Girl advice i could use an outside opinion!!!?

This is this girl at work that I've known for a couple of months and i've liked her since we first met. We talk a lot while at work and at times we flrt like crazy and even my boss tells me to go after her. I knew she was in an on and off relationship with a GUY WHO HAS CHEATED ON HER! and up until today which was when i was going to ask her out, i was talking about with someone else and she said she is going back out with that guy. It pretty much ruined my whole plans and my day. I think am sure i can pull her away from this guy. Even though she is taken to a douchebag would it be alright to ask her to dinner and then to a movie and say just as freinds even though I wouldn't mean it? and would it be inappropiete to try and hold her hand to see if she would let me?Girl advice i could use an outside opinion!!!?
If the guy is a dirtbag I would start the conversation with you deserve someone better. Most women would follow that up with oh yea like who. That is your opening. Just say';me';. Thats the ice breaker. It's a fun way to show her your interested and at the same time you wont really be crossing any bounderies. Just make sure no matter how intense a moment gets you dont kiss her or touch her in that way until she is for sure done with her boyfriend cause she'll hold that to you in a relationship and think well he didnt mind doing when I was in a relationship who says he wont do it to me. That sort of thing, especially with a girl who has already been cheated on. Good luck! Hope it works out for you!Girl advice i could use an outside opinion!!!?
you took too long to make your move and she doesn't want to be alone/thinks she can't get anything better. move in and take her away from the creep.
fristly, i think its easier to answer y girls stay with guys that cheat.


becasue their whole lives they hear that all guys are animals! personally, i still believe that, just to diffeernt degrees lol.


so when a guy cehats on them, they feel like they are being very understanding to him, because the guys have more hormones and the grls will never ACTUALLy kno wat it feeels like, so they just live with it sometimes......and they know that a lot of the time the man is just someone who will Never be physically satiated with only one girl , even if emotionally he still does love the girl.


and if she loves him back, then she might give in.


i dont think this is true for every girl, but it is probably the case for girls that take back their boyfriend again and again.





personally, althoguh i know its a hard decision to make, i think it would be better if you waould wait to make a move on her. if you start the process of asking her out now, then she will start getting very confused abotu you, and not know how to put this new factor into the equation of a boyfriend which she must really like that keeps on cheating on her. if it really is something on and off, then the best idea is probably to try to move on until she gives it up again with her current bf, and hten u can feel much better about doing anythign with her. also, she will never let herself enjoy hanging out wiht you when she is with someone else.


i think in the end its up to you, and what kind of girl she is though.....


good luck!!


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Why do u like this chick?? see!!! She likes someone that did wrong to her and you want someone that will never love u like u deserve 2 b loved.





Keep yourself away from her, even if she breaks with his ex again, she will only use u like a tissue to clean up the mess he left.
I would first found out if she is serious about getting back together with this other guy. If she is serious about getting back together then I would go for it. If she is serious then you need to move on.
if you're going to ask her to a movie and dinner then ask her, don't say just as friends or a date whatever happens happens, with you not saying just as a friend or it's a date that leaves your options open, the reason women sometimes date douchebags as you said is because sometimes we think that's all we can attract, so if she is dating that guy again it's because he took the iniative to ask her out, so just ask her and see what happens but don't say just as a friend and start making moves on her, you don't want to lose your friendship over how you feel...
I don't know if you should do it, it can result in a lot of drama. Im just gonna tell you to do it, ask her to the movies as friends. Don't try and hold her hand though. See how she responds. Take a chance.
I say go for it.....It makes me mad that guys would generalize us....';Why do girls stay with guys who cheat on them...'; thats so dumb. The only guys who say that are boys who don't know very much about women.....But anyways, Just ask her out already and hold her hand and stuf like that. You'll be glad you did. Good Luck...
i would ask her out to a dinner and movie.thats cool. and if she lets you hold her hand that good for you.


but...


i wouldnt make your mindset to be to 'pull her away from her guy' but to just be a sweet guy that wants to be her prince charming and will respect her and appreciate her. maybe she never had a guy like that before?





oh and if you try to hold her hand, dont do it in the begining of the date. i say wait a little to see if you guys are clicking. it will totally ruin the date if you try and she doesnt want to.





good luck!

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