I've known this girl for 2 years now. We met at a camp, and live relatively far away at the moment. We keep in touch through facebook/text messages. It used to be once every week and a half, but recently I was able to see her for just the 2nd time since that camp.
We hung out for 5 hours on a saturday night (with some of her friends, I came to one of her old high school's shows). We said our goodbyes, hugged, and left. 10 mins later, I got a text saying it was too bad we couldn't hang out longer. After that night we've been texting/Facebook posting or IMing every other day on average, and that was a month ago. Since then she's offered to help me move in to my new college and posted this on my note about transferring:
';I feel bad for all your friends at (college). But I gotta say, I'm happy it will be easier to see you.
Remember... if you need help, just call me up. I love (city)!';
Positive signs generally. But as of recently she's responding to conversations I start with short answers, and completely ignored me earlier today when I asked her how things were going through FB chat, cause her status said she was basically crying (though she did later go idle).
Any opinions? I would really like to know, I do like her and would love to ask her out if that's what she's hinting at.Girl advice please? Where does this stand?
There could be a couple of conclusions to this:
1.) She's irritated with some kind of problem so she doesn't wanna talk to nobody. Therefore, short answers, ignoring, etc.
2.) She found another guy she's interested in so she thinks that the best way to not hurt your feelings is to slowly stop hinting that she's attracted to you... Therefore the ignoring, blatant answers to questions....
3.) She could be confused with her feelings and thinking about long distance relationships and that maybe it won't work out so she's trying to distance herself from you.
The best way to figure this out is to just ask her but if you really want to tell her about your feelings, you can always bring that up in a chat and get a sure fire answer.
Good luck.Girl advice please? Where does this stand?
Dude... she probably had a boyfriend who found out she was chatting with you and then broke up with her. I'd suck it up and tell her that you'd like to date her and get it out in the open. If she says yes, then SCORE. If no, you won't be wasting anymore of your precious time.
Crying over whats prob a seperate issue...
Her answers were short because she was distracted...
She prob just didnt want to talk... Dont take it personally
ask her out first..if she's been crying for any reason--its your chance to ask her out and cheer her up =)
You know maybe she had a rough day and needs someone to listen to her vent try calling and don't offer her solutions to her problems unless she asks for them. And ask her out obviously she likes you most girls want a fairy tale and want to be asked out without admiting how much they like you (I know don't ask it's a girl thing lol I'm the same way) besides what have you got to lose you don't see her that much and the worst answer is no.
my guess is she found someone else who lived closer to her and is sad because she does like you but doesn't think it can work anymore and thats why shes kind of avoiding you...id try to call her up so you can have a serious convo--tell her u care about her and as much as u want to be with her would understand if theres someone else...this prob isnt what you want to hear so sorry :( but u really should communicate to her..i could be totally off track
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
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