Thursday, December 31, 2009

Need Girl Advice Help Please!?

So.. I like this girl at my school but she has a boyfriend... They just started going out like 5 days ago and before she started going out with him I heard her telling her friend she didn't want to go out with him because she thought he would get no where in life. Well there is a farewell dance coming up and I want to know if I should ask her to that, wait till they break up and ask her during summer or wait till next year? Btw school is over in 7 days... Now why I think she likes me.. Whenever I am walking down the hallway behind her she looks back a couple of times... Now she stops and walks behind me.... Also in class she has her knees my direction and is either looking at me or in my direction.. Please give me advice on what to do.Need Girl Advice Help Please!?
lol okay I know this sounds crazy but tell her to dump her boyfriend for you...BUT ASK HER WHAT SHE THINKS OF YOU and don't ask her while her boyfriend is going out with her other wise there might be a very bad argument.Need Girl Advice Help Please!?
just flirt :)
This girl definitely likes you! If she's looking your direction or at you she's totally interested. That sucks about her boyfriend :( It always sucks when you like someone but they're dating someone else.





As for asking her to the dance while she has a boyfriend, that might be a bad idea because her boyfriend might get really mad! And if it was the other way around and you two were dating you wouldn't want another guy to ask her out while you were dating her.





My best advice would be to just wait till the summer to ask her out or ask her out when they aren't dating anymore. And it doesn't seem like she likes him very much so thats a very good sign:)





Just be patient and good luck with everything. And remember, they say good things come to those who wait!!
idk .

I need mostly girl advice on this. But just advice would be nice .?

Well me and my bestfriend always fight and I dont understand why. She's very protective and easily gets mad. I used to be like that but I try my hardest not to be anymore and I think im doing a good job but sometimes I feel like I cant tell her things I should tell a bestfriend. I trust her fully and thats not the issue. But its just that she usually gets mad at the truth or my opinion. And theres no way im ending our friendship theres too much we haved planned with each other and I wont ruin it for one problem . By the way right now were in a fight because she knows when im mad its best that I stay myself for a couple minutes and I walked out and she was in my room and it's pretty late and I live in a six family house and she slammed the door and I was very angry because next door they have a baby and she slammed it loud. ! But i just told her I find it very disrespectful and she shrugged her shoulders like saying I dont care.I need mostly girl advice on this. But just advice would be nice .?
DO not have her over so late and friends fight all the time. I know what you mean about not telling her things because she would react crazy. My best buddy is like that. The 2 of you have your own personalities and you'll get thru it. Next time she goes off just tell her you hate it when she gets that way and you are going to walk away because it's not worth fighting over.I need mostly girl advice on this. But just advice would be nice .?
thats not a real bestfriiend.


thats just wrong.you honestly dont need her as a friend.SERIOUSLY.


yu need a new bestfriend.b/c she's not one.


i dont think she needs the title as a ';Bestfriend';,,she needs to be considered as just a friend.
i think if shes your best friend you shuld be able tooh tell her absoulty everything..if not tthen the best fried thing isnt real..its justa label..fighting with ur besty is normal, ersonalities dont always meshh..
gosh that is so like wasting yur time


go nd find some else
sounds to me like she has some issues of her own.





i think the problem here is that you're not sure if shes your best friend. yes yes you have already planned so much with each other, but dont tell me that youve never doubted it? exactly.





its okay.





sometimes you feel you cant tell your best friend things mostly because youre afraid of something. whether its the fear or them telling other people, or because youre afraid that theyll get offended.





if she really is your best friend, she'll come around. why dont you confront her? if shes your best friend, you should know most things about her. how pissed she gets, how soft she gets, what makes her soft, what makes her pissed, etc.





but youre right, too.


you should give it a couple of days.


3 days to a week, would probably be best if you need time to think this over.





then you can confront her, carefully, and tell her that she should try to not get pissed off easily.





hope i helped, and good luck hon!


:) xx.
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  • Some girl advice please?

    Im talkin to this girl from msn from my school(im 16 btw), and i dont really talk to her in person, and i really really really like her, and i dno if she likes me, but i really want to tell her how i feel, but i just cant...





    And at school im sort of the less popular sort of person, and she is quite the opposite, anyone got any ideas on what i can say to her?





    Hints/tips would be good.


    Best answer will be chosen





    BTW - we have been talking for about 7-8 months, and she has started the convorsations on msn a couple of times:)Some girl advice please?
    just ask her out, as in to go somewhere not as in to start a relationship. and then see where it goes from there = ) hope it helpsSome girl advice please?
    you need to spend time with her in real life, if you tell her stuff on msn it could go wrong for any number of reasons.





    Meet up with her, spend some time, see how u get along. I would advise you not to make a big speech to her about your feelings, just start by casualy holding her hand, see how she likes that, then make a move and try and kiss her, just take it easy and keep everything chilled.





    !
    I know how hard it is when you really like someone but are worried if you tell them how you feel, they might not feel the same.


    It's easy for people to just say ';go for it'; but if you just don't have the confidence it's not that easy...


    The good thing is, this girl, who you say is so popular (and therefore has plenty of people to talk to on MSN) has chosen to talk to you, and for months, so you clearly have a lot going for you. Trust me, she obviously cares for you or she wouldn't bother!!! The thing is now to find out just how much she cares, and if it is just in a friendly way or could be more.


    Maybe you could try flirting on msn a little, tell her you thought she looked really pretty in that dress she wore last time you saw her (or something along those lines) You don't have to put all your cards on the table %26amp; ask her outright on a date. But maybe get a couple of mates together %26amp; go to the cinema, and ask if she might like to join you? Play it cool, but up your confidence a bit and be more positive. Good Luck xx
    When you get a chance, just approach her (in person!) the same way you'd approach anyone else.





    Popularity, looks, money....who cares? All those things are materialistic smokescreens people let get in the way of potentially meeting great people.





    Whatever you do in life, never put anyone on a pedestal for any reason. You two already know each other, so just start talking to her in person the same way you would if it were MSN.





    Good luck.
    I would ask her out if it was me and the worst she can say is no and then you will know where you stand and can move on to someone else.


    When you start dating you can't be afraid of rejection otherwise you find yourself letting opportunity's slip through your fingers.


    If you have been talking for that many months then she obviously doesn't find you terrible to talk to!


    Be brave and ask her out. If you feel shy to do it in person why not casually ask her to see a film when chatting on MSN?
    Well, you shouldn't try to be someone else to get her to like you, be yourself and try to be friends with her first. Try talking to her more outside of msn and just because she starts the conversation dosen'd necesarily means she likes you likes you, but it means that she does like you as a friend (that's GOOD :D)





    Goog luck!!

    Help? girl advice? ---------> confused?

    Okay theres this girl in my college. I see,talk,laugh,joke etc everything you can think of within friends - I do every day Lol. Everyone thinks we should both go out - with the amount of time we spend with each other and how much we laugh,giggle, at each others funny if not stupid jokes etc.





    Today she was assigned to deliver something in a basket to a teacher in the school? I said oh dont worry I will come with you ---%26gt; I said let me hold the basket - and she said No I want to do it myself? ----%26gt; then we had this little giggly sort of fight over the basket and she ended up giving it to me. Then when I was outside the classroom - about to go in to give the basket - instead of waiting for me to give it to the teacher she ended up walking back without me? If she cared would she have waited? And if so or not why did she walk off?





    I really like this girl but I dont know what she feels like? Can someone give me an insight to what you think of the situation?


    Bear in mind were both 17 years olds?





    Thanks folks all advice is appreciated! :) xHelp? girl advice? ---------%26gt; confused?
    Girls are just like that. That's why they are interesting creatures. Or, rather, dealing with them is interesting endeavour.





    You should understand that we are human beings. And girls are no less human than you or me. I think you know what I mean, lol.


    What I am saying is, like you and me, she has also her own set of individual personality make-up that is, for sure, different---- or different even from anybody else. Different from all the other girls you have already known, and much different from any other girl you will still know in the future. (You don't stop looking at girls, do you? lol) And as I have said, that's what makes girls interesting. You know, I just dread the thought that, what if girls would just be like ---- or what if we were just like dogs that we just sniff each other's behind and then, when the chemicals are just right, then that's it. Would you like that? (Don't answer, no need, that will not happen according to evolutionists)





    So, what I am saying, is, take that incident as a probing experiment. You both got into a snag. So, calculate how intense it is, and then also consider how soon or easily you both could get over it. That could serve as a ';model'; scenario for other future entanglements you will have.





    But at the end of the day, it will be you who will decide what course of action you will do. I am right here miles and miles away from the scene. You are there right at ';zero ground'; so you have more visuals to judge from, as they say. Decide what's appropriate in your judgement.Help? girl advice? ---------%26gt; confused?
    I think she just laughs with you to be nice. A girl that's just being nice is Not in love. I think it was rude of you to take the basket, then you get the ';credit'; and not her. Probably why she left. I'd bring this up to her to see if it's the case and if it is, end with an apology. She may find you more attractive for this gesture than your stupid giggly stuff!
    i think she might just want to be your friend and you may be reading more into it than there is





    but im 15 and could be wrong so i do hope this helps

    Need girl advice!!!!!! please help ?

    what are the best things to say she n you flirt witha gil. I really like this girl and we talk all the time and I want to know the best thngs to say when talking to her. also what are the best parts to touch her at, like her legs arms, thighs, stomach or what else, where do girls lie to be touched at, I'm a 15 year old freshman at a private school where the girls have to wear skirts all the time. also she always draws on my arm and I kneed to no where to draw back and what to write on her leg. also sometimes I will just scribble on her thigh rite above her knee and I was wondering if I should try moving up her leg a little bitNeed girl advice!!!!!! please help ?
    do things and if she doesnt aprove of it then u know wewere to stop lolzNeed girl advice!!!!!! please help ?
    wow i would never let a guy scribble on me especially on my THIGH thats rude! you should keep you rhands off of her!.. she kinda sounds slutty! =/
    dont move up 2 much farther or that would be pervish!
    do somthing with her boobs
    Wow---flirtation at 15 involves writing on each other---the middle schoolers I teach do the same things. Number one---don't rush, she obviously likes you enough to talk to you, but you're 15, you shouldn't be worried about touching a girl intimately as a freshman in HS---I'm not an ';abstinence'; pusher or anything, but it seems obvious by the fact that you posted this question that maybe you aren't quite ready for all that yet. Besides---why spoil a friendship--if it is a private school, you are there for 3 more years--it is probably a small environment--no need to create an uncomfortable situation that could last several years if it goes wrong.

    I need Girl Help...Girls advice?

    I like this girl but I don't know if she likes me...


    I'm an OK looking guy (I guess)


    I talked to her friend and asked her to find out what she thought of me but the only problem is that her friend didn't ever tell me what she said...(I don't know if that's a bad thing or not, I'm thinking bad thing since she hasn't told me anything) Should I ask her what she said or should I grow up and just talk to the girl myself and whatever happens, happens?


    I'm not a cocky guy, I play sports, I already got into college, I dress with the latest fashion, just about everybody knows me in the school...BUT when it comes to girls things hardly ever seem to work out for me...AM I not doing something or what?


    Prom is coming up and I can't fly solo...


    ANY ADVICE would be VERY HELPFUL....


    Thanks!I need Girl Help...Girls advice?
    maybe the girl doesnt want to tell you because maybe she like you and wantes you for herself.....and if you like the girl just ask her out to the prom you never know what can happen maybe she will say yesI need Girl Help...Girls advice?
    Well if you're a senior, then I'd say it's high time you learned to talk to girls yourself.





    Girls don't want a man who will run to their friends. They want a man that will talk to them themself. Just don't be cocky when talking to her--because that's totally a turn off.





    Just be yourself, and if she likes you...then everything will work out : ]





    Best of luck !!!
    Just ask the girl yourself, the worse that can happen is she says no
    Okay lucky for you this an easy scenario. Trust me girls like it better when you come and ask them out yourself. For all you know the girl that you like told her friend not to tell you her answer. Maybe she wants you to make the first move and come and find out yourself, that is A LOT sexier when a guy is dependent on himself, not on what her answer is. So just go up and ask her to out, or just to prom to see if you really like, because prom can tell you everything about a person. So just go up and ask her cause the worst she can say is no...and if she does ask someone else, because then maybe she wasn't for you. Good Luck!

    Need a girl advice, please help!?

    I met that girl in my class in college and she seemed to show interest in me as well and I like her so much.... The thing is that she had bad relationship before and she is afraid to try again coz she doesnt wanna get hurt again. I explained that I am not the next asshole in the bar and all that but she still doesnt know what to do. I know I should not rush things because I dont wanna push her away. Please give me some advice!


    P.S. I am thinking about her all the time and that kills me. Need a girl advice, please help!?
    you really gotta give her time. instead of saying your not the next asshole in the bar, show her that you mean it. if you're too pushy, she will more likely to reject you!Need a girl advice, please help!?
    just be with her, her best friend i say and let her begin to trust you and understand that your not one of those guys.


    show her appreciation and cute things.


    dont rush into anything, this girl just had her heart broken.


    wait for her if you think she really worth it.





    hope that helps

    Looking for girl advice:why is she acting this way?

    me and this girl sometimes seem to be getting somewhere and then other times nowhere!





    we met up twice last week, nice kisses, touching hands across the table, long looks etc. great!





    then she didn't text me for 3 days, and ignored my text. then i said hey on facebook chat, said i'd give her a call this weekend, she said 'ok sure :D that'd be nice'. i text her the next day asking if she'd be reachable that night. she said she could'n talk that night (saturday) because she was going out. fair enough.





    she called me saturday night/sunday morning on her way home from that night out, for 20 mins. then she calls me the next night again unannounced for 15-20 mins again after her night out. she wasn't drunk either time. both of them nice chats. i mentioned how terrible she was at messaging back etc she apologised and said if i wanted to talk to her i should just call her. but calling is harder since i feel like i have to have something to say instead of just hey.





    so i text her the next day saying hey etc. got no reply the whole evening and no call. she was having a party but i text her like 6pm, before it started. heard nothing from her the whole night.





    today she pops up on facebook says hi how was my laser eye treatment (which i got today) answers my questions with one-word responses and doesn't ask anything back!





    so how have i gone from holding/touching hands, kisses etc, to hearing nothing from her at all, to her calling 2 nights in a row for a little chat, then to barely even having a decent conversation! in one week!





    she lives in a different city to study but is coming home this week sometime. i dont even know if i should ask her to see me or if that is just going to embarass me!? what should i do girls help me out! :S





    i want to get an answer from her but i'm scared that if i ask it'll just push her away, since i don't think she's looking for anything too complicated. at the moment i would feel weird dating another girl in case this one does in fact like me.Looking for girl advice:why is she acting this way?
    I think she definitely likes you but is not sure if she is ready for something serious, she might be in a relationship which she is not happy in and she is not sure if she really wants to end it completely and start a new one. I think she is confused. She does like you because she spends time talking to you. Thats a sure sign she finds you interesting. I would advice you to take things slowly and keep your friendship going. Do call her and just tell her you are free on saturday and if she would like you can go but also mention that on sunday you have already made a plan to go out with your friends so you are only available on saturday. We girls like guys who have a life and are not desperate. She will know that you have other fun things to do and you are not there waiting for her. She is not 'that' important that you will leave everything for her. That will make her want you more and scared to loose you.Looking for girl advice:why is she acting this way?
    Its because you haven't outrightly said oi , I like you and claimed her for yourself is why , just ask her out again and then her mixed messages should calm down
    Woah, what a confusing girl... She is sending mixed signals - maybe she is unsure whether she wants to date you, or date anyone for that matter? I think you two should just be friends and see if you become closer to her in time. Girls like when guys take the first step, so call her and ask her if she wants to hang out, but don't make it sound like you're desperate. Just give it time! Good luck! =)
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  • I NEED GIRL ADVICE ON GUYS.?

    Ok i have this kid in my class who one day says he loves me and then the next we are cursing at eachother........ does he like me or not? oh and i dont like him but it would help to kno if he did cuz then i would kno how he feels so i dont keep bagging on him.........and advice would be helpful...........................I NEED GIRL ADVICE ON GUYS.?
    Sometimes the schoolboy hits the girl he likes, then he gives her a flower. Then hits her again. I'd say he likes you.





    And he doesn't 'love' you.I NEED GIRL ADVICE ON GUYS.?
    Alright so he loves you and the whole arguing thing-thats the main sign he likes you, and i possible sign that deep down you might like him. But yeah he soooooo likes you so at a time when yall arent cursing at each other talk to him about him saying he loves you and tell him to be serious during the conversation
    I have hurt people, so please go away I believe that a long time cheater's heart, I





    believe that retribution would like to meet a kind-hearted you, because I definitely was





    not a smart woman, I like pure happiness, like a simple life, infighting and suspicion





    will allow me to feel tired, I think in my lifetime have a sincere smile ..hope ypu can





    wriote to my address: http://WorldLoveLand.com/en/lang135000about_fengru.html


    i will wait fpe you!pleaseneave let me sad.ok?
    yeah just get to know him and if he likes you then he'll ask you out

    Girl Advice!!! Do you think she likes me?

    This girl who I know in person never really spoke to me before. She was kinda indifferent and ignored me a lot. I told her this girl had a crush on me in 7th grade and she told all of her friends. And when I saw them they teased me a lot like crazy.. I don't know know she does this. Now she keeps talking about this girl from 7th grade on my facebook and keeps reminding me about her. Me and her also posted like 80 times on facebook because she kept wanting to talk to me. I like her too but she just was so mean to me before that I just can't trust the way she is. What do you all think?Girl Advice!!! Do you think she likes me?
    How long has it been since 7th grade? If it's been more than a year then I don't really think the way she acted in 7th grade can be the only thing you judge her on. Just go for it.Girl Advice!!! Do you think she likes me?
    i think she likes you but You may have to ask her out instend of her asking you out
    Sorry to say but i think she is just leading you on to hurt you again how old are yo


    u?

    Girl advice and trouble!!!!!!!!!?

    I recently came from a rafting trip. In this trip I was with some guy cousins and a girl cousin Who really know this other girl. This other girl and I both really like each other and we are trying to talk to each other because we're really shy(this is not the point). But on the rafting trip I was rowing properly and my guy cousins kept insulting me and kept saying that I wasn't doing a good job. I know I wasn't doing a good job but I was trying my best. I was in a pretty bad mood because of the way I was treated and my girl cousins was also sad because she realized that I was in a mad mood during the rafting trip. But the next day she got us kicked out of a shooting range and cried lol. Do you think she would tell her friend about the way I was on the trip? I don't know I was kind of the victim and I don't think she would say anything because she was also kinda victimized. What do you think???Girl advice and trouble!!!!!!!!!?
    first of all i dislike guys that think they know everything about everything so who cares about the dude that was telling you that you were not good at rowing it took me all season before i felt that i was good on oars and i am on the river every day it a hard thing to learn, do i think she will tell your girl about the way you were on the trip, well you have to ask her and explain why you acted the way you did. if anything thing comes of it just explain why you acted the way you did.Girl advice and trouble!!!!!!!!!?
    um what kind of story is this


    its so random.


    i think no
    she might if theyr good friends, but dont worry if anything u should tell the other girl straight up wat happen if she ask but she also might think that u were the victim

    I need girl advice Read details I really need some help especially a girls?

    Im not very good looking nor do i have a great body im kinda built but still a little chuby...I dont have to good looking of a face either. I can be funny but sometimes i can get really obnoxious and i no girls hate tht...i play baseball which im decent at....i can talk to girls when im with a group of people...its starting a coversasion with them alone thats a problem...I like this girl and one of my friends is going out with her and i cant stand it when they cuddle and crap....i really want to get a girl to like me and go out with me...but one that i am also attracted to...im 15 and still a prude...i feel weird asking strangers for help but i dont no how i can have a girl like me...i no people always say be yourself but girls dont like ME.....im sorry my details were long.I need girl advice Read details I really need some help especially a girls?
    Hello! Listen, 15 is a terribly difficult age. Brains aren't fully developed, bodies aren't fully developed, most girls haven't learned that looks aren't the most important thing, and most guys are bumbling idiots. I really don't mean to be insulting here, I'm trying to be very honest. My point is, you have plenty of time to learn the ropes of women. Making a sincere effort at this age indicates to me that you're on the right track to becoming a man that any girl would be lucky to end up with.





    I do have a couple of suggestions for you. I understand being insecure about your looks; almost every teenager is, at least a little bit... even the hottest girl in your class. A key to getting a girl to like you is learning to like yourself, all of who you are. Then you can be confident with who you are, and not only does that help you personally in many ways, but girls are attracted to confidence. You said you can be funny but sometimes you can get really obnoxious, and I suspect it turns into obnoxious when you're trying too hard. Natural confidence will help get rid of that urge to try too hard. A good way to start a conversation with a girl one-on-one is to ask questions and really listen to the answers. ';How's your day going,'; is a good and very simple one. Finally, don't try to be like all the other guys who are trying to get laid or being jerks to girls. I know it's the teenage norm, but if you never get into that habit, you'll never have to learn to break it the hard way. Good luck :)

    Girl Advice, talking to?

    Whats up people? I have had my eye on a really cute girl in my Econ class, and today I made the move to talk with her. It was a friendly exchange, smiles and all. She did not have a scantron so I offered her one, she said ';Oh no its ok'; with a smile. Then I was like, ';Alright, are you sure?'; with a smile, she said ';Yeah Ill be alright'; with a smile. Then that was about it, but it seemed like a good little initial contact. Anyways, I noticed she had a California Drivers handbook out, and I think next time I will ask if she took her license test and how it went, then ask for her name and stuff. Basically my question is more of, any other advice guys? Any stuff that wasnt obviously pickup lines, but really works? Dont say be yourself, I already am. haha, I am askign for extra advice here. Thanks Brah's





    ps, the class is only tues and thurs, so I only have two days with her every week.Girl Advice, talking to?
    ask her everything- her favorite movie, where she's from, her favorite food anything to get you a little closer to her heart, but be a little flirty when you talk to her, u don't wanna get stuck in the friend zone...Girl Advice, talking to?
    Well...ask her how her day has gone, REALLY listen and then let her response guide you. If you appear warm and concerned, then she will open up to you. Joke around a little, girls LOVE when a guy can make them laugh. Get her in a good conversation, and then walk her to class.





    GOOD LUCK.
    A question about the driver's test will not sound like you are stalking her but it will definitely let her know you are interested. No one else would be that observant. I think it is a good move. Go for it.
    well maybe start talkin about licences first and how you cant wait to get yours then ask her if she got hers then ask about the test. dont ask flat out how the test went cause then she might be like ';how the heck did he know i took the licence test?'; and you don't wanna come off as a creeper to her. she sounds like she at least thinks you're tight cause if she thought you were a weirdo she would have not smiled atcha. anyways, keep makin small talk then ask if she wants to hang out sometime. then move on form there! C: haha dude, i'm not your brah! jk jk my friend always says that
    Man, you already got half of it down. The hardest things for guys to do is that inintial conversation. But you already got that out of the way, so from there it's downhill. After you talk about the Driver's License, you should introduce yourself to her offically (because it sounds like you haven't done that yet).


    And then from there, you just gotta find openings in the conversation, it's really just gotta be natural.


    The next step after that would be trying to set it up where you see her outside of class, so either do some studying with her, or have lunch with her, or invite her to a movie. Being somewhere outside of school is a really good way to see if she is feeling you or not, because in school she is most likely focused.


    Good luck, and just make sure to be natural with whatever you do.
    You could find out who she usually hangs out with, and try and get involved in her group of friends. Try and hang out around her, but don't be TOO obvious... Also, if you see her in the halls, or at lunch go talk to her! Every girl (and guy!) likes to be liked, so take a chance.
    find out what she likes, and talk about that.
    WELL....if you ask her about her driving test and you guys didnt bring it up in the conversation it kinda will sound like you stock her....but go for it be your self...i know you probelly hear that alot but it works.
    it depends get more time to conversate eith her to see what her intentions are.
    AWE! That's sweet! Anyways, if you like her ask her out to a meal after whenever your class ends. Just make small talk is the big thing. I met a girl 6 days ago, and I'm gonna ask her out tomorrow because we talk on the phone for hours a night. But, this is coming from a High School student. But, I know my way around human emotions, especially girls! Trust me, she will show signs, just be more observant.
    jus talk to her more n get to noe her more b4 u make ur move.
    okay, so first you need to figure out her name, because youve already talked once and you should have asked it then... just talk to her like you would to one of your friends. dont act immature. the fake fart, talking about video games, ask about her interests and try to relate to them. if you dont, then ask her about it. dont stalk her just to say hi... thats kinda creepy, if you see her in the hall, make eye contact and say hi, and if you just happen to stop, start a short convo.





    good luck. :]

    Girl Advice?...please?

    Theres this girl that i've seen twice...Both times we have hooked up...But i dont really like her...she brought her freind the last time..and i was kinda feeling her..I think she liked me too..well..I talked to her online twice already and I asked her if she wanted to hang out again ..and she always says yeah..she's hardly online ..soo i have no other way to talk to her ..


    What should I tell her to let her know I like her ...


    I dont want to come on to strong...


    she has her number on facebook..but if i called her ..she would think im like stalking her..


    help??Girl Advice?...please?
    So then text her. It's less personal than calling. She probably won't mind since she put her number up there anyways.





    Start out with a friendly conversation asking how she is and stuff. Then slowly move your way upwards to asking her out.Girl Advice?...please?
    Stalking her would be like following her around, checking out her postings, her comments, knowing way too much about her without her telling you. If she has her number up on facebook, tell her that's where you saw it and hope she doesn't mind that you called. Go for it.
    Well, if you and her were fun people, I'll send her balloons with a message to her house,


    Or if you are romantic, then some flowers will do it.


    Put a message like ';Wanna hang / go out sometime? I really like you'; or whatever you would like to put. Not to sobby kind of message.


    All the best dude!
    confront her about your feelings. do it in a creative way.... she'll think it's sweet.
    if its a cell # text her and ask her if she wants to hang out, if its a phone # call and ask if she wants to go to a movie friday night (if your talking to her on the phone, be specific, so that it seems like you know what you want, and she'll most likely feel more comfortable saying yes and not feel like ur a stalker) and FYI if ur hot- not girls will think ur a stalker for trying to hangout w/ them





    good luck :))
    Well if her number is on her facebook then it must be an open invite to call her.


    Just don't call her too many times then you're a stalker..
    ';seen her'; as in... did her?





    *sigh* 12 year olds these days
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    I realize everybody has these problems. I feel like Yahoo Answers can be therapeutic.Looking for girl advice?
    tldr.Looking for girl advice?
    Just be confident and get out there.

    I need girl advice!!!!PLEASE help. thanks?

    I have been friends with a girl since 4th grade(we are now sophomores). I have always liked her, she has never admitted her she likes, so I have never told her that I like her. She can't date until she turns 16(next MAY). Should I tell her that I like her now or wait until then. I don't want to wait too long and have it be too late. We text all the time, and talk once in a while. She isn't a girly girl BTW. I don't know what to do, I don't want it to be too late for us to have a chance. Any suggestions?I need girl advice!!!!PLEASE help. thanks?
    ask her best friends.what you should get her... surprise her with a wonderful gift then ask her out. it would the best b-day present for her.I need girl advice!!!!PLEASE help. thanks?
    i think you should just ask her or tell her and then maybe do some comprimisation with her age, if you know her sooo well then im sure her parents will be fine with it.





    please help me out too


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





    thank you and hope i helped.
    well, you have 2 choices , wait till may and go out with her, or tell her u like her and date her secretly. But, you should try to get close with her either way so that when MAy comes u have somewhere to start
    dont pry from her friends..


    tell her and say you will wait for her.


    she will like you even more by saying that.


    even if she isnt a girly girl that makes them all melt.








    good luck :D



    NOW the sooner the better some other dude may ask him first or on the same day D=

    Girl Advice?...please?

    Theres this girl that i've seen twice...Both times we have hooked up...But i dont really like her...she brought her freind the last time..and i was kinda feeling her..I think she liked me too..well..I talked to her online twice already and I asked her if she wanted to hang out again ..and she always says yeah..she's hardly online ..soo i have no other way to talk to her ..


    What should I tell her to let her know I like her ...


    I dont want to come on to strong...


    she has her number on facebook..but if i called her ..she would think im like stalking her..


    help??Girl Advice?...please?
    ';seen her'; as in... did her?





    *sigh* 12 year olds these daysGirl Advice?...please?
    confront her about your feelings. do it in a creative way.... she'll think it's sweet.
    Stalking her would be like following her around, checking out her postings, her comments, knowing way too much about her without her telling you. If she has her number up on facebook, tell her that's where you saw it and hope she doesn't mind that you called. Go for it.
    So then text her. It's less personal than calling. She probably won't mind since she put her number up there anyways.





    Start out with a friendly conversation asking how she is and stuff. Then slowly move your way upwards to asking her out.
    Well if her number is on her facebook then it must be an open invite to call her.


    Just don't call her too many times then you're a stalker..
    if its a cell # text her and ask her if she wants to hang out, if its a phone # call and ask if she wants to go to a movie friday night (if your talking to her on the phone, be specific, so that it seems like you know what you want, and she'll most likely feel more comfortable saying yes and not feel like ur a stalker) and FYI if ur hot- not girls will think ur a stalker for trying to hangout w/ them





    good luck :))
    Well, if you and her were fun people, I'll send her balloons with a message to her house,


    Or if you are romantic, then some flowers will do it.


    Put a message like ';Wanna hang / go out sometime? I really like you'; or whatever you would like to put. Not to sobby kind of message.


    All the best dude!

    Looking for girl advice?

    I realize everybody has these problems. I feel like Yahoo Answers can be therapeutic.Looking for girl advice?
    Just be confident and get out there.Looking for girl advice?
    tldr.

    I need girl advice!!!!PLEASE help. thanks?

    I have been friends with a girl since 4th grade(we are now sophomores). I have always liked her, she has never admitted her she likes, so I have never told her that I like her. She can't date until she turns 16(next MAY). Should I tell her that I like her now or wait until then. I don't want to wait too long and have it be too late. We text all the time, and talk once in a while. She isn't a girly girl BTW. I don't know what to do, I don't want it to be too late for us to have a chance. Any suggestions?I need girl advice!!!!PLEASE help. thanks?
    ask her best friends.what you should get her... surprise her with a wonderful gift then ask her out. it would the best b-day present for her.I need girl advice!!!!PLEASE help. thanks?
    i think you should just ask her or tell her and then maybe do some comprimisation with her age, if you know her sooo well then im sure her parents will be fine with it.





    please help me out too


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    thank you and hope i helped.
    well, you have 2 choices , wait till may and go out with her, or tell her u like her and date her secretly. But, you should try to get close with her either way so that when MAy comes u have somewhere to start
    dont pry from her friends..


    tell her and say you will wait for her.


    she will like you even more by saying that.


    even if she isnt a girly girl that makes them all melt.








    good luck :D



    NOW the sooner the better some other dude may ask him first or on the same day D=

    A little girl advice on a problem of mine?

    Okay here is my problem. Two years ago i met this girl who ill call Robin. We instantly became good friends and a week later I found out she liked me. I liked her two. I didn't ask her out and she didn't ask me out because my best friend liked her too. Instead she went out with her x-boyfriend who ill call James and i went out with another girl who i didn't have feelings for as strong as i did for Robin. 1 week later i broke up with this girl and today Robin is still with James. Me and Robin are best friends to this day also but the thing is I never stopped liking her. I know she might feel something for me because one time when her and James were on a ';break'; she let me kiss her(James is a good guy although sometimes him and Robin get in fights). She also told me one time if my friend didn't like her at the same time as me she would have asked me out. I haven't had a girl friend sense i broke up with the one I mentioned earlier mostly because of Robin. I am a sophomore in high school, Robin is a Junior, and James is a senior. And after James graduates and goes to college I'm pretty sure they're planning on sticking together, but who knows? So basically my question is what do I do? Do I tell her how I feel? Do I just stay her best friend? Do I wait and see if her and James break up some day? I just can't stop thinking about her. Advice would be greatly appreciated.A little girl advice on a problem of mine?
    i would just talk to her about your feelings one day... if yall are best friends she will be happy to talk to you about it... just dont get your hopes up that she likes you too because it sounds like she really likes her boyfriend...





    tell her that you wanna stay friends with her reguardless of what she says abt how you feel...





    just talkin to her might help you be able to find someone special for yourself





    best of luckA little girl advice on a problem of mine?
    wait for them to break up and if they are going to it will when he goes to collage! It's hard to be so far apart and you will be there! just keep in touch with her and remain friends!
    Tell her how you fell, thats what I would want, maybe, in a note or texting if you want.
    Tell her how you feel. But say you don't want this mess up your friendship, you just have to let it out...
    stay her friend try not to get in between them and if anything does happen with them don't rush things
    If I were you, I would tell that person how you feel.
    well....this is a tough one. um if it was me i would ask her whats shes planing on doing. such as continuing being with ';james';. and ask her if she would ever wont to go out with you. good luck
    Confucious says: Life is not complicated. People make it complicated.





    Do what would make you feel the best.
    wow that was long
    just stfu and let james ride
    Brother, you don't have a problem. Single men and women cannot be friends. There will always be ';feelings'; from one or both. Best friends is just BS. Best friends is just your way to show her what a ';nice'; guy you are. She either likes you romantically or not. If her boyfriend is still in the picture, then she is with him because she thinks she can change him, it's a challenge. Women have that nurturing quality. You my friend, are safe. She knows that if her relationship fails, you will be there..where's the challenge? At your age, games are played. Stop being there. Let her know what she's missing. You obviously mean something to her. Tell her: ';good luck w/ your relationship, I wish you the best.'; Whenever they fail, and they will, you cannot be there to pick up the pieces. This is where you have to ask yourself: Do I want her as my girlfriend, or do I want to comfort her until she finds another A-hole to date.


    Good luck. You can do it!!
    Personally, I say stay away from her. She's playing both of you. Why would you even want to be with someone and she is not being completely faithful or honest with James. If you get with her what makes you think that she wouldn't do this with one of your friends. And plus you guys are young, you are going have that same feeling if you wait for someone a little more serious about relationships than what Robin seems to be.
    you need to tell her how you feel because if u never tell her she never knows and then your stuck because she can't help if she doesn't know and if she is staying w/ this guy this long then she must really like him so maybe you shouldtry to find a girl w/ stuff in common w/ u and then someday u'll find the right girl. and if he goes off to college he'll wind up dumping her and finding someone else and she might come running back to u but i wouldn't let her have u cause u deserve better and she stayed w/ her boyfriend and then they went on a ';break'; and then she lets u kiss her well i think she is using u but idk thats me. advise from a girl. good luck
    Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Dont just tell her you want to be with her and you have feelings for her, tell her that even if she doesnt want to be with you like that then you still want to be her best friend. Dont make her feel like she has to either date you or be nothing because chances are shell freak and push you away. If shes in love with this other guy tho then u have to think very carefully about what you want for her. Is she happy now? Would she be happier with you? Dont let her get away from you though whatever you want to be to her.
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    i see this girl and just was like woow when i saww her smile.like in the hallways, . one time i was all by myself and her n her friend was there behind me . I was walking 2 metres ahead of em. i hear them whispering softly and giggled,,,this was in the hallway corridor...they were talking loudly with thier friends at locker...but then started whispering and giggled,,i felt so embarrased? another tim eis when class was done i was walking towards her and her friends ...she fully goes behind her friends, while walking and like our shoulders softly n gently brush the way she did make it seem as if i was som like freak? i didn't do anything ....was it my walk? i know i didn't do anythign stupid......whats goin on? why she like went behind her friends and continued walking?


    i dunt knwo if these are all coincedents but i really want to meet her ...but dont' knwo how to strike a convo up?Guy needs girl advice?
    welll...maybe she thinks your attractive and was trying to flirt with you. if you wanna meet her just go up to her and be like hey, how come we have never met before. im blahblahblah... or if you have anyone who is friends with her then try to get them to introduce you twoGuy needs girl advice?
    dont give the gangsta talk as previously suggested, because that is a guaranteed ';what a weirdo'; thought from every girl.





    Do you stare openly at her, or could it be obvious you are interested in her? her friends may have noticed you looking at her, or maybe she has and doesnt know what to do.





    I dont know what you mean with the ';the way she did make it seem as if i was som like freak'; Im thinking you are meaning the way she walked behind her friends?





    she was obviously using her friends as a comfort zone, so I would suggest she definetly knows you like her, so instead of just watching her, get her aside quietly and aske her out, or ask about the homework you had because you werent listening in class or if you can borrow a pen or something, anything will work, and the way she reacts when you talk to her will probably give you some indicators.





    dont try and push her and make sure she is comfortable with you before you make a move?





    if she doesnt want to go out with you, dont worry its not the end of the world :D
    ';shawty lemme get dat boot';





    wrks all the time.
    3 things:


    -she just doesnt like you that way


    -shes never had a boyfriend


    -shes not ready for a boyfriend


    -------i think she knows u like her, my best bet is the third option----------------
    i would think she likes you,


    but all you can do is ask..


    (:

    I need girl advice what should i do?

    So theirs this girl i really like her she's been going out with this guy for a little more then a year and they just broke up about a month and that's when she told me she's likes me so then we kissed a few times and talk every day on the phone. I think that she pretty much got over her ex for me but like we never hangout she's just always busy i don't know what to do





    should i talk to her a little less make her want to talk to me and be around me more?? because i fell like I'm kinda smothering her when i talk to her every day and always asking to hangout





    or should i just keep trying and hope she finds and hangout with me??





    she knows i like her and we kissed it's just she told me that she's scared to move on because she doesn't want to get hurt againI need girl advice what should i do?
    she is really scared to loose u i thnk.she ge hurt before.so its natural to be scared.give her time.everything will be ok with time.just let her know that u really love her.tell her always that u like her love her.best of luck bro

    Need some girl advice here!?

    Theres this girl that I like. Ive known bout her for several years but we have never really had a conversation. She did say hi (myname) to me once (this was then echoed out by her friends) and that was it. Shes not really said anything to me since


    At high school she always seemed very shy around me. She wouldnt really talk around me, once when her friend came and talked to one of my friends, she just stood out of the way so I couldnt see her and she didnt say anything


    I know she has mentioned me to her friends but she could of just been telling them that I lived near her and that could of been it.


    I have left high school now for about a year and I dont see her much anymore, so I tried to add her as a friend on a social network. She didnt accept. I tried again and she did. I tried talking to her on icq. She completely ignored (didnt say(write) a word) me for a few weeks. then she removed me as her friend and removed me from her icq.


    Does this mean she doesnt like me?Need some girl advice here!?
    Yeah probably. It seems your being a bit to clingy and you need to give her some space. However, if she's just really,really shy maybe she just needs to decide if she likes you or not and it's her decision to talk to you. I say just give her some space.Need some girl advice here!?
    no she doesnt like u. y r u chasing after this damn girl? cant u find someone better who wont ignore u like ur nothing?
    that's what it sounds like to me. or she has a boyfriend that made her delete you. either way i would forget about it, and if she wants to she will contact you in the future

    I need Girl Advice PLEASE?

    6/7 weeks ago, my GF of 1.5 years broke up with me. We were very much in love, best friends, confided in each other, talked about marriage, etc. She told me she doesnt feel the passion and doesnt feel romantically wanting me anymore. This obviously did hurt. Since then we have had limited contact. Originally I told her she was too important to my life and I still wanted her around. She said she needed space and couldnt be there right now. I gave her space, and a week or so later she called to remind me of songs and tell me about a movie that is coming out. Every one of my friends says if there is any remote chance of reconciling, it Has to come from her and I should not contact her. Every time I dont contact her, she will call or text something small to me (like wanting to return our stuff to each other) and she is nice about it, but then i start to text her and she kind of backs off at the idea of even grabbing lunch. What is the best way to handle this if i do want her in my life???I need Girl Advice PLEASE?
    Give her the space she needs. It seems like she wants you when you don't act interested (like when you don't call), so don't call or text her. Just try (and I know it is hard) to act like you're okay with the situation, I really hope she comes around, you seem to really love her.

    Kk umm girl advice help..?

    yeaa im gay enuff to actually ask a question like this on yahoo. : ) LOL. but anyways...theres this guy that i sorta kinda liked. and he kinda sorta has a girl. i know. yea. but it seems like he always pops up, like hes always in all places i am. and im NOT tryna be around him cuz he has a girl so i just gave up. so an example would be : movies. 2-3 weeks ago i went to see a movie at this theatre.. and theres a few places u can watch a movie at so its not like everyone goes to the same one on a friday night. so anyways i went with my relatives and when i come out of the movie, i see him and his girl. like what were the chances of him being there at the same time as i was (out of alllll movie theatres and all times .) or another example when i was walking to my work on saturday and i saw him like right outside the building with his friends. or whenever i walk to class, i always see him walking up the same stairs i am. theres a million stair cases in my school, trust me theres a lot. like what are the chances?? like im pretty sure im not going crazy. its just WEIRD. and i know hes probably not making any effort to pop up where ever i am. just like what a heck. idk i just need someone to tell me if this means anything at all or im actually going crazy about this. i dont know if this will make a difference but im 15. ? lol . ye i dont think it made a difference. whatever.


    thank you: ) Kk umm girl advice help..?
    Well, actually that's not that odd. I go to a big High School and it seems like the guy I like is always by me. Simply because we have a lot of classes together and were both the same age (So, our lockers are in the same hallway). As for the movie theater thing, I guess it's just coincidence. Plus, one thing I've noticed, is if you like someone they seem to 'pop up' more often because you're looking for them or taking the time to notice. Is he serious about this girl? If not, flirt with him. Okay, that sounds whoreish doesn't it? What I mean is, if the two are going to split soon anyway, why not get a head start on...wooing him? Wow, that does sound whoreish. Scratch that. Don't listen to me. It might be bad. lol.Kk umm girl advice help..?
    i know this is probably no help but maybe its coincidence or how ever you spell it


    does he look at you when you pass him? does he know you?


    xo

    * Need Some GIrl Advice *?

    I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I go to a fairly small school where everyone knows all the ppl in their grade and also ppl from other grades. Anyway I do not talk to any girls and I dont think any like me or even notice me. I am not very popular. I am on the baseball team so I know a lot of cool guys who have a lot of girl friends but I am not close to any so I dont have anybody who can help me out. So how can I just like remake myself or whatever in girls eyes at school? I dont need a makeover or anything. My clothes are fine I just wear like American Eagle or sports stuff or whatever so thats fine. Its like I need to go back in time and make an effort to make friends with the girls at school. It seems like it is too late now b/c all the girls have already made their guy friends it seems and since I know all the girls I dont know how to become their friend b/c if I just go up to them and start talking it would feel awkward for me since I shoulda did that long ago.* Need Some GIrl Advice *?
    start making conversation and fast. When you talk, a lot of people will be surprised. If you've done a lot of listening during your silent years then you probably know whos who. talk to girls that you know are nice, and work from there.
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    I met this girl online. She emailed me and we soon then started ';talking'; through text messaging. We then moved it to AIM. I said I defintely felt a connection, she said the same. Anyway we plan to meet up (she's working two jobs and had her shift covered so she could go out with me) and last night we meet for mini golf. She calls me right before and asks where I am. Next thing I know she is walking through the doors on her phone (with me) and she smiles and we hug. All throughout the game we are standing close to each other, she is playing around, like tapping her club on mine, trying to make me mess up, talking a lot, etc. Oh and she was talking during one hole and said how when she said my profile she thought ';This guy is really cute...I'll message him.'; When I was about to putt she bumps her thigh on mine. Lots of physical contact. Anyway we make a bet (she chooses what the bet is) that the loser buys the winner coffee. Well I won. So she still suggested we go to the mall for coffee (she works at Starbucks). We get there and she introduces me to your boss and coworkers as her ';date.'; We sit and drink coffee, talk (for 40 minutes), and then we get up and go outside to watch a youtube video on her phone. So minutes later we depart. She knows I took the light rail/public transit there so she offers to give me a ride. I decline, say I'm meeting my friend across the street. We hug and I say we should see a movie soon. She replies ';Yeah I know totally'; and that ';we'll figure it out later.';





    I thought she was into me and all that. But she hasn't texted me all day. I texted her around 2:30p to say ';everyone asked my friend and I why we went blond.'; She said she liked the blond buzz and was feeling it twice. Well she still hasn't replied.





    What do you think? Am I worrying too much?





    She does work two jobs and she has taken a while to text me back before we met too. Give me your advice, girls! Do you think she's into me...she's just busy working? Or is she ignoring me?





    We're in our twenties.Girl advice: Is she into me?
    No, don't text her today. You don't want to seem annoying.





    She is a very busy girl, so maybe that's it. Or... she seemed to come across kind of strong, and you were a perfect gentleman. She might be used to guys coming across strong so she could be wondering if you really like her. Either way, I wouldn't worry about it too much or you will drive yourself nuts!





    Why don't you try calling her tomorrow, and asking if she's free this weekend? See how she reacts to that.... if she plays it kinda cool, then just leave the ball in her court and let her call you when she's free.


    Girl advice: Is she into me?
    it seems like she likes u, i would texet her to see how she is doing and if u dont get a respond back,. wait a few days and see what happends, i wish u luck
    It seems like she was into you! Unless she's just a flirt.





    Wait until tomorrow to text her. Maybe she's just busy! But you don't want to seem clingy. Girls HATE that.
    I think another text would be fine. If she seemed to like you it would be good to do. But after that I'd let her get back to you.
    yeah it dose seem like she likes you, annd that you sould talk to her about it or call her and ask her if she dose like you...give her a smoosh
    maybe.. ur over thinking everything and freakin out over nothing.. she seems not as into you as you are her though.. try to let her come to you i suppose. :-/
    ask her not me
    Ok your looking way to hard into this. Girls like space at first. They want space after the first meet.If she doesn't text you don't keep texting her or it looks stalkerish. You probably shouldn't even be counting the hours its been since the last time you texted her lol. So wait for her to text you. From everything you said it sounds like she liked you, and you said it yourself. Sometimes she didn't text back right away before. Don't get clingy and see what happens.

    Girls i have a question. please, girl to girl advice?

    do any of you guys not have many girl friends? like to hang out with?


    i moved to this ';place'; a few years back and i still feel out of place .


    like i dont fit in. i dont party, or smoke. i have drank before. mostly


    everyone here does this, and your cool of you do. i feel like im hiding


    behind my clothes. i dress real nice, wear makeup. i might look like


    a cool kidd. butt .. im not. and i have everyone pretty much fooled. im starting to feel out of place. i feel like


    my life is boring. i dont know where to turn. i dont fit in. most of the girls in my hometown are slutty and can do whatever they want . any advice?Girls i have a question. please, girl to girl advice?
    if you get along better with boys hang out with them then.... eventuly youll meet girls dont worry just take little steps at a timeGirls i have a question. please, girl to girl advice?
    Oooh, I have the exact same problem! But don't think that smoking and drinking and being slutty is ';cool';. I've drunk before but never smoked. Just follow your gut, do what you feel is right. Stop hiding behind nice clothes and makeup, or you'll keep that disguise forever and that will make you veery unhappy. Don't worry you'll pull through, go out more and find people more like you.
    just get a guy best friend.

    What's she feeling? Girl advice?!?

    So I met this girl on match.com and was talking to her since like June 4th. We just had a 1st date last Friday, went to a ball game. She seemed interested, said yes to meeting up a few days before or after the game for a movie, said she wanted to see Harry Potter. Met at the game, hugged when we saw each other and when we left at the end. Laughed, joked around, few silences, but it was a first date. Lots happened that was funny (a hotdog bit, mistaken ';peak'; for ';pee';), and I said something sarcastically and she playfully hit my arm like girls do and started poking me arm when she wanted to know why I was laughing. I mean girls do NOT touch you if they don't like you, YES?? Anyway I was a little shy but that's how I am when meeting new ppl, ESPECIALLY that I met online. Do you think that hurt me? Still she was still laughing, being silly, said she had a ';great'; time at the end, we hugged each other.


    I saw HP earlier in the day and told her...but that's no big deal. And she is leavingWhat's she feeling? Girl advice?!?
    Cherish the memories and if it's meant to be it will be.She likes you!What's she feeling? Girl advice?!?
    I think you worry too much. Sounds to me like you two had a great time. Just give her some time to retext you or contact you ....she may be busy getting ready for her studies abroad.
    theres nothing wrong with that and now she knows you had a good time so if she feels the same way she wont hesitate to let you know but ifi ts takin her this long in the past to reply give her a chance. it sounds like she did like you but also sounds like she has alot going on give it a week or two if no response move on ....good luck
    hmmm... this is tough. it does seem like she liked you, that is usually the way i act when i like a guy. but as for not answering text messages i say that you should try calling her. it probly would have been better to call her earlier, but don't give up. unless she starts to never answer your phone calls, texts, emails, and ims or just flat out tells you she doesnt like you then you should keep trying. maybe she's busy or doesnt answer her text messages, i know i usually dont.or she just might have thought that you didnt want a response. just keep trying untill you know that she doesnt like you, if you keep doing it after that then it will get dreepy and she might get a restaraining order! Just joking, but keep trying. I hope I helped.
    No, i don't think you did anything wrong. In the online game, people are trying to match up faster than the speeding bullet. They think that the 1st date is a make or break point. Their judgement can be superfical.





    In online dating, be honest to each other and enjoy the moments. Have fun when you meet up for real life but don't do anything over your limits. Give her time to reply you %26amp; if she don't, move on. Keep dating people till you meet someone who is able to treasure you as who you are without judging you at the 1st glance.





    Easier said than done... but there are also nice people online.
    i dont think a text message screwed up anything


    it seems like she likes you


    maybe shes just busy
    Honestly...I think she looks at you more of as a ';buddy';. I mean, the only time i hit someone in the arm is when they make a mean sarcastic remark. Think about it, when you see romantic couples hitting each other and poking each other? It's more of a freind thing. And you should have waited until the next day to text her. That's not a good sign she didn't reply.
    you ruined it completley with the txing and the spitting, might as well pun ch her in the face and move to spain and fine some spanish lady that looks like shakira or beyonce
    I can't read her mind to know why she doesn't want to keep seeing you. There could be a lot of different reasons, and they might have nothing to do with you personally. I do think you made a couple of mistakes though. She said she wanted to see Harry Potter with you, and you went and saw it without her, which took the fun out of the anticipated second date. Also, it would have been better to wait until the next day to text her. Just think of this as a learning experience. There are plenty of other girls out there, and maybe this one wouldn't have worked out anyway.
    You're very sweet, but dont worry bout minor things like spit coming out your mouth, it shouldnt matter. If the girl didn't text back, to be brutally honest it means one of two things: a- she didnt know what to say back or b- she simply didnt want to. In answer to your questions i dont think you messed everthing up by texting so quickly the worst thing she might have though it that you were an eager beaver. and secondly to me it seems like there is a possibility that she likes you but she could just be someone who is flirty and outgoing and does that normally. ANYWAYS just talk to her and stop beating yourself up about the situation, just do what feels right, if you really like her fight for her - and if youre just lonely and youre just holding onto the possibility because you finally have a chance of not being lonely then you know what the right thing to do is. Sorry to be so honest thats how i feel about the situation.
    nope...just hang in there, you can't tell after the first couple of weeks, sounds like ur in, so just keep up whatever you are doing.
    Making a girl/woman laugh is the best way to get her to care for you...as long as the jokes aren't sick ones. And the touching, even though it was poking, is a dead give away. Getting ready to go abroad is a very busy thing to do. Why not do this. Give her your name and address and ask her to send you a postcard from Spain. Perhaps you've never gotten a foreign postcard before? Or you like foreign stamps? As long as you didn't do anything dorky you should be fine. There's a fine line between being interested and being needy so be careful how many times you contact her. Hopefully things will work out. If not, there are plenty more on Match.com

    I really need some girl advice!!! Please and thanks?

    Theres this girl that i really like alot but she keeps giving me mixed signals. Like when she told me she was comming to visit me she said she wanted to ';get some'; and she will make motions with her hand like she wants to finger me, or shell grab my butt or something like that...but after everytime she'll smile or be like sike naw just kidding. I really dont know what to think. We are best friends and she knows I like her. She is just a really big flirt though and I dont know how to tell her that I want her to actually come through with all the little side comments that she makes. Do you think she likes me or is just messing with me?I really need some girl advice!!! Please and thanks?
    Just come out and tell her how you feel, tell her if she does like you then she needs to stop playing games. I had this problem once a girl was doin this to me, and I told her straight up i said hey you know what i really like you and you need to stop fuckin around and tell me how you feel.





    and ya know what she told me that she really did like me but was afraid i wouldnt like her back.





    just tell her how you feel. =]I really need some girl advice!!! Please and thanks?
    she's a teaser .... thats all , to stop all these mixed signals ...put the hard word on her then you will be able to see if she is just mucking around or not ... if she is not mucking around ....great , if she is tell her to stop teasing and if she doesn't .... dump her as a friend
    You know, I think I would grab her and just start kissing her and see what she does. Don't let up and don't act unsure and even if she struggles a bit at first--keep on kissing. But be careful about knowing whether she is seriously struggling when you are kissing her. If you are unsure whether she wants you to continue or not, then best to just stop.
    give her the best kiss of her life ; )

    So there's this girl...advice appreciated.?

    Alright there's this girl at school who I think is into me. We've got 2 classes together and we talk a lot, I'm just not sure where to go from here, because I'm not sure whether to ask for an email or a phone number or what. Any suggestions?So there's this girl...advice appreciated.?
    Go take a risk. Ask her for her phone number- but don't just say ';I want your cell.'; Hint at it, tell her that maybe you'll need help with homework/studying. Or ask her if she wants to do some studying with you.So there's this girl...advice appreciated.?
    ask for her number or one afternoon to go get some coffee since you guys are always talking...just go for it don't hesitate.
    go up to her make her laugh make her laugh moere than ask for her phone #

    Should I reply back? Girl advice!?

    Went to a baskeball 1st date with this girl from match.com last Friday. Hugged twice, fun date, laid back, etc. Texted her 2 hrs afterwards with, ';hey you made that game fun, we should meet up again sometime.'; I should've ASKED when/if you wanted to meet up again huh? Anyway, she never replied the text, but last night sent me an email on match.com, saying.....





    ';Hi John,


    I just wanted to thank you for coming up and meeting me for the game. :) I had a good time. If only the A鈥檚 won! They were playing pretty lousy, I must say.


    I liked how w





    19 minutes ago


    we had a little hot dog eating contest, but that could have just been me.





    Don鈥檛 work too hard!


    [her name]';





    Btw, she is going to study abroad in Spain next month/in a month.





    Should I reply back...and with WHAT? I do like her, felt a connection/chemistry, but does it seem like she likes me back or would she turn me down/make an excuse?





    THANKS, GIRLS NEED ADVICE HERE!





    (BEST ANSWER 10 PTS AHAHA)Should I reply back? Girl advice!?
    I would keep looking for another opportunity to go out again and get to know her and her interests and her way of communicating. When you get to know her more, you will get a better idea of how to ask and when and where. Your natural curiosity is meant to inspire you to dig deeper and seek more information and understanding, so go for it. If you don't know, ask about her and her ideas/thoughts/interests. Then you can share more about your response to that and get to know each other better.





    Also if she is going off to Spain, ask about how you can keep in touch. Sometimes writing or other means of communicating can help you learn more and grow in other ways you may not have otherwise. So again, follow any opportunity to get to know each other better. Go for it. The worst that could happen is that you gain a friend, and the best is that there could be more in your future.Should I reply back? Girl advice!?
    I replied to this question before!! Ask her if she wants to hang out again!!!
    Sounds like you missed rule # 1 of the good date, which is to make the plans for the second date during the first date. I think you should not call her cause she didn't give you the signals that she wants to keep in touch. If you really want to hang out with her again just to check it out and see if you are sure try emailing her that you have tickets to another game and see if she wants to go?


    If you get no response or she says no then you have your answer
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  • I like this guy... girl advice please...?

    ok so im in 8th grade and i like this one boy in 6th grade. and last year this girl in my school went out with a sixth grader and she was an 8th grader, everyone said she was a slut. what should i do? i really like him.


    Help me please. i don't know what to do.I like this guy... girl advice please...?
    i can totally relate to you i used to like a guy who was in 6th grade too wen i was in 8[im currently a sophokmore in hs]





    %26amp; i personally think their is no aga in love





    there is this other guy i like and hes smaller then me in age


    i think you should go for it





    dnt let the world stop you





    follow wat u believe its the best thing to do





    good luck!I like this guy... girl advice please...?
    You are in 8th grade. Girls are going to be catty haters no matter what you do, so you might as well do whatever makes you happy. If people talk, you should feel blessed that those girls think you are worth talking about because it means they are jealous.





    Let the haters hate, when you are older you will realize that the only person's opinion that should matter to you is your own.
    Well i think you can do what you want to do


    also a slut means she is easy not that she is dating a younger guy


    so ya, do want you want


    if he likes you go for it


    but if you don't know what you want


    then forget it or something
    go for it if u like him you shouldn't care about other peoples opinions the youngest i ever dated was a year younger in my opinion if i date any one younger they wouldn't be mature but it depends on the guy
    Okaaay seriously thats okay. you would be a slut if u went out with a guy who was like older than you soooooo......yeah! i thinks its fine!
    Just go out with him, and no I haven't gone out with someone younger than me lol.
    just date him.if you really like him then who cares what other people think

    I need guy or girl advice?

    theres this boy in my 8th period class his friend keeps calling out my name for him when im working i look back and and the other one just smiles weird does that mean one of them likes me is so who?I need guy or girl advice?
    they both like you girl just smile at them and when one of them has the courage to talk to you then thats the person for you always get the man that has the courage to talk to your ask you out there mostly the best one anywaysI need guy or girl advice?
    yes the one that likes you is the quiet one
    The one who smiles weird likes you.
    He obviously has a crush on you. Just smile at him until he gets the courage to talk to you.
    Maybe both of them like you, sounds like it.
    ignore him he'll stop and he likes u . . .
    They could both like you.
    It might mean that oneof them likes you or they might just be playing around. If you really want to know for sure, look directly into the one that smiles shyly at you and then you smile and them turn back, his reaction should tell you what is happending.
    The one on the left likes you
    There are a couple of possibilities:


    a) one of them could like you (probably the one who smiles)


    b) they are messing with you





    8 periods damn
    they probably do like you or they are just messing with your head. you can always ask them or other people to see if they heard anything.
    Hahaha. That is so childish...but yeah probably
    do u go to ola
    It means he has constipation

    Girl advice: is she into me ??? ?




    I met this girl online. She emailed me and we soon then started ';talking'; through text messaging. We then moved it to AIM. I said I defintely felt a connection, she said the same. Anyway we plan to meet up (she's working two jobs and had her shift covered so she could go out with me) and last night we meet for mini golf. She calls me right before and asks where I am. Next thing I know she is walking through the doors on her phone (with me) and she smiles and we hug. All throughout the game we are standing close to each other, she is playing around, like tapping her club on mine, trying to make me mess up, talking a lot, etc. When I was about to putt she bumps her thigh on mine. Lots of physical contact. Anyway we make a bet (she chooses what the bet is) that the loser buys the winner coffee. Well I won. So she still suggested we go to the mall for coffee (she works at Starbucks). We get there and she introduces me to your boss and coworkers as her ';date.'; We sit and drink coffee, talk (for 40 minutes), and then we get up and go outside to watch a youtube video on her phone. So minutes later we depart. She knows I took the light rail/public transit there so she offers to give me a ride. I decline, say I'm meeting my friend across the street. We hug and I say we should see a movie soon. She replies ';Yeah I know totally'; and that ';we'll figure it out later.';





    I thought she was into me and all that. But she hasn't texted me all day. I texted her around 2:30p to say ';everyone asked my friend and I why we went blond.'; She said she liked the blond buzz and was feeling it twice. Well she still hasn't replied.





    What do you think? Am I worrying too much?





    She does work two jobs and she has taken a while to text me back before we met too. Give me your advice, girls! Do you think she's into me...she's just busy working? Or is she ignoring me?





    We're in our twenties.Girl advice: is she into me ??? ?
    Honestly, she's probably just busy. Don't worry about it too much.





    I need help from a guys point of view too:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Girl advice: is she into me ??? ?
    Not to get your hopes up but i think she might like you she is prob really busy.
    don't worry!! they girl is probably busy. two jobs....... from the way things went on the date, i would definitely say that she likes u a lot.seriously stop stressing.
    i wouldnt worry bout it she's probly just busy
    i think she's into you! she may be busy though. she might have also seen your text and wanted to respond but for some reason couldn't.


    that happened to me a lot whenever someone texted me and my mom came. she thought my phone was off and it took forever for her to leave -.-
    If you felt she had a good time, then she is definitely just busy. Sometimes even when we're on a break or whatever, we're just tired from the day and don't feel like doing anything, even small little tasks.


    You texted her, you let her know you were thinking about her and now the rest is up to her. Don't fret, she'll reply.

    I need some GIRL ADVICE!!?

    I met a girl about 2 months ago and we are somewhat good friends...We dont spend alot of time together but when we do she stares at me, makes fun of me, always messes with my hair(idk why but girls love messing with my hair), but then sometimes she will totally ignore me....Lets just say you were this girl and you liked me, how long would u go without talking to me or hangin out with me...We have alot of the same friends, interests and stuff like that...She asked me what i was doing this weekend online and i told her idk and asked her what she was doing and she never got back to me?? I know her and some friends went out to the lake but why would she ask me and then just leave it at that?? I just cant figure this girl out.. Thanks


    BTW we both work fulltime but have almost the exact same schedule and she also lives with one of my better friends...I dont think she wants to make it obvious to them that she likes me so would it make sense for her not to invite me over as much??I need some GIRL ADVICE!!?
    well i think it could be what u say about her not wanting her friends to know...also there are two other alternatives: 1. she is not sure about what she wants or 2. she is not sure if you like her. I think if u don't want to be too straight forward tell her u wanna hang out or just casually compliment her and see how she reacts, that can really help.





    U know i couldn't make uop my mind about this guy...i wasn't sure if he was into me or not and we were just friends. So one day talkin he said he would like to hang out with me...since i kinda liked him we hung out just for a little while and then he texted me he had a nice time and would like to do it again...he said it like a friend, but at the end of the message he wrote Ur so cute. That made me think more of him and kinda gave me a hint that he liked me...and after a few more hang outs he told me he liked me and kissed me....it worked for him see =)I need some GIRL ADVICE!!?
    It sounds like, this girl is giving you mix signals that's why you are so confused !!! It's a matter of how much of this you really want to put up with. If you really like her that much, then you need to just come right out and ask her how she feels about you. If she can not give you a straight answer, forget it. Girls can be flaky sometimes, that just means that they really do not know what they want in their lives. Do you really want to be stuck with someone, that's flaky and do not really know what she wants or don't want in her life. The answer is NO!!! Life is too short, you have to learn to enjoy it, and not second guess or worry about a confuse girl.
    You said that she always makes fun of you infront of her friends right? If she does, would she just tell her friends that she likes you? If I were her, I wouldn't even mention you to them.
    The best advice that i can give you is to get to know her more. Hang out and become friends. Then you can maybe ask her out to dinner and a movie but you should just be yourself and act like you guys are just two friends having a good time together!! :) Good Luck!!
    Pop the question and kill the suspense...Why are you wasting time here...She likes you I guess considering the text message you mentioned...Go watch a romantic movie or go out on a candlelit dinner date...Something different from what you guys normally do...Give her hints and see how she reacts if she takes it well then you are on a roll ;) good luck!She is waiting for you to approach her.
    I guess she likes u..


    n she want u to make a move...


    how about u ask your 'better friends'


    about the girl u like...


    maybe she knows something...





    gooD luck!!
    tell her how you feel because most likely sh fells the same way.
    I think she is playing hard to get.


    She wants you but she wants you to do that hard work, like most girls we like to be chased so if you really want her go and get her.
    shes probably just not sure whether or not she should go for it...she may be wondering the same thing you are: do YOU like HER?

    I need girl advice!!?

    Heres the story.I met this girl through my friend.We flirted for a while and I finally asked her out.We have been on a couple of dates.I talked with the friend that set us up (her friend too) and this girl said that the girl Im dating was a little dissapointed that she had to make the first move (holding hands).She also said that the girl is wondering why I havn't asked her to be my girlfriend and why i havent kissed her. I originally though she was more conservative and I didn't want to push her. The question is do i like her for likeing me, or like her. I have a fun time with her, but we dont really show affection for eachother in public(no handholding or nothing) (my fault?). She is nice and pretty and smart. I know that she really likes me alot, but before I go farther (kiss her, which would have to be next date i guess), I want to know if i truly like her, because i couldn't bring myself to lead her on and then hurt her by breaking up.Help???????????I need girl advice!!?
    well i cant tell you if you like her just think for a wile, does this girl make u smile whenever u think about her, does she give u butterflys whenever u see her?? Think about how she makes you feel when your with her and if you relize you like her make some move! Hold hands with her, kiss her. Think about what you really feel thats all i can say.I need girl advice!!?
    If the girl can't handle the pace that you are moving, then she's dumb. You are trying to be the gentleman and she's acting like a slut.
    when you walk together walk a little closer to where your hands will touch as you walk if she grabs on to your hand then your friend is telling the truth also next date go to the movies (nice and dark (wink)) lean close to her and from there it should be cool go in for a kiss and c her reaction
    Hey, if you've only been on a few dates, don't worry about it. Build up a relationship first, you have all the time in the world for affection if it works out. If you really like this girl, you'll want a stable relationship based on more than just the physical stuff. Holding hands isn't that big of a deal, and giving her a kiss on the cheek isn't a huge thing either. If she's trying to jump the gun on a physical relationship without getting to know you, then you may have a problem. Talk to her. Tell her your feelings about her. Since it's so early in the relationship, no one should get hurt too bad.
    tell her this... show her that you havent done these things, out of respect and wanted to make sure that she was comfortable first.....





    good luck
    Are you just feeling offended right now cuz your friend told you what the girl said? Hey, that was just girl talk, and nothing more! If anything, I would talk to her about it! That would clear everything up, than you wouldn't feel weird. It's not like this is going to be your life partner! This girl might be used to fast moving guys, who knows? Just be you, and do things your way!!! Remember, good things are worth waiting for!!! Tell your friend that!!!
    If you really liked her you would WANT to kiss her and touch her and be with her, bla bla bla. Are you shy with all girls? If so, then it may be your own insecurity issues. If not, you don't like this one enough. If you are even thinking about the possibility that you might be leading her on, you don't like her enough. Move on. Find someone that excites you.
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  • I need girl advice..?

    i been dating this girl at first every thing was cool. but now i feel like our relationship is getting boring. i havent talked 2 her in 4 days. i cant call her ( thats another story) and sometimes rarely but somtimes when i try 2 kiss her she has a stupid escuse. how can i make sure she still likes me, and make her like me more?I need girl advice..?
    talk to her.. say.. tell me the truth.. is this relationship really doing anything good for us? i want to have adventures and hold your hand and kiss you and take walks on the beach... i want to have fun with you.. and i want you to have fun with me. tell me the truth.. i just want to make you happy..





    that should work..


    hope everything works out for the best!


    xo- jenI need girl advice..?
    trust me she still loves you. u just gotta be the one that lets her know how u feel
    Do something surprising and if she doesn't seem happy about it,things aren't going to end up were you want it so move on,just do something for her,any girl that likes you will be happy about it
    Well it seems like this girl is either shy and nervous or shes not into you. I would try talking to her about the way you feel about this situation. Try making the relationship more fun. Go on exciting dates like ice skating or miniature golf. They may seem a little childish but they really give some good laughs and make a relationship more fun and exciting.
    well I'm sorry to say this but I either think she is cheating


    or she just wants to be friends.
    ask her how she really feels about you
    well i know i cant go out with boys too long,


    because i know i get bored easy,


    it has to be exciting,


    be spontanious,


    do something u two have never done together,


    and just talk to her ash her is shes still into you as much as she was before....
    sit her down and ask her straight up, why wont u let me.........wateva u wanna say
    well if she is bored with the realationship you need to do something to spice it up bring her flowers do something nice.maybe she needs something and your not listening
    shes lame get rid of her
    she probably doesn't like you in that way or she's shy. the best thing to do is to have a conversation with her so you can know exactly how she feels and then u'll know what to do about the situation.
    first, how long have yall been together


    second, has anything changed...i mean from the beginin to now...


    lastly, you cant call her??????? is she datin someone else?????
    You cant change anyone, only yourself. Consider moving on (as much as that may be difficult). Wanna know if she likes you? She would call you too.
    If it's boring and she won't let you kiss her then something is wrong. Try talking to her and find out how she feels. Maybe she wants out of the relationship. COMMUNICATION is the key!! Good Luck
    do fun activities together that you both enjoy.
    look first you impress yourself and then make it look like you exist
    You can't make anybody like you more. Just be yourself. She will either like you or not.


    Try to do something different and exciting once in a while. I would get bored too doing the same old every day.


    You 2 need to talk. Ask her what the matter is and why she's being so cool toewards you lately.


    It DOES sound like there may be someone else she has her eye on, but I could be wrong.


    If you can't even call her, this leads me to believe her parents don't want you together. ?? If they don't want her with you, maybe she is just tired of sneaking and trying to convince them.


    Need more details here!!!

    Girl advice: is she into me ??? ?




    I met this girl online. She emailed me and we soon then started ';talking'; through text messaging. We then moved it to AIM. I said I defintely felt a connection, she said the same. Anyway we plan to meet up (she's working two jobs and had her shift covered so she could go out with me) and last night we meet for mini golf. She calls me right before and asks where I am. Next thing I know she is walking through the doors on her phone (with me) and she smiles and we hug. All throughout the game we are standing close to each other, she is playing around, like tapping her club on mine, trying to make me mess up, talking a lot, etc. When I was about to putt she bumps her thigh on mine. Lots of physical contact. Anyway we make a bet (she chooses what the bet is) that the loser buys the winner coffee. Well I won. So she still suggested we go to the mall for coffee (she works at Starbucks). We get there and she introduces me to your boss and coworkers as her ';date.'; We sit and drink coffee, talk (for 40 minutes), and then we get up and go outside to watch a youtube video on her phone. So minutes later we depart. She knows I took the light rail/public transit there so she offers to give me a ride. I decline, say I'm meeting my friend across the street. We hug and I say we should see a movie soon. She replies ';Yeah I know totally'; and that ';we'll figure it out later.';





    I thought she was into me and all that. But she hasn't texted me all day. I texted her around 2:30p to say ';everyone asked my friend and I why we went blond.'; She said she liked the blond buzz and was feeling it twice. Well she still hasn't replied.





    What do you think? Am I worrying too much?





    She does work two jobs and she has taken a while to text me back before we met too. Give me your advice, girls! Do you think she's into me...she's just busy working? Or is she ignoring me?





    We're in our twenties.Girl advice: is she into me ??? ?
    Honestly, she's probably just busy. Don't worry about it too much.





    I need help from a guys point of view too:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Girl advice: is she into me ??? ?
    Not to get your hopes up but i think she might like you she is prob really busy.
    don't worry!! they girl is probably busy. two jobs....... from the way things went on the date, i would definitely say that she likes u a lot.seriously stop stressing.
    i wouldnt worry bout it she's probly just busy
    i think she's into you! she may be busy though. she might have also seen your text and wanted to respond but for some reason couldn't.


    that happened to me a lot whenever someone texted me and my mom came. she thought my phone was off and it took forever for her to leave -.-
    If you felt she had a good time, then she is definitely just busy. Sometimes even when we're on a break or whatever, we're just tired from the day and don't feel like doing anything, even small little tasks.


    You texted her, you let her know you were thinking about her and now the rest is up to her. Don't fret, she'll reply.

    Girl Advice Please!?

    I already asked a similar question but I didnt get much advice.





    I'm in college and I am really good friends with this one girl. I really like her and I think she likes me. She's hard to read because she doesnt show what she feels very much.





    Last night we partied but left early and sat on her bed talking late into the night. Our legs were touching and our hands were barely touching most of the time. I made her laugh a bit.





    This morning she calls me up and asks if I want to go get breakfast (she's never done that before) and we ended up hanging out all day and having dinner together alone. Was this a date? What should I do? I've never had a gf before and I'm worried about asking her out because she is my good friend above all else.





    Please help, I dont want to wait because she'll think I'm not interested. I don't like to flirt excessively.Girl Advice Please!?
    This isn't a date, this is just an outing to get to know each other better. Before you ask her out, you should have more outings of this type. Next time it's your turn to ask her, so maybe you can ask her out to dinner or lunch but don't go anywhere too formal yet.





    I understand where you're coming from about flirting excessively. You really don't need to do that. In this case you can show interest in her by steadily keeping in contact with her and requesting her presence. I think if you guys are good friends there's no need for games, and once you're sure she likes you as much as you like her, asking her out will be simple.Girl Advice Please!?
    i would say definately go for it :)

    Girl advice needed?

    Girl at work I like never told anyone about it, found out she likes me also. problem is she is higher up in the company than me and are not allowed to date, dont know why but that is just the company rules, I would like to blow it off but I dont find many girls I would date seriously and she seems like one those girls for me I would like to ask her out anyways. why would she tell someone she is crushing on me if she knows we cant date, and she knew that person would tell me, i couldnt lose my job but she could lose hersGirl advice needed?
    WOW! The story of my life! I was a manager at ';Major Fast Food'; chain. It was strictly forbidden for us to date ';crew';.They hired a guy named Josh.After talking with him for a few weeks, I developed a SERIOUS CRUSH. I found out that he liked me too. We ended up secretly dating for about 5 months.We were very careful about keeping our personal lives and emotions out of the workplace. To make a long story short, I ended up pregnant and so I had to tell senior management about our relationship and engagement. Because I was a good worker and we proved that we could keep work and home life seperate, I did not get fired. Moral of the story....we have been happily married and have a beautiful 2 year old daughter. I'm not saying to lie, but if you guys want to date...just keep it outside of work and GOOD LUCK :)Girl advice needed?
    tell who cares about the rule just be professional at work how about if shes your soulmate. if shes willing why not love is about chances you never know what could happen
    Girls never tell anyone anything accidentally. She defiantly wanted you to know, but be careful. She might just want to lead you on. Most girls wouldn't do that, but some would. I'd advise you to be friends and let her take it from there. That way, she is accepting the possible job trouble and cannot blame you.
    Nobody can judge how someone feels about another person at work,but all i have to say is when ur at work act like your not in a relationship just wait till your outside work,relationship between workers just make them not concentrate on work,thats why you have the whole hours after work to be with that person.
    Get her home phone number and give her a call. Surely the company wouldn't forbid you to ';phone'; her. But don't tell others in the company about it. Bring up the subject that she could lose her job if you and her dated. See how she re-acts to that. Would it be that difficult for her to move on to another job if she were let go? Does she have a car payment...? Does she support herself?? I think you and her need to talk about these things. Then you and her can decide what to do.
    Maybe you should talk to her about it. Tell her that you know. If she denies it, you probably should not do anything. Play it in a safe way so no one looses there job, but be risky with your relationship.