Friday, January 8, 2010

Need Some Genuine Girl Advice - Girls only?

Hey guys, i'm new to yahoo answers. My entire life i've been extremely good with women, i'm very good looking, and have a great personality, not to mention i have a great job making top dollar doing art direction at a high up business firm, and I'm only 19. Now that you have a general idea of me, i've only had one girl i've been serious with, i used to be huge womaniser (secretly, as in not making it completely obvious to other girls) . After i fell in love a year and a half ago i realized that there is so much more to relationships and women than just sex. And i yearned for that feeling that a special woman has in your heart.





Right now after being single for about 5 months, I met this girl thats a mutual friends with one of my closest friends. I began talking to her via facebook, for a bit. We hung out in person, and she really like the way i looked, and my outgoing yet friendly personality. After that i would text her and speak to her on facebook, having one special deep talk. After that She seemed a little reluctant to talk to me, and god i hate girls that send mixed signals





So today i asked her basically if she enjoys talking to me, and she asked that she likes talking to me alot and that i seem like such a sweet guy, but she hates how we talk and then for 2 days i dont really talk to her as much. I understand where she is coming from, but i have learned always to give women their space, no one wants a super clingy guy thats constantly talking to her. However when i try talking to her today for instance, she's there but she's online or available on the phone, but sometimes she doesn't respond at all, and might go off to IM someone else sometimes.I just want to get closer to her, win her heart one day, who knows?





I can tell she's special and oddly enough already i care about her a little. ( as it is usually hard for me to get attached) If anyone can give me advice as to what she might be thinking , or maybe what to do, i'd appreciate it alot, and choose a Best Answer.Need Some Genuine Girl Advice - Girls only?
Wow, you sound like an amazing guy. You see more than just looks and all the other things jerks look at in us girls. You see the person on the inside, which is rare for a person to look at now a days. So, pat yourself on the back for that. Now, if she has told you that she likes you but doesn`t like how you talk, then skip 2 days and talk again, she is telling you she wants to talk more often. So, try to do that but ask if it is a bad time or if you should just talk later. This way, she knows you want to talk and aren`t forgetting about her or avoiding her, but she also gets that you are just giving her space that she needs. I hope she sees what a good guy you are. Best of luck! ( :Need Some Genuine Girl Advice - Girls only?
Maybe your ';deep talk'; freaked her out. Perhaps it gave her a glimpse of you she did not like %26amp; that is why she is now hesitant to speak to you. Also, if you are on Fabebook or online 2 days in a row, %26amp; she is online %26amp; sees that you are online, yet you didn't her, she may think you are not that in

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interested. Let's face it, if a girl likes you or has a crush on you or is REALLY interested, %26amp; she knows you are online, she doesn't want you to wait two days to say hi. That is rude, like ignoring her. It would be like if you saw her at school several timew 2 days straight %26amp; never went %26amp; said

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';hi';. Wouldn't you say hi to your friend everytime you see them online, or at school, or whatever? Then if you like her as a friend or more, you need to at least give a polite ';hello'; each time you see her online or in person. Otherwise, she will move on to the next guy her gives her REALattentn.

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