Girl advice?

there is this girl, i have known her for a while and there have always been mild feelings between us, but it seemed that if i liked her, she didnt like me, and when she seemed into me, i wasnt into her.


now i think i like her alot.


i have learned from past experiences that girls dont really like clingy guys, so i dont text her too much or anything.


i want to have her over my house to swim, and hang out. i want it to be just the two of us, but should i offer for her to bring another girlfriend to make her feel comfortable? or would that prevent ';sparks'; from flying between us?(haha)


i need all kinds of advice....how can i tell if she likes me??Girl advice?
do it, invite her over and get her drunk and then bang herGirl advice?
inviting more then one person is always easier. you can invite just her later.





swimming might not be a good idea, she will know you want to see her in a bikini, and she might not be ready for that.





if you invite her to the pool, and she wears the bikini, she likes you. try not to stare.
go ahead and if she wants to come over she will if not she'll make up some lame excuse about not wanting to come and that's usually a sign that she doesn't like you...anyway good luck
i would start out by having her invite friends, you too, so it's not just all girls and you (though you may like that...). that way you get to know her in a group and it's not too personal, so you wouldn't scare her away or she wont' scare you away, also then you can see if she is into you. the sparks will fly if they need to.





then, at the end of the day, if all goes well, tell her you'd like to see her again, but just the two of you.
If she wanted you to come over, would you like it if she suggested you bring another guy along? Does that not give the wrong idea? How are you going to get closer if you are never able to talk alone together?
I would just invite her over not another one of her friends because she might think you like her friend and not her. You could never really figure out if she likes you but if you guys had a fun time together and you felt a ';connection'; ask her out. If she says no dont give up because she might not be sure if she really likes you or not. If she does say no you should still invite her over sometimes to let her no you still like her if she figures out she likes you too.
Just ask her out already. Your thinking too much. Set up a simple date,just the two of you ,and see what happens. The worst that can happen is she'll say NO. At least you'll know where you stand with her.


Good Luck!
yes step up and invite just over her. i'm not sure about swimming though. tha can be intimdating, baring almost all in a bikini.





how about just a movie to start?
andrew is a perv.


ask her friend if she likes you.


yes? invite her over by herself


no? forget about it dude find another girl thats into you
throw a party with her close friends and urs and make sure that the other guests will be occupied wile you go for her.
wow i have the same situation...except im a girl.
Just invite her over and if she asks if she can bring a friend tell her you don't care what ever would make her comfortable.
get together with her and her friends and you and your friends and do something all together, if she gets near you a lot or if there is any sign of flirting ask her out by herself next time
you should ask her if she would be more comfortable if the girlfriend came along, and trust her judgment.