What's she feeling? Girl advice?!?

So I met this girl on match.com and was talking to her since like June 4th. We just had a 1st date last Friday, went to a ball game. She seemed interested, said yes to meeting up a few days before or after the game for a movie, said she wanted to see Harry Potter. Met at the game, hugged when we saw each other and when we left at the end. Laughed, joked around, few silences, but it was a first date. Lots happened that was funny (a hotdog bit, mistaken ';peak'; for ';pee';), and I said something sarcastically and she playfully hit my arm like girls do and started poking me arm when she wanted to know why I was laughing. I mean girls do NOT touch you if they don't like you, YES?? Anyway I was a little shy but that's how I am when meeting new ppl, ESPECIALLY that I met online. Do you think that hurt me? Still she was still laughing, being silly, said she had a ';great'; time at the end, we hugged each other.


I saw HP earlier in the day and told her...but that's no big deal. And she is leavingWhat's she feeling? Girl advice?!?
Cherish the memories and if it's meant to be it will be.She likes you!What's she feeling? Girl advice?!?
I think you worry too much. Sounds to me like you two had a great time. Just give her some time to retext you or contact you ....she may be busy getting ready for her studies abroad.
theres nothing wrong with that and now she knows you had a good time so if she feels the same way she wont hesitate to let you know but ifi ts takin her this long in the past to reply give her a chance. it sounds like she did like you but also sounds like she has alot going on give it a week or two if no response move on ....good luck
hmmm... this is tough. it does seem like she liked you, that is usually the way i act when i like a guy. but as for not answering text messages i say that you should try calling her. it probly would have been better to call her earlier, but don't give up. unless she starts to never answer your phone calls, texts, emails, and ims or just flat out tells you she doesnt like you then you should keep trying. maybe she's busy or doesnt answer her text messages, i know i usually dont.or she just might have thought that you didnt want a response. just keep trying untill you know that she doesnt like you, if you keep doing it after that then it will get dreepy and she might get a restaraining order! Just joking, but keep trying. I hope I helped.
No, i don't think you did anything wrong. In the online game, people are trying to match up faster than the speeding bullet. They think that the 1st date is a make or break point. Their judgement can be superfical.





In online dating, be honest to each other and enjoy the moments. Have fun when you meet up for real life but don't do anything over your limits. Give her time to reply you %26amp; if she don't, move on. Keep dating people till you meet someone who is able to treasure you as who you are without judging you at the 1st glance.





Easier said than done... but there are also nice people online.
i dont think a text message screwed up anything


it seems like she likes you


maybe shes just busy
Honestly...I think she looks at you more of as a ';buddy';. I mean, the only time i hit someone in the arm is when they make a mean sarcastic remark. Think about it, when you see romantic couples hitting each other and poking each other? It's more of a freind thing. And you should have waited until the next day to text her. That's not a good sign she didn't reply.
you ruined it completley with the txing and the spitting, might as well pun ch her in the face and move to spain and fine some spanish lady that looks like shakira or beyonce
I can't read her mind to know why she doesn't want to keep seeing you. There could be a lot of different reasons, and they might have nothing to do with you personally. I do think you made a couple of mistakes though. She said she wanted to see Harry Potter with you, and you went and saw it without her, which took the fun out of the anticipated second date. Also, it would have been better to wait until the next day to text her. Just think of this as a learning experience. There are plenty of other girls out there, and maybe this one wouldn't have worked out anyway.
You're very sweet, but dont worry bout minor things like spit coming out your mouth, it shouldnt matter. If the girl didn't text back, to be brutally honest it means one of two things: a- she didnt know what to say back or b- she simply didnt want to. In answer to your questions i dont think you messed everthing up by texting so quickly the worst thing she might have though it that you were an eager beaver. and secondly to me it seems like there is a possibility that she likes you but she could just be someone who is flirty and outgoing and does that normally. ANYWAYS just talk to her and stop beating yourself up about the situation, just do what feels right, if you really like her fight for her - and if youre just lonely and youre just holding onto the possibility because you finally have a chance of not being lonely then you know what the right thing to do is. Sorry to be so honest thats how i feel about the situation.
nope...just hang in there, you can't tell after the first couple of weeks, sounds like ur in, so just keep up whatever you are doing.
Making a girl/woman laugh is the best way to get her to care for you...as long as the jokes aren't sick ones. And the touching, even though it was poking, is a dead give away. Getting ready to go abroad is a very busy thing to do. Why not do this. Give her your name and address and ask her to send you a postcard from Spain. Perhaps you've never gotten a foreign postcard before? Or you like foreign stamps? As long as you didn't do anything dorky you should be fine. There's a fine line between being interested and being needy so be careful how many times you contact her. Hopefully things will work out. If not, there are plenty more on Match.com