Thursday, December 31, 2009

Some girl advice please?

Im talkin to this girl from msn from my school(im 16 btw), and i dont really talk to her in person, and i really really really like her, and i dno if she likes me, but i really want to tell her how i feel, but i just cant...





And at school im sort of the less popular sort of person, and she is quite the opposite, anyone got any ideas on what i can say to her?





Hints/tips would be good.


Best answer will be chosen





BTW - we have been talking for about 7-8 months, and she has started the convorsations on msn a couple of times:)Some girl advice please?
just ask her out, as in to go somewhere not as in to start a relationship. and then see where it goes from there = ) hope it helpsSome girl advice please?
you need to spend time with her in real life, if you tell her stuff on msn it could go wrong for any number of reasons.





Meet up with her, spend some time, see how u get along. I would advise you not to make a big speech to her about your feelings, just start by casualy holding her hand, see how she likes that, then make a move and try and kiss her, just take it easy and keep everything chilled.





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I know how hard it is when you really like someone but are worried if you tell them how you feel, they might not feel the same.


It's easy for people to just say ';go for it'; but if you just don't have the confidence it's not that easy...


The good thing is, this girl, who you say is so popular (and therefore has plenty of people to talk to on MSN) has chosen to talk to you, and for months, so you clearly have a lot going for you. Trust me, she obviously cares for you or she wouldn't bother!!! The thing is now to find out just how much she cares, and if it is just in a friendly way or could be more.


Maybe you could try flirting on msn a little, tell her you thought she looked really pretty in that dress she wore last time you saw her (or something along those lines) You don't have to put all your cards on the table %26amp; ask her outright on a date. But maybe get a couple of mates together %26amp; go to the cinema, and ask if she might like to join you? Play it cool, but up your confidence a bit and be more positive. Good Luck xx
When you get a chance, just approach her (in person!) the same way you'd approach anyone else.





Popularity, looks, money....who cares? All those things are materialistic smokescreens people let get in the way of potentially meeting great people.





Whatever you do in life, never put anyone on a pedestal for any reason. You two already know each other, so just start talking to her in person the same way you would if it were MSN.





Good luck.
I would ask her out if it was me and the worst she can say is no and then you will know where you stand and can move on to someone else.


When you start dating you can't be afraid of rejection otherwise you find yourself letting opportunity's slip through your fingers.


If you have been talking for that many months then she obviously doesn't find you terrible to talk to!


Be brave and ask her out. If you feel shy to do it in person why not casually ask her to see a film when chatting on MSN?
Well, you shouldn't try to be someone else to get her to like you, be yourself and try to be friends with her first. Try talking to her more outside of msn and just because she starts the conversation dosen'd necesarily means she likes you likes you, but it means that she does like you as a friend (that's GOOD :D)





Goog luck!!

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