Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Girl advice. I DO NOT need to know how to 'make a move' etc?

I need some advice about girls. 聽 I don't need to know how to 'make a move', or get a girl friend, I need REAL advice. 聽 OK, so I have liked this girl named Emily for like, idk, around 2 years now, give or take a few months. 聽So she told one of my friends She likes me, and then he obviously told me. 聽 So I told her I liked her, and so me and her have been going out for about 6 months now. 聽I don't want to sound stuck up about this or anything, but a lot of girls have crushes on me. 聽 There is another girl named Becky, who has liked me, according to her, 8 years!!!!! 聽I think Becky is cool and all, but she is like obssesed with me!!! 聽 Emily has been getting hate mail from Becky, and other girls saying they have had crushes on me longer than Amanda has. 聽 Now don't get me wrong or anything, I'm a teenage boy, I love the attention from girls, but I need a way to be nice to these girls, without being 'unfaithful' to Emily. 聽Oh, I just got back from summer camp, and all of my friends were ALWAYS talking about girls, but none of them got any girls phone numbers or anything, but I ended up with 3 girl's phone numbers!!!! 聽And I have a gf!!! 聽How is that?!?!?! 聽 And it is not like I was hiding it or anything, everyone knew. 聽So anyway, I guess I need a way of being respectful, and nice to these girls without being unfailthful to Emily. 聽I have already tried telling them that I have a gf, but think they are cool and I would like to be friends with them. 聽But I mean they just won't leave me alone. 聽 Oh, I really need some help knowing what to say to Becky, she is always really depressed and if I am not REALLY careful what I say she could be really upset. 聽Becky is always sending me emails asking if I hate her, or if I am ignoring her. 聽And don't hate her, I also dont ignore her, believe me!! 聽I almost pay more attention to Becky then I do Emily, and that's a lot of attention!! I would also like a 'dads' perspective, I mean, I probably look at this whole situation WAY differently then these girls dads would.Girl advice. I DO NOT need to know how to 'make a move' etc?
im sorry to tell you this but you can not be friends with the girls if they have crushes on you, it depends how much you like emily,you are very lucky to have all these girls chasing you,but it depends what you want at this moment in time, if you like the attention and want to play the field abit ( as your only young) then carry on as you are,at the risk of losing emily,she will get fed up of all this attention, if you want a girlfriend then your gonna have to be firmer with the other girls and clearly tell them your not interested,the more attention you give them,the worse they will be, which in the long run is better for them cos they can move on and find another boy that will go out with them instead of waiting round for you,are you sure you dont like becky more than emily? if you dont, you need to stop paying her so much attention, its giving her false hope,you sound like a nice guy im sure you will do the right thing, good luck!Girl advice. I DO NOT need to know how to 'make a move' etc?
okay, you're doing this like ALL wrong... first of all you are already being somewhat disrespectful to your current gf by all this behind the scene stuff... and paying more attention to a girl that sounds legit crazy than you give to your gf is messed.... Who cares if girls like you and for how long or who likes you most?!?!? YOU HAVE A GF, THEY NEED TO GET OVER IT. You cant always be the nice guy, and obviously these girls dont get the hint because you are being too friendly. Either you need to say hey, back off, i have a gf or you need to be single. It sounds like you enjoy the attention so i honestly dont think its fair to your gf that you are also paying all these other girls so much attention... its also kinda jacked that you are allowing that becky girl to harrass your gf.. you should dislike her, not try to make her feel good about herself.. You should be standing up for your gf..... it sounds like you dont even care about her.. you should seriously just be single because you seem to like all the girl attention.
First off: Tell the girls straight out you have a girlfriend... You dont have anyhting to lose by saying that!? tell them you think they're really cool you just arent atracted to them and you would love to just be friends. If you really like emily and are completely faithful to her then make sure she knows that.





This is what you should say to Becky:


Becky, you're really cool and all I am just not so attracted ot you. I really like Emily and I wouldn't hurt her in any way. Of course i dont hate you I dont have a reason to hate you! Look, all i am saying is that I hope we can be friends still.





Hope it helps!!
wow no fence but ur names Pianoman??? ok well just say BACK OFF ND MAKE EXCUSES FOR STUFF like txting nd emails nd tell emily EVERYTHING!!!! just ignore ur admirers nd act like emily is the only girl in the world! idk act boring Pianoman!

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