Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Girl advice (first date)?

So I met this girl from a paid dating site last Friday night. We are both 24. We met at the movies, talked, I bought the tickets, and we went inside. All fine as we are talking, then the movie begins (Friday the 13th) and the first scary part she yelps and turns her head close to me. I put my arm around her and she immediately snuggles up against me. We are whispering/talking all through out the movie. I am touching her, she is all over me, putting her legs in between mine, laying her head on my stomach, etc. After the movie (ended at 11:30p) we walk around the city, talk, laugh, have a few moments where we get quiet and she looks down (like that moment girls know you are about to kiss 'em and yeah)...so I ask ';if I kiss you are you gonna go taw kwon do on me?'; b/c she took two karate classes. she smiled and said ';guess you'll have to wait and see...'; so I kissed her, she kissed back and the rest of the night we are kissing, she'll say something, then kiss me, say something, kiss me...for ex: ';so, how are'; *kisses me* ';you..'; *kisses me* etc. lol.





anyway toward the end we are talking about meeting up again another day. she says ';i'm gonna make you see a chick flick next time.';





so she has me walk her to her car, as she puts my arm inside hers and we walk oh and yeah she let me hold her hand in the movie theater. we kiss one last time at her car, say bye, and that's that.





so the next night i text message her saying, ';Hey! hope ya have fun tonight.'; b/c she told me before she was going out with her girlfriends.





she texts back like 5 minutes later and says ';thanks. happy vday!';





The next day (sunday) I text her at 2:30p and say ';so when are you free to see that chick flick?'; she still hasn't texted me back yet.





what's up? obviously was interested on the date, yet she hasn't gotten back to me. the only thing is when I asked her to the movies via that website it did take her like 3 or 4 day to reply (which she did, via text message on my phone). and she admitted she is slow at texting b/c she had to get a older smaller one. she works too and goes to school.





what do you think? should i wait it out and see if she texts me? or does it sound like it was a ';in the moment'; deal?





Oh and during the date she was saying how I'm a nice guy and she likes that. She was letting me touch her butt when we were making out too. Cuz she's like she told 3 people where she was and has a curfew, ';just in case'; but she definitely sees I'm a nice guy now.





Oh and the date lasted til 1:30a. She likes ';I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but my curfew ends in 10 minutes..';





She was obviously very into me on the date...but I'm so confused why she hasn't texted me back. Like I said she took 3 or 4 days to text me to let me know she wants to meet for the movie, so maybe she just is the type not to text back til she decides on a good day to meet again..i dont know...girls are weird!





How will it look to her if I call her, or email her on that site? Cuz I sorta lost her number...well deleted it b/c she didn't reply...or should I just wait on her?Girl advice (first date)?
Do it, go ahead and email that site. Let her know you want to date her.





or else just wait, if she likes you


she'll find a way to get


back to you

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