signals - maybe she is unsure whether she wants to date you, or date anyone for that matter? I think you two should just be friends and see if you become closer to her in time. Girls like when guys take the first step, so call her and ask her if she wants to hang out, but don't make it sound like you're desperate. Just give it time! Good luck! =)
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