Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Girl Advice...its quite long, sorry :(?

I am 18 years old and this girls looks around 23/24 (I'm not sure of her exact age). We attend this religous function, where a lot of my family (e.g. cousins, aunts, uncles, etc.) and other friends go. Last night was the last time I would see her, as we live far away and only see each other during this function.





My family are really weird when it comes to girls. If I am seen talking to a girl, they're all like ';ooo, who was THAT girl'; or (singsong voice) ';you have a girlfriend. hee hee hee';.





Throught the time the function was going on, I saw her looking at me and I found myself staring at her aswell. Yesterday was the last time I could talk to her for a year and so I thought ';who cares, let me go and talk to her';. I didn't get a chance but at the end, everyone was putting away these tables and I saw my (female) cousin helping her with a table, so I thought ';let me help my cousin and hopefully my cuzin will leave us alone';.





As I went to help me cousin, I SWEAR I heard the girl say something like ';well...wt u doin'; in this downgrading, sarcastic tone that I sometimes use when I am practically telling someone to get lost. I looked up quickly and I think she was giving me a dirty look. However, to be honest, I don't think a woman her age would be that immature, maybe it was my mind playing tricks on me or something??





I haven't been able to stop thinking about this since!! I keep feeling sick everytime I think of this and I haven't been able to eat all day!





Please can someone tell me what happened and what I should do!!





Thank you soo much in advanceGirl Advice...its quite long, sorry :(?
You shouldn't worry about it , like seriously i could be nothing. You might have just thought she said it. The only real thing i can say is that you should try and ask your family if they know her or have any information on her. ( most likely ask the ones that had connect with her like your cousin). Because the only way this can be resolvedd is if you talk to the girl ( over phone, or e-mail, or in person). However you can try to find out her name and look her up on facebook , or myspace( even though it seems stalkerish ) i think it is okay since your not eatting and stuff, but if you do find her i would explain that you found her beauty amazing and you would like to get to know her. but if none of this works you shouldn'tt worry about it your only 18 and so you have enough time. Also since you don'tt know anything about her you should not be so attached to her because she might not be the girl you think she is. Just because their pretty doesn't mean their personality is. just something to think about.

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