More than friend potential? girl advice?

started talking to this girl on match.com like a lil over a month ago. exchanged around 7 - 10 emails on there. we were talking about what fun it is to take the train into the nearby city for the day and how we've both done it before. i asked her if she'd like to one day this summer...she said 'yes' etc. gave her my myspace link...she requested me. she lives like kinda far from me...about 2 hrs... but i've been to where she lives mannyy times.


anyway the other day on myspace she left me a comment (we dont rele regularly talk on myspace tho) saying ';where did i find u from, such a mystery. anyway i'm going down to your city in a few weekends...wanna meet up??'; i replied yeah.


then i gave her my cell in an email, and she gave me hers back.


wut u think? does this sound like 'more than friend' potentional or 'in the friend zone'??More than friend potential? girl advice?
It sounds like it definately has the potential to be more than a friend thing....sounds like she is definately wanting to get to know you and spend time with you to see if you are what she is looking for!! Congrats!! I hope it all goes well with you and her meeting up!More than friend potential? girl advice?
Ask her out. If she says ';No'; then she doesn't want to be more than a friend.
defently more than friend


she wants to meet you to hook-up with you


be ready and be safe...
That's more than friend potential. Since she offered to meet with you she wants to get to know you. You probably are already going, so my advice is to just be natural and enjoy this.
more than friend, deffinatly. if she's asking to meet up with you, then she is deff. interisted.





go for it!
It sounds like to me she wants more than a friendship to me.
this question depends on how you look at it have you actually seen her pic. Have you exchanged more then 400 words if so hell yes!! no girl would give her mail to guy she never met but if she is sleez then i geus she would. any way that is what i think
just act cool whene u see her.Now u done't want to make her think that you are boring so you always want to talk not to much cause thene u would just be annoying.Act cool see what she likes after she says the thing that she likes say oh wow u 2?Now what i call your situation is a blind zone. U done't know what this person wants to be your friend or something a littel more so like i said act cool and see where the wind will blow u guys good luck.... ;-)
yes more than friemds
You'll find out when you meet her.





If she hasn't remembered you she's probably not that interested.
It sounds like you are both intrested enough to want to meet face to face (which is good!) and you should probably concentrate on getting to know her and having a fun day together rather than getting all tore up over ';friend'; vs ';more than friend'; potential.





Since she is willing to spend the money and the time to come to where you are, it would be a very gallant gesture if you offered to take her out to lunch somewhere moderatley-priced (nicer than Denny's but less expensive than the Four Seasons) and quiet where you can linger over your meal and have a good conversation. I don't think you are obligated at all to pay for everything all day because this is a ';getting to know you'; type meeting and you having to pay for everything all day long wouldn't really be fair. Lunch somewhere nice but not ostentatious and maybe an inexpensive bouquet of flowers or a souvenier to commemorate your first meeting should be very adequate to let her know you are intrested without having you eating Top Ramen until your next pay day!





If I were travelling to meet someone for the first time I know I would want him to appreciate that I took the first step but I would think him desperate if he went all nuts spending money like crazy the first time I met him. Women of substance know that a man who is wise with his money will always have money :) and wise men are WAY more attractive than idiots!





PS No woman ever takes a 2 hour train ride to visit a man she has already put in the ';just friends'; column! You've got potential so don't blow it! :)
maybe she wants to get to know you when she comes and you guys meet. it kinda hard to feel like yoo know someone just from emailing. then maybe after you hang out for a little itll be more clear whether she wants to be friends or more than friends.
it depends on how u guys talk..if it's more of a flirting way of talking then a heyy buddy way of talking ;-)
just cut the bs and ask her out
sounds like 'more than friend' potential
depends see how she acts when u meet up with her.
Yeah, but if you really don't know, just take it slow, like a scouting mission, lol. Good luck tiger :)
it sounds like more than friend potential...


but just to be sure, u should ask her...


i know it's hard to do but ask her when yall meet up...





unless u get vibes that clerify everything...


but i think she likes u...
She's scanning still. She wants to see who, what, and how you're made still and figure out if you are truly what you've represented.
Well people on those sites talk to lots of people which explains why she asked where she found you. However, I wouldn't consider anything until you've hung out a few times. Anyone can hide behind email and most people do these days. Dating sites are iffy but if she turns out to be someone cool that you'd consider dating, go for it. She's laying low cuz she is trying not to lead you on until she's met you and knows if she wants to persue anything. Also, she doesn't know if you're ligit so.....Just be patient, hang out and tuck this question away for another time.