Let me tell you, I have never ever had a male friend that hasn't hit on me.. Sometimes a female, no matter how attractive she may be, may just want a male friend.
Don't ask around, because if it gets back to her it may change things, and dont ask her outfront either, because you may put her in an awkward position.
I think you should ask her subtle questions i.e.
';Are you looking for a boyfriend at the moment?';
';Whats your perfect guy like?';
Questions that may give you an indication that she's into you, until she has given you enough reason to think she likes you, don't ask her!!
IN REGARDS TO THE COMMENT ABOVE MINE...
NEVER EVER EVER TRICK HER INTO MEETING UP WITH YOU.
A decent female will not appreciate your dishonesty.I need girl advice! (Girls click only very important please help!)?
I'm glad to hear.
As cliche as it sounds, honesty really is the best policy.. %26amp; it seems to have worked in your favour in this case.
But yes, stay persistent.. A friend that becomes a lover can be the best type of relationship.
Good luck.
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Ok, i think that you'll be fine. ask around and see if she likes you (aka, ask your friends to ask if she likes you and stuff) and keep flirting. one thing i do know is that women like their men smart...it's esteem not esteam....i promise it has nothing to do with hot water
first of all.. drop this attitude about yourself.. we girls don't like negavtive guys that make themselves feel small and lonley. girls want a guy whos ... kinda.. like powerful.. or sumthing. you know? some one who has a backbone! being shy is one thing.. but don't be so negative about yourself.. and drop suddle hints... you've already made it clear to her that you want to be her friend.. so make it go father. laugh with her.. look at her. stare. when she looks back just smile. and keep doing small things and build up.. be the one she wants to share secrets with.. to cry on.. and once you've done this.. if shes that important to you.. ask her out... say '; i heard from one a the guys that you wanted to be more then friends with me, im ok with that.. but i wanted to be sure that you liked me like that before we went farther.. if you don't like me like that its fine.. i just wanted to know how you felt.'; with this you can at least get your answer if you should keep trying for her or not.. girls want the guy to make the first move.. so don't wait for her to ask you.. ask her.. i hope i helped you some.. build up some self esteam...:) good luck!
You have to hang out with her outside of school!
If you don't see her outside of school you may not know who she really is. Just ask her to do something fun, and something that will keep you occupied (mini golf, go to an arcade, movies, or go somewhere where a lot of other people will be) so that there won't be any awkward silences or a dull moment. Flirt with her, or try to hold her hand. Something sweet and innocent. Then if she responds well, ask her out. Best of luck!
I was really good friends with this guy Brandon. And when he asked me out i had the same problem. Things were weird at first but i talked to him and said that even if someone happened between us he had to promise we would still be friends. We did end up breaking up and were still friends but not as close....
I've never been more in love though. I would never take back going out with him even if it means us not being AS close now.
-You have to decide for yourself, is it worth loosing a friendship over? Or maybe she'll feel the same way and agree to always be close. I think you should give it a shot, and just tell her exactly what you typed above.
send her a card or a present, but dont tell her who it is do stuff for her, without letting her know who you are. then when she is very curious and might happen to bring it up with you tell her that it was you who did all those nice things for her.
I know youve heard it a million times, and I dont like to hear it either, but the best thing you can do for yourself is BE yourself. We like a guy who acts normal for once : ) But just put your best out there and go for it! Dont sweat it too much or something is bound to go wrong. Good luck! %26lt;333
I like guys that think there good looking. Don't be too hard on yourself. Your probably good looking
well u dont want to rush things that fast but just give her hints dont go right to it just little by little and only time can tell and f she does than WAHOO! for u =]
ok, just think to yourself '; i can do this!'; because you can! next only hint at the question of do you want to be more than just friends, like say ';so what are your plans for the weekend??'; she'll think ';is this a date?'; and might even ask it out loud, then you say ';we'll that what i was thinking'; say this with pride and confidence cuz ';you can do this!'; and if all goes well you have your self a date!
p.s. don't rush things to much on your first date that way if it doesn't exactly work out it wont be too weird to go back to being friends! Good Luck and I hope I helped! :)
confidence dear, confidence !
with confidence, life will carry you very far.
you have to feel like you can do it, without
regreting anything.
get to know her a bit more, so that she can
get to know you better. once you guys talk
and things become casual, go for the question.
';will you go out with me ? ';
she isnt going to say anything but yes, or no.
it is worth the try and once you get to know
her and ask her, and if she says no, save
the friendship, and pretend like nothing has
happened.
my best guy friend has asked me out before,
but i rejected him. we are still best of friends
though.
the whole point is can you see her with you
in a great relationship, or a great friendship ?
I realize you don't want to get turned down but you'll never know if you don't tell her. She might get asked out by some1 ese if you wait to long. Ask her out...good luck
well im a pretty girl, and i have alot of guy friends. And they have ALL hit one me (let me know that they would be interested in something more than just a friendship) and if i wasnt interested i'd make sure that they understood that, and we always stayed friends.
you sound like a VERY nice guy!!!! it doesnt matter what u look like and i bet u dont look half as bad to yourself as u do to other poeple! and sence your so nice if u asked her out and she said no(very unlikely) then it pobobly wont ruin your friendship!! girls LOVE nice guys!!!!! not perverted guys!! if she does say no email me at mimirl22@yahoo.com and we can talk!!!!!!! hope i helped and good luck!!!!!!
here's the deal: its cute to be shy. play up your shyness.
my bf got my number this way:
he said, ';oh, me and my friends are going to dinner and a movie on (date). can you go?'; and then ask for her number (';want me to call you and tell you the time and where we're going?';). but heres the secret: dont invite your friends. it will be really cute if you just say, ';um, they couldnt come. its just you and me, i guess.'; so you guys will have time to talk. ask her out at the end of the night--at dinner, maybe?-- but in the middle of a conversation, so its not awkward. give her a hug and a peck on the cheek at the very end of the night.
GOOD LUCK with your love!
This is tough.
I'm having a smilar problem,
but I've learned that girls generally can forget about things faster than guys. So just send her small signals, if she responds in a flirtacious way then move on to something bigger. Keep going like that until you're practically jumping each others bones and not even noticing. Then ask her out.
you should like give little flirt hints stuff and see how she reacts. if she goes along then she probably likes you or she is a tease but if she says ';oh'; or ';okay'; or something like that then she doesnt
just tell her cause if u dont then u will always wonder what she thinks of u
Keep talking to her and try to see if she gives you signs that she likes you. Like, making eye contact, smiling alot, laughing at most of your jokes. Then go from there, either ask her out, or just keep her friendship.
Good luck!
Maybe you should try to get involved with her a little more before making a move. You say you only talk a bit here and there about music and stuff, so she might not see you as boyfriend material...yet! Build up a better friendship first, and if it actually leads to anything then go for it. If she doesn't feel the same way, you will at least have her as a friend! Good luck, I am rooting for you. Please let me know what happens!
ok what u need to do is in the general convosation say
';Hey i really wana see (insert name of current movie here) wana go some time?';
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