there's this girl i really like at school named madison.(she's like the hottest girl in school) but she's all popular and doesn't know me. so if i went up and talked to her she'd probably think i'm weird because we don't know each other. what do i do.Girl Advice?
Try to imagine a girl coming up to you and introducing herself and sparking a conversation with you. How would you feel about her, in reality it isnt as awkward as we foresee it to be. Catch her while she is by herself at her locker and try to spark friendly conversation, she won't think your weird.Girl Advice?
you should ALWAYS get to know her first. i think that you do not like her, its just that the way she looks and dress that got your attention. howver, in my own opinion, she may look as beautiful as a rose, but her true self may be something you might not want to know. if you like her and want to know more about her, when you try to get to know her and she acts all like ';uh,'; then shes not the one for you. the person that likes you, will take you as you are.
i say walk up and talk to her, chances are everyone else is just like you and wont go up to her. so if you do she will probably like it!
smile and ssy ';Hi Madison';! with a smile in your voice and like you've known her for a long time.. and keep walking(do this several times) and one day soon you'll be brave enough to ask her her opinion on something or advice on something (you'll think of something about school, clothes, etc) tell her a good riddle or joke, be funny...and this may start a beautiful friendship and maybe more, but don't get creepy about it like you like her , ya know, keep it fun and real..
good luck
i dont think you like her since you dont even really know her. Its probably just lust. But if your really willing to try to get with her, then start talking to her and saying hi casually. Also, try to make conversation every so often.
tough one...first find out more about her, likes/dislikes then just start casually saying hi to her without looking like a stalker. after that you have to ask yourself how you want to come across to her? what would she like? a funny corny line? a question? maybe she just wants you to be straight forward? again i don't know you or her so you really have to look deep inside and ask people who know you--or know her...idk just my advice...
well if she dont' know she likes you how will you guys ever date or anything? heres what i think you should do. i love it when a guy i don't know comes up to me and starts talking to me, it makes me feel flattered! so i think that at first you should just talk to her and become friends with her. be confident but not cocky, sweet but not sappy, and nice but not over the top. after you guys get to be friends then ask her out on a date. but please be sure that your not wanting to date her cuz ';she's like the hottest girl in the school and all popular'; make sure your dating her for other things too. like her personality and becuase you enjoy being with her. sometimes popular hot girls get the guys that just want them for those kinds of things and it gets old. so be refreshing and new!! good luck!
Become a jock, that's pretty much the only way she'll notice you. I'm a little older so I speak from experience. When I was in high school I tried to talk to the ';hot chick'; and got laughed at. It was pretty embarrassing. Wait til college, women are much easier.
well, the same thing happened to me. all you have to do is keep getting to know her more and more. If she sits next to you in a class, then help her with something or pick up something she dropped. then start saying some things to each other. then eventually you will be friends. you do what you think is best from there.
Go up and say hi, you never know unless you try, maybe start off light and see if you can get her IM address or email, and send her a letter..that may help break the ice..Good luck, let me know if it works. It has worked for me before and I didnt think it would..Give it a shot
smile at her and say hi, she's probably just assume that you were just being friendly
Smile a lot and be a nice guy. Try to get acquainted with her as a friend.
WELL, YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER FOR SOME OTHER REASON LIKE ';YOU LOOK FAMILIAR, DO I KNOW YOU';, OR TALK TO HER ON AIM, OR ON MYSPACE.... YOU COULD SAY ';IVE SEEN U AROUND SCHOOL, SO WHATS UP'; AND AFTER YOU GUYS KNOW EACHOTHER WELL, TELL HER YOUR FEELINGS, BUT YOU HAVE TO FEEL A LITTLE CEMISTRY BEFORE YOU DO THAT BCUZ U DONT WANT TO GET HURT RIGHT??
WELL G00D LUCk BOY
000 AND PLZ ANSWER MY ';GUYS ONLY'; QUESTION.. THANKS A BUNCH =]
If you roll with different crowds, I would hesitate to ask her out because people feel most comfortable associating with familiar peers. Your most likely girlfriends usually come from within your own social circle or network of friends. If she's in your crowd then I wouldn't hesitate to ask her out. If she's not in your crowd, don't chase her into hers. You don't want to invade her space and you don't want to copy her style.
You can do little things to express your interest though. Make eye contact in the hall. Say hello as you're walking by. Smile. Don't try to do too much too fast. You have the whole entire school year to bump into her and drop hints. If she becomes responsive to you then you might introduce yourself.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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