Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Girl advice: Is she into me?

I met this girl online. She emailed me and we soon then started ';talking'; through text messaging. We then moved it to AIM. I said I defintely felt a connection, she said the same. Anyway we plan to meet up (she's working two jobs and had her shift covered so she could go out with me) and last night we meet for mini golf. She calls me right before and asks where I am. Next thing I know she is walking through the doors on her phone (with me) and she smiles and we hug. All throughout the game we are standing close to each other, she is playing around, like tapping her club on mine, trying to make me mess up, talking a lot, etc. Oh and she was talking during one hole and said how when she said my profile she thought ';This guy is really cute...I'll message him.'; When I was about to putt she bumps her thigh on mine. Lots of physical contact. Anyway we make a bet (she chooses what the bet is) that the loser buys the winner coffee. Well I won. So she still suggested we go to the mall for coffee (she works at Starbucks). We get there and she introduces me to your boss and coworkers as her ';date.'; We sit and drink coffee, talk (for 40 minutes), and then we get up and go outside to watch a youtube video on her phone. So minutes later we depart. She knows I took the light rail/public transit there so she offers to give me a ride. I decline, say I'm meeting my friend across the street. We hug and I say we should see a movie soon. She replies ';Yeah I know totally'; and that ';we'll figure it out later.';





I thought she was into me and all that. But she hasn't texted me all day. I texted her around 2:30p to say ';everyone asked my friend and I why we went blond.'; She said she liked the blond buzz and was feeling it twice. Well she still hasn't replied.





What do you think? Am I worrying too much?





She does work two jobs and she has taken a while to text me back before we met too. Give me your advice, girls! Do you think she's into me...she's just busy working? Or is she ignoring me?





Oh and during talking in the mall I asked if she liked sushi she said no, but that I could still take her out to a sushi place and she would get chicken. I did joke obviously that you can't get chicken in a sushi place...but it was just joke and at the end of the date I made it known I wanted to see her again by saying we should see a movie soon.





And would a girl let you lean on her like I was outside at the end on her should for like 3 minutes if she didn't like you??





We're in our twenties.





Girl advice: Is she into me?
You NEVER tell your date that you're meeting friends after your date!!!!!! She's gonna think you were talking about her. Girl advice: Is she into me?
It sounds like she was into you. Give her a chance to answer. She's probably just busy. I'd find it odd if she didn't want to see you again after how you said she was acting towards you. Good luck.
2 many ppl on this site act like a failed date cld mean potential armageddon. chill n things will happen naturally. what is the point of worryin that som1 doesnt lik u? its not goin 2 make them like u. u owe it 2 urself 2 b urself - if she likes u, ur still urself, if she doesn't, then ur still urself. it sounds like she does, try n b content with that n approach the situation as from that standpoint. the thing 2 learn with dating is that people like 2 play games n only the strongest nerves need apply. sayin that, it sounds like the basis of sth fun if not everlasting.
Call her instead of texting. To hear a voice is so much more intamate to me. Maybe she's testing you to see just how in to her you are. Call her no more than three more times. If you hear nothing after the third time, leave it to her. Calling more than three times might say that you're desperate. But three times says I'm really in to you and I wish we could talk. You could even send her a small gift to her work to let her know how much you enjoy her and that she's on your mind. Two jobs is a lot of responsibility, so just chill out and keep that in mind.

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