Friday, April 30, 2010

Girl Advice?

Do you think its safe to ask a girl to go the movies on a Friday night even though they haven't talked much? I'll tell you a bit about this situation - I met this girl last Friday and I thought she was gorgeous, for the moments I talked to her I thought she was perfect. The next morning she added me on Facebook and MSN. Then when I signed on MSN, she messaged me first. Today she wasn't on MSN, so I couldn't talk to her but do you think there's a chance with me getting to know this girl a bit more?





I leave for a trip on Wednesday and I want to get her number, but not sure how. I want to call/text her on the way there.





When she does come on MSN, should I initiate the conversation first this time? What kind of things do you think I should say/ask her?





If any of you knew how much I want to meet this girl more, you'd understand my position. I want to talk to her so bad, and I can't stop thinking about her. And I've only met her once, strange right?Girl Advice?
just talk about her weekend or somthing thats really open.


try and find somthing you both have in common and then you have a whole convisation right there.





just tell her that your leaving and you'd like her number.Girl Advice?
yah %26lt;3
No its not strange... when a girl goes to the trouble to add you on facebook and msn that means she wants to get to know you so take advadtage of that and ask her out.. she will 100% say yes..





Hope that helped.. so got for it!
If she messaged you first then I think it's perfectly fine to be the first to talk to her next chance you get. She wouldn't have contacted you first if she had no interest whatsoever. Whether or not it's romantic I don't know but I think you should defiantly talk to her some more and see how things go.
yes!! =] talk to her first and ask her to hangout when you get back. deffenitly get her number. it'll workout great =D

Girl Advice?

there's this girl at school that i really like,but she doesn't know me and she's all popular and s***. what do i do, what do i say? Please HelpGirl Advice?
Just go up to her and talk to her. Find something that you have in common or do a little research about her and strike up a conversation. Works for me.Girl Advice?
well if she is really popular and you are not there is a chance of rejection, but if your willing to risk it, i say you get her when her popular freinds arent around and just say hello and go from there see if she is receptive and nice back or totally blows u off. good luck.
Well since she is so popular...





Give her a good comment everyday...





';I like your hair';


';I love your shirt';


';You look so pretty, prettiest girl in school';


';I have a nice car with high power engine, you wanna see?';


';I can take you home';
Are you sure you really like her?


How could you have liked her even though you dont know who each other her.


I think you are just attarcted to her because she is popular.
......uh..........is this my que?...........oh............ok
  • lipstick
  • Girl Advice??????????????

    So i am talking to this girl i like on myspace. and i was like how is english. and she said she's failing. so i said that was the funnest english class i ever had





    so she said





    oh,ha i hate her class.%26amp;sheslike..weirdd,lmfao i mean come on toilet paper on herdesk to use for your nose?





    but i pretty much met her because i had to use it oneday





    so should i say yeah i guess it's wierd but i would have never met you, and i'm glad i did





    or is that to weird





    and idk i want to say something so she can messege me back





    srry for my spellingGirl Advice??????????????
    IDK it sounds like an odd situation

    Girl Advice?

    I have a problem. There's this girl, and we've went out for more than a year. We broke up a few months ago because of me because I was stupid and I did the wrong thing, and we both met new people. Both didn't last. But I never ';really'; gotten over her. I still like her so much, and I really want to get back with her.





    Soon there's a day coming up, that's special it was the day I first asked her out and on that day I wanted to take her aside and say something like, do you know what today is? (what ever she says), I'll tell her what it is, and say like - You're the only girl I can honestly see myself with it doesn't matter which girl I see, I always think about you instead. I've come to realize that I love you, and the worst mistake I made in my life is letting someone I love so much escape from me. I'm standing right here tell you how I feel because I wanted you to know, and it doesn't matter what you're response is?





    Do you think this is to direct? Is that bad?





    Thanks.Girl Advice?
    You have to think, What has changed since you broke up about the reason you broke up? If you don't deal with that, it will never work and your just wasting her time.DocGirl Advice?
    Way to go Romeo! :) that is so romantic! But are you sure she has lost all feelings for you? I mean you two once shared a strong relationship i assume, and unless you did something unforgivable which you didn't, there could be a chance you could remind her why you two got together in the first place.





    But please be prepared that she may not feel the same anymore... Hopefully this isn't the case and you guys will get back together but, if she says she doesn't feel that way anymore, you'll have to move on :( Just remember that the perfect girl for you will love you just as much as you love her.





    But if she is just unsure on how to feel, i say you suggest hanging out as friends, Just hang out casually without any expectations. And hopefully the spark will appear.
    That is a VERY sweet thing for you to say to her. Defiantly say it!! I know if I was her, I'd very touched.





    Hope it turns out good! =]
    It is indeed to direct, but sweet! I think when you speak these words to other girls, they'll love it! If ever her feelings are gone for you, I think looking for another would help, but if not, and she wanted to go back to you too, that will be great!


    Good Luck, my friend!!! If you really love her, I hope you get her back to you!! ;-)
    well at least you did what most of the boys hesitated to do, speak up. But dont wait too long to tell her so. she'll understand and if it doesnt work out, at least you tried.
    awww.


    thats adorable.


    im sure your a sweet guy.


    thats veryy cute. i say do it. :)





    good luck.
    aww!..that is really sweet...you should do it! at least u will know you gave it your all and you wont be left thinking ';what if?';





    hopefully everything works out...
    Personally I think that is one crazy-smooth way to win her back.


    Go for it!

    Girl advice....?

    So I was seeing this girl... It went South... We decided to be friend with benefits, so I asked her over when I was drunk and said ';I was hoping to have sex....'; which I probably shouldnt have but oh well.. On a side note, she was telling me how she was pissed that I said that to her...??? I kinda laughed, and Ive been pissed cause shes been so short with me in conversations.... Now on that note, my best friend is dating her best friend and have been for like 4 yrs. He told me some stuff about this girl that really made me mad and basically helped me decide this girl wasnt worth it , like she cheated on her ex bf with his best friend, and some other stuff... and I really wanna throw it at her cause shes been a huge ***** and just hearing that pisses me off. But I dont want to get my friend involved cause she'll know he told me. What do i do?Girl advice....?
    Ok yes you were wrong for tell her you wanted to have sex, just do it. Yall already have this understanding so no words was needed soon as she walked in the door you should have attacked her lol. Dont worry about stuff she did it the pass you not trying to marry her ITS A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS!!! Treat it that way. You have done some stuff in your pass that you are not proud of but thats why its our pass. Now she may think that you look at her another way and you see her a trash and a booty call which shes a boody call but not in words words hurt. Do you understand what im saying? If not email me and i will break it down lol.Girl advice....?
    leave her alone! avoid her and when/if she confronts you as to why just tell her that you think that she is a bit** and walk away... its over and the sooner you realize that the better off youll be...
    don't get involved, it'll always be easier, no matter how stressful at the time, getting involved will be more stressfull.
    wow what are you in like junior high??..you don't throw something in her face..thats not gonna make her nicer to you..


    its just gonna piss her off more..


    and you'll get your friend in trouble..


    shes not gonna stop being a ***** to you..if i was her id be pissed too some guy saying that to me...im sure theres a reason the relationship failed..keeping benefits just allowed you both to get some which is kinda stupid.....


    you need to just forget this girl and let her throw her fit and be the nice guy that says hes sorry..and means it!!!..and eventually im sure you guys can obtain a friendship..and as far as throwing this in her face....NO..be the bigger better guy and keep it to yourself..respect your friend at least that much..


    i hope you stay smart in this


    Good luck

    Girl advice!?!?

    wellim going to an amusment park with a girl and she is kinda scared of some rides should we just not go on them or should we still go on itGirl advice!?!?
    Is she just scared of some of the rides or all of the rides in general? If it's only some of them, I would recommend going because it would be a good opportunity to show how much you care. On the ride itself, let her grip your hand or even in the line beforehand, try to keep her calm or make her laugh... also be incredibly understanding if you both wait an hour in line and she decides she does not want to go on the ride. If she's pretty terrified all-around, either stick to the kiddie rides and be nice about it, or come up with another great outing idea. Good luck, hope all goes well!Girl advice!?!?
    Don't decide now. See if she wants to or not. If she doesn't want to you can't force her, you know. You can encourage her, but don't force her.


    You're thinking too hard.
    Go on them. She'll like that your daring and try to convince her. In the end you guys will remember and laugh your asses off
    you can go with her, and if she gets scared maybe hold her hand or something. *SCORE!*

    Girl advice?

    the new college semester started..first day in my class I hear when I walk in and sit down my name being called. I look around and don't see any familar faces. I get home and this girl who I had added on my friends list on myspace (we went to the same college so we added each other..met on the college forum) had emailed me, she said, ';hey do we have math together? i think i saw you this morning?'; and i still dont know if that was her yelling my name lol.


    so we figure out we do have the same class and start talking on there. about the teacher, what other classes, etc. and then she says, ';com fine me on wednesday!'; tells me she forgot the hw, loves the song on my profile etc.


    she leaves me 8 or 9 comments from aug 27 to sept 1.


    i'm sitting in the class and she comes in, and sits next to me.Girl advice?
    God you go on. She is obviously hot for you. You either like her or not. Or you may be confused about your sexuality.Girl advice?
    try asking her out for a pizza or a study date since she bombed the test tell her you can study together if she wants to maybe it was a hint to See what you would say take it slow and use caution feel the situation out first
    she's into you dude! totally obvious :) i mean i wouldnt keep talking to a guy/sitting beside him unless i really liked him. :) question is now, do you like her? its abit early to jump into a relationship, but try and stay as friends. if possible, flirt back. haha. the she was just responding to your boxerbrief thing cos you confided in her abt it :) and she seems to like, notice you alot. stay friends and see where it goes, if you like her, gradually take it to the next level. :) hope to hear what happens :)
    wait for a while and you will know for yourself but mind you she will only hint you . finally you have to have guts to ask her.
    wow john have youver touched a girl...
    she seems interested in you...in what way, only time can tell...it might be too soon to say if she's interested in you as a friend or as possible bf...but the mere fact that she took the first step of calling your attention means she is interested...just give it time...nothing wrong about being friends at the moment...sometimes frienships do evolve to deeper kinds of relationships...just enjoy your time together and be really nice to her...that would help speed things up if that's what you want...
    no harm in askin her out u no
    go in and talk to her more hang out with her but sit away from her so she talks to you on myspace about it and start making conversation
    y every one here is so confuse. i feel life is simple. if u like sum1 tell them, ask them about there feelings. y asking others. Do watever u feel like
    dude she's being aggressive on you and maybe cares about you make a move on her ok

    Girl advice?

    i caught my girl talking with her EX,she came by my home one day and i was eating so she decided to use my computer,after i was finish eating i came into my room and i saw her hiding her IM window i immediately suspected something was odd with her but i did not say anything i went back out the room to get something to drink and when i came back in she did it again but this time i saw the IM pic so i knew it had to be him even tho i had never seen him before,any how i still did not tell her anything i just stood there and watched the IM on the task bar blinked as messages kept coming in but she would not check it so i left the room again and immediately came back in and caught her and she told me not to bother with what he might say that it does not matter, she claims that she was only hiding it because she was afraid i would get angry even tho she knows i am not they type of person who gets angry like that.should i be worried?Girl advice?
    do some investigation, i think she's seeing this guy.Girl advice?
    what do think ```its something big big ````she`s bad person


    do what you have 2 do
    ditch her dude clearly she has been talking to her ex and hasnt forgotten him completely


    u should atleast have a word with her and tell her u rnt comfortable with her doing this


    and that if this relation has to work there has to be more transperancy and that she shd tell her ex not to message her again
    dump her shes not worth it.
    No do not worry yourself silly. But if it is making you feel uncomfortable just tell her fast that you feel uncomfortable, but that feeling will quell once she tells you what she and the ex are talking about. Ask her to confirm that he doesn't want her back, and that they are just keeping in touch for the sake of being friends.





    Some people can be friends with their ex-es, some can't. Your g.f could be one of those who can.
    do u have doubts in her feelings towards u, maybe she wants to ignore him but he keeps nagging her, suggest to het that she blocks him out on the computer, but if u do doubt her feelings for u try finding some evidence before jumping to conclusions or may be chat to her ex online and sort it out that way they might be friends after all
    Check your chat log and find out history of chat. get her cellphone pin and check her msgs. it must be done in a way that she does not know.


    If she is not interested to her Ex she must not talk with him.
  • lipstick
  • Girl advice?

    So been talking to this girl in email on match.com since start of last june and recently i asked her to an a's game. At first I said some of my friends would be there, but then I said they couldn't make it so it would be just me and her, and she was still on board. She said we should meet up another time to for a movie and said she wanted to see Harry Potter.


    So we're going tonight to the game. I gave her my cell yesterday and she gave me hers too. I texted her last night with ';hi, how r ya doing'; and she replied back with ';Good, Excited about the game. Where should we meet?';





    You think she sees this as a date? Is she into getting to know me in a dating-potential way? Is she excited about the game...or about meeting me?Girl advice?
    bothGirl advice?
    It sounds like she's more interested in going to the game than meeting you, I'm afraid.





    Don't give up! Try to get her to be more comfortable around you so that hopefully some sparks will fly. Good luck.
    If you met her on match.com, I'd assume that she's seeing this as a date. You've told her that your friends weren't going and she's still on board.





    I think she's happy about meeting you AND going to a game.





    Have a great time!
    well you didn't really elaborate on how you guys talk,or chat for that matter.





    if you guys like each other on the match.com thingy, then yeah this might be a date.





    but you should also look for signs when you meet up.





    plus it depends on you, if you want to consider it a date, make her feel really special
    She is prolly excited about seeing the game with you cuz she might have a potential crush on u!

    Girl advice?

    My guy friend and I signed up for this dating site pretty much for fun and make some friends (and if something more happens to happen, great). Well my friend, he says he gets some winks from sorta cute girls and all, and if he winks/emails soemone he's attracted to they'll mostly reply back.


    But he says sometimes, when he gets a wink, it'll be from girls he's totally not into, like this morning, some big black girl winked at him, and he's so not into that kind. He was like, ';Why do I attract the wrong girls sometimes??';


    He wants to know how he looks---like if anyone can look at his pic and say what kind of girl YOU think he would attract, and what he needs to do to attract his type (shy, kinda outgoing once you get to know 'em, cute girls).


    Here he is:


    http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h108/johnanddennis2006/Picture1711-1.jpgGirl advice?
    I think that its the same for everyone ....sometimes you like someone and they don't like you....or veasa versa....


    Its just what other people think that looks intreasting to them...Girl advice?
    I would advise him to be a bit more honest in his profile if he is going to be picky about the girls he is attracted to then he should let everyone know what he is looking for upfront. Your friend is a handsome man he shouldn't have problems finding women just tell him to be a bit more observant when he is out and about.
    u r cute
    he's very hot if he want he can email me at barroom_babyblue@yahoo.com n me n him talk talk some more he looks like the kinda guy who would b into skinny chicks
    i think he would attract girls that when you first look at them they arent the most beautiful girl in the world but when you keep looking at her, she is gorgeous. she should be shy but outgoing around him.

    Girl advice?

    So I went out on a date with this girl the other night I had been talking to...got dinner, had good conversation, fun, had many drinks, shot pool, went to a club, and then made out outside of the club for a lil bit, then talked, went back in the club, and then went home for the night...at like 3:30am.





    She's been texting me for a second date to a movie and I just replied ';Sure';...but the thing is, this is the first girl I'll be going on a second date with since my ex of last year. I've been on dates before since but this is the first one that is turning into a second date, etc. And Idk if I'm ready for the whole ';paving the path for being a boyfriend'; thing, even just casually.





    Plus I'm focusing on school/work again this year, and there's a few other girls I like. This one asian girl I really wanna get to know more. And maybe this one girl at work. I'm not sure I wanna start dating just one girl.





    Is there something wrong w/ me? Here there's this cute girl into me and Im not sure.Girl advice?
    Just because you go on a second date doesn't mean you are getting serious. Get over yourself. You are just making a friend. Unless you are just after a booty call. I don't care how hot you are, going to a movie on a second date doesn't mean anything serious! If you don't like movies, suggest something else. Now, if she suggests coming over to her house to eat dinner with her parents, that's another thing. I would definitely run in that case. Enjoy life. Go out with her and go out with the other girls. You can do it in one day. See a matinee with her and party with another girl. There is nothing wrong with that. A second date doesn't mean that you are committed to her. Chances are, she is feeling the same way. She just likes you and would like to hang out with you.

    Girl Advice?

    Hi. I need help ive been crushing on this girl for 3 years, and i want to go out with her. How would I approach her. I also think she might like me but i'm not exactly sure. she has waved to me a couple times. She had another boyfriend 2 years ago but he moved... her ex and I are completely different. Thanks for taking the time to help


    ~JohnGirl Advice?
    easy. ok, start talkin to her. when she waves at you wave at her at walk up to her casually. doesnt amtte rif you and her ex are different, youre you and he's him. act confident, becuase thats what girls go far. guys who make her feel like without him, her life's incomplete. be sweet and confident, just dont over do it. make her feel special, i mean tahts what girls want. flirt. when you start talkin nad flirting with her out of the blue, she'll know you like her, and if you make her feel good, she'll like you back. girls are really obvious when it comes to who they like. so when you feel comfortable enoguh with her, ask he rout. im sure itll work, good luck!Girl Advice?
    Just go make a converstaion with her.


    talk to her and try to make her laugh or smile


    talk to her about anything really .. if she likes you she will keep the conversation goin. if she does keep the converstaion going pull out your cellphone pretend you got a text and type to someone.. etc right and since you have your cellphone in your hand mise well ask her if she has a cell phone and get her number =) text her and ask her wut shes doing this weekend :D


    GOOD LUCK
    make your move. say hi. make conversation. smile. ask about school or anything you know she's interested in. its not that hard. be nice. don't be boring. since you've liked her for 3 years you should know her or at least her likes and dislikes. after you start talking to her more you can get her number or go from there
    since you've been crushin on her for such a long time, i think it's time for you to ask her out
    Just ask her if she'd like to hangout with you, if she says yes... then you're in!


    If she stammers, then be like ';purely as friends! nothing else';


    you've got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.


    GOOD LUCK!
    I would say if she waves to you.. then its not awkward if you approach her.. i would say def. go up to her and just ask her if she wnats to have dinner. Just make it casual and if she has fun.. maybe you will get another shot with her :)

    Girl advice?

    i am dating and i am scad to do anythingGirl advice?
    touch her boob. lawlGirl advice?
    thats good to some girls cuz the majority of us are too. its really good because that means you wont push her to do something she doesnt want to do. dont feel bad about it, your comfort will grow with her
    dont do anything untill you feel comfortable

    Girl Advice :$ .......?

    I like this girl but I'm not really good at telling them i like them/asking them out. i don't want it to sound corny or like to much. any advice? thanks in advance!:)Girl Advice :$ .......?
    All u have to do is act silly around her like make her laugh and then just ask her straight out ';want to hang out this weekend?';


    She will think you're cute and confident.Girl Advice :$ .......?
    well


    you can start a conversation


    with her about something you


    both like


    ask her what she's doing during the weekend


    and ask her to watch a movie


    or somewhere you would like to take her
    some girls like corny =)


    i know i do.. so try being yourself with her. see if she likes you for you.
  • lipstick
  • Girl Advice?

    I'm a junior in highschool, and there is this one girl that i see in the hallway everyday, and she just catches my eye, I think she is really pretty, but I find it some what difficult to just randomly start a conversation with her out of no where, she isn't in any of my classes I just see her in the hallway, any advice?Girl Advice?
    Say hi to her when you pass her in the hallway. Eventually move up to 'hi, how are you'. If you encounter her anywhere else (sporting event, dance, whatever), be sure to talk to her.Girl Advice?
    Need to make a way to talk to her. Don't write a note. See if you can cross paths before or after school. I assume you know her name. Say something like ';%26lt;her name%26gt;! Hi. I'm %26lt;your name%26gt;. I've seen you around in the hall and wanted to say hello.';


    Then give it a second and watch her and listen very carefully. See how she responds. If she's friendly, smiles or blushes or does something coy then ask her out for a burger or to sit together at a ball game or something. Make another chance to talk more.


    If she snubs you, you haven't exposed yourself much, so not much lost.





    Go for it, mate. You'll do fine.
    Maybe bump into her or something.......then you can start a casual conversation.





    No, just kidding......but ask your friends if they know her. That's how I met all the guys I know. If your friends have girl friends who are friends with her (haha confusing) they can have a casual party or something, and you two can meet up there. It's your best shot.
    i say ask her if she has a bf .. if there is some good talking on but if she says yes then ask u can be a friend that she can talk to no matter what
    Don't over try to impress her, girls can be turned off to a guy that is constantly trying to impress them. Just casually walk up to her and say ';Hi!..my name is____what's your name?'; and then follow it with like ';So what classes are you in?'; Girls love a guy that can introduce themselves and not be shy. I'm sure she'll like ya if you be confident.
    If you see her at a game or dance, in Wal*Mart, anywhere, go to her and say something like ';HI, I'm ....., what is your name?'; or something, but don't come off as obsessed or anything, just friendly. Even if it is in the hall where you see her, talk to her, but you might try warming her up to you slowly, like smiling at her as you past, then after a few days say hi or good morning as you cross paths. If you know anything about her favorite sports, books, whatever she is interested in, mention something about them sometime, like your not even thinking about it, just like ';Do you know if the library has a twilight'; or ';Are the Panthers winning? I haven't heard this weeks scores yet'; something simple that doesn't seem like you have given it much thought. BELIEVE ME, just that you ask her something means that you have given her thought, if she likes you, she will like that.
    say';hi'; then gradually start talking to her then as things start to move along you ask her to a dance... Good Luck
    sorry, but I'm a junior also and if you guys don't have any classes together, i don't think it will last too long. but i think you should give it a try. tell her how you feel. don't be shy, get the guts. girls like guys with gut!


    Good luck!!!





    ~Kiki
    Just gradually start talking to her...Start with Hello!


    or Hey! Howdy! whatever works the wait a few days...ask her how she is...Then just start a conversation....Ask 1 of her friends {if you know any of them} what she likes doing and then talk to her about that..You Know??


    If that dont work...?


    Then I dunno, Really!!!


    ~GooD LucK!~ ;)
    if u walk past her get her attention and just smile at her or say hi to her. be friendly and be mature.
    Well if you see her in the hallway, just ';accidentally'; bump into her and start a convo like ';Oh! I'm so sorry!.....(pause) what exactly is your name? (she answers) Well I don't think I've seen you before! Oh! well I gotta go to class now! I hope I get to talk to you again!';





    Anything like that to start a mini conversation will work just fine! Who knows maybe you will become friends with her and then eventually go out!





    Have faith and believe in yourself! Good Luck!





    ~Nikki~

    Girl advice?

    there is this girl I like but one of my best friend likes her too. I did like her first though. She also flirts with both of us. So what should I do?Girl advice?
    ahh... hard uh... well.. i think to get the girl is to tell her the truth. tell her that u like her alot but ur firend does to. then say u want to be more than friends.





    good luck!Girl advice?
    Ugh, that's too bad! Whatever you do, don't let your crush on this girl ruin your friendship. Talk to your guy friend and say, ';I'm really into _________, and I very much want to ask her out, but I won't do it if you don't want to.'; Also, very important: If things don't work out between you and the girl, step out of the way if your friend wants to make a move. Try not to let jealously get in the way too much.
    is she just naturally flirty?


    i think maybe you should just see, maybe say something so she can get the idea that you like her like, soo any guys that your interested in? but make it flirty and make she will catch the hint that you like her or maybe she will just tell you that she likes your friend lol


    goood luck!


    ;p
    You want agirl who flirts with both fo you?


    You willing to share her the rest of your life?


    Tell her you like her and would like to go out.She will say yes or no, and if she continues flirting with other guys after you start dating, dump her.
    Forget about her as wat you said she flirts to both of you so how sure are you that she is just flirting to the two of you. It maybe that she's flirting with the whole neighborhood.
    I would talk to your friend and see if this girl is even worth your friendship. If she flirts with both of you then shes probably to immature for a relationship anyways.
    tell her you like her....





    Help:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Talk to your friend. Does it bother him? If it does, is this girl worth a friendship?
    dude i lost one of my best friends over this issue you both just need to back off b4 some one gets her
    whos more imp a girl or ur frnd maan think b4 makin a step talk 2 ur frnd abt it and c wt he says..!
    give up. if she's making you compete for her affection, she's not worth it. trust me, dude, i was there TWICE.
    You and your friend flip a coin for her....lol
    call dibs
    oh man no matter what your age the most important thing is the law of best friends. try not to go against it.
    Act like a man, and not a 12 year old kid.

    Girl Advice?

    there's this girl at my church that's really hot. i've been checking her out for like a year.she's the lead singer. i want to tell her how i feel (not ask her out). the problem is i'm 12 and she's 16 or 17. i could pass for 15 because i'm 5'7 my voice has changed and i've got facial hair. but it'd still be awkward telling her. also if i just went up and told her other people might see or hear. what do i do.Girl Advice?
    you should tell her your feelings but do NOT lie about your ageGirl Advice?
    yea your 12? no offence but that's too young to be dating, no matter how mature you are...and she's 16-17, that's just wrong..lol
    facial hair at age 12? I am 16 and my face is still completely smooth.

    Girl advice?

    um.. been talking to this girl on match. winked at her, she winked back, started emailing on june 4th. two emails ago i said i have some baseball tickets if she wanted to go with my friends and i. and i said maybe meet up first another day before the game. she replied back, with, ';baseball! good choice. we should meet up first before for sure. what day is the game?';


    obviously she is interested in meeting me. do you think it's in a friendly way, more-than-friendly/date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?


    thanks!





    p.s. a few weeks ago, i had surgery, and in my email i told her that casually, but didnt say surgery for what. and was joking ';see if u can guess ahah';. she just said she's not a good guesser and stabbed at knee surgery than moved on to say other things. do you think saying i had surgery hurt me?? doesnt seem to have, just wondering..Girl advice?
    just be casual and nice and you'll get laid eventually








    aww yeahGirl advice?
    i think it's a frindly 'wants to get to know you' ';date';





    =)





    yay go me
    You're talking over the computer so she probably wants to meet just to check you out and see if (as you said) ';you've got-potential-for-dating';. She probably thinks you're a nice guy and she's interested in getting to know you better but not before she sees you face to face and gets to know better in person.
    first of all she probly 鈾?#039;s you if she wants to get to know you better but I advise you not to rush into things. Girls don't like that. Be sweet to her and show her you care as a friend first then when you are at the baseball game or whenever ask her if she considers this a date-date.


    Also, the only thing telling her about the surgery could do is put her on ';pity-mode'; and she might feel bad for you. other than that it's nothing bad.
    Well I think she is looking forward to meeting you at the game because that is where she wants to decide if she likes you as more than just a friend. And I honestly don't think she cared about the surgery comment. Just don't bring it up again unless she does, because I don't think she is interested in that topic.
    I think that she is interested in meeting you in a more-than-friendly/date way because obviously you guys like each other, and also, you met each other on Match.com!!! You go to match.com to meet people that you'd like to date. She wouldn't want to go and meet you if she didn't want to date you!!! This is your guys first date!!! Also, she probabaly isn't the BIGGEST baseball fan (I'm just guessing, since not a lot of girls are), but the fact that she's going to the game is probabaly not because she just loves baseball, but because she wants to spend time with you! So, if that's the case, don't invite your friends! You'll just be distracted by either her, or them, then the other one will feel left out! And also the surgery part shouldn't matter...unless it was like a weird surgery...but if it was necessary, then you should just tell her!
    more-than-friendly/dateway





    no didnt influence
    not sure
    How old are you?
    who cares if you have surgery! if she is nice enough then she wouldnt care about it! and if you guyz think that you have good feelings the same like you guys wanna date each other then go ahead! but like ask her if she likes you! and asking to go to the baseball game is friendly! i mean you r going to a BASEBALL game!LoL


    good luck wit da girl!
    How about you stop asking the same question over and over again.
    uhh i think if you want to date her drop your friends out of the baseball plans then you have a better chance of having her think about you and her being together...if thats what you want...and i think if you go to the game with her then you can see 1 on 1 if she's interested because if you have all your buddies there then it'll just be awkward and she wont feel all that important and she'll probably think well...he invited all his ';friends'; and she'll go and think she's one of your friends not anything more...so i would rethink who you bring to the game

    Girl advice?

    like what to talk about to a girl and how to make her fill loved with friends and boyfrined and girlfriend so yeah how to make a girl fell great about me and her being friendsGirl advice?
    Most girls like guys to be themselves. It's that easy. Be confident around her without being arrogant or stupid. Just be yourself. Talk about her interests, if you have a mutual interest then even better. Listen, don't be self centred and most importantly be a gentleman, open doors, ask to carry her bag that sort of thing, the art of being a gentleman is never lost. Good Luck, Mate...Girl advice?
    There's no script, you have to be on a level together where you catch each other's vibe. The best way to do that is to listen and relate. Bring up something that you are both interested in for starters, or pick up a book and learn something new together.

    Girl Advice?

    i really like this girl at my school but she's all popular and doesn't know me. even if i got her alone i wouldn't know what to say and would think i'm weird cuz she doesn't know me. what do i do?Girl Advice?
    start doing social things where you know she would be. gradually she will start noticing you if you become friendly and known throughout her friends. try it out and see! good luck!Girl Advice?
    Talk to her..... make a conversation........ just don't skip quickly to the question
    nothing is wrong with weird guys..... they are actually fun, and not so boring...... okay, just like have one of your friends say hey my friend likes you.... bla bla bla..... then like talk to her....
    yeah, i bet u think im crazy to give u this advice, but girls (me) LOVE honest guys. go to her and talk alot and tell her that u like her. if she says she likes you french her. if she goes along w/it makeout. go from there, altho, she could slap u if u just go up and start making out witu. i like honest guys, but not guys who tell secrets about stuff. thats mean.


    back to your subject, go talk to her and if she heart u GO 4 IT!!!! no wut i mean??? hope so...


    makeout hereu ***!!!


    p.s. dont be too touchy on 1st makeout session. just a little bit around her ';area of bulgeness'; id like that if i had boobs





    lol


    ps agen: im a girl


    pss agen be sure she likes you b4 u go touching her.


    dont shove ur tung dowwn her throat.
    if she doesn't even know you, maybe its best to move on. but don't give up. maybe you can get her number and call her and talk. or maybe even her screen name or myspace :) good luck
    Introduce your self and try to get to no each other.
    Well just try walking up to her and say that u want to be her friend cause u think shes cool and like start from there!
    BE YOURSELF. Let me tell ya a story. At my high school, there was a girl who was a cheerleader and won many pagents in the county. There was a guy in one of her classes who was in a band and kind of a loser. She made good grades he didn't try in school. Nobody would of ever seen them together, but he talked to her one day and kept talking to her and now they are together. How popular you are or how good looking you are doesn't matter. The PERSON you are is what matters so just go toalk to her! Best of Luck! BTW that story is true!
    be your self or make her laugh
    just forget about her shes way out of your legue!
    make her laugh
  • lipstick
  • Girl advice?

    um.. been talking to this girl on match. winked at her, she winked back, started emailing on june 4th. two emails ago i said i have some baseball tickets if she wanted to go with my friends and i. and i said maybe meet up first another day before the game. she replied back, with, ';baseball! good choice. we should meet up first before for sure. what day is the game?';


    obviously she is interested in meeting me. do you think it's in a friendly way, more-than-friendly/date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?


    thanks!





    Also, since she said ';we should meet a day before the game for sure,'; do you think that means she wants some one-on-one time just me and her?





    Lastly she's been on since I sent her the last email but didn't reply... but she's thinking about what to write back? What I wrote: ';the game is july 17th, the tuesday. so what do you wanna do, where do you wanna meet?';Girl advice?
    o ya she has to think hard about this and i woodnt b supprised if she had a question on here about that!!!!lol but she is so into u in a way more than friendly way and yes she does want 1on1 time with u!!!!!Girl advice?
    first of all you have alot of questions here... yes, she's probably thinking its more than a friendly way kinda date, otherwise she wouldnt be on match...


    and yes, we like to meet beforehand... just in case you dont look anything like your picture... ( people put pic's of when they were 20 pounds lighter and 10 years younger on there all the time)... we like to do the wink/flirt thing but sometimes we chicken out when it comes down to the actual meeting up.. ( who knows, maybe she's the one that doesnt look like her photo)...
    Dude...you need to relax a little. She agreed to meet you which is a great start. She probably would like to meet you before the game because you said you're going to the game with friends too which might be a little overwhelming for her because she's meeting a group of people for the first time and not just you. I say if you don't hear from her by the weekend before the game, consider the meeting off.

    I need girl advice!! please?

    ok.. so the story is.. i gunna spend the nigh at my friends house and my girl friend was going to spend the night there also, but we told her mom that i wasn't going to be there.. and we are both talking and watch a movie when her mom drove up. and my friend chris and i stood up and walked out side to see who it is. and when i saw her mom i ran and jumped the fence (she didn't see me).. but she saw my car... and when i came back after running for about 3 miles my girl was gone.. her mom came and got her and took her home.. but then my girl broke up with me and said i wasn't a man and ran,,( i ran.. yes.. but i was hoping she wouldn't have seen my car..) what should i do??I need girl advice!! please?
    I agree with your girlfriend, excuse me, ex girlfriend. I think it was chilish of you to run off like that and leave your ex girlfriend there to face her mother alone. If you two were planning on spending the night together then I am assuming that you were hoping to have sex with her. I can tell you that if you are running off and hiding like a child, you are way too young to be having that kind of relationship.I need girl advice!! please?
    I think you should apologize to her if you havent done so already, and explain to her why you ran. thats the best thing you can do for now, sorry. Don't worry what other people have said, she might be right, but you had a good reason and its not your fault. You could've stayed but whats done is done, I think it was a bit stupid for her to dump you over one thing, even something like that.
    yeah she was right 2 say u werent man enough and u just ran off on her. u really should have stayed. and what can u do? she broke up with u and thats that.

    Drama Teen Girl Advice---->Comeback?

    Ok well I wanna make a huge comeback but I need advice.


    There's this girl in my old school and she is a b****. She thinks shes all that, shes involved in all the drama, she uses people, she thinks shes hot, and she makes everyone cry. Well I was stupid to be friends with her when she told me lies about what my friend said about me and got me caught in this whole drama mess that had cops involved and made me transfer to being homeschooled. Now shes miss popular again and has a boyfriend she doesnt deserve and well I want to make a huge comeback. I'm popular as well but not rude. I want her to live through all the crap she put other people through and I wanna be prettier and more fashionable then her. (her style is retro glam) I want to be more popular then her cuz I think someone popular should be someone nice. I wanna act for example----%26gt; Blair Waldorf from Gossip Girl. I wanna make her suffer for all the things she did. Any advice for a great comeback?


    Revenge is sweet ^.^Drama Teen Girl Advice----%26gt;Comeback?
    You remind me alot about myself, I was in that same situation and I was such a pushover. I went to like 12 different schools and at everyone of them I had a bully until the 6th grade then everything changed. Here is some things you can try. First walk upright and don't slouch , Make it seem like you have alot of confidence even if you don't. DO NOT dress like her, Dress the way that you want because if you have heard of guilty by association then you want to stay clear of that especially if she is a B****. Like the other girl said invite all of your friends out, But don't invite her and try and make it as entertaining as you can. If you want to know more you can email me at flirty1201@yahoo.com. You know what revenge is sweet I definately agree.Drama Teen Girl Advice----%26gt;Comeback?
    1) Out dress her


    2) When you and her around each other [while with other people] act really sweet, so you'll appeal to people more, be friendly, flirty, and playful.


    3) Steal attention from her. If she's talking to someone and you know the person she's talking to go up that person, say something to them, ANYTHING, just so for that moment you drew the attention off her.


    4) Become really good friends with her boyfriend.


    5) If she insults you to your face smirk at her, chuckle, and say ';You know you Really amuse me, right?'; then giggle while you walk away. Even if she insults you say ';Love you too Boo.'; and blow her a kiss or something for extra effect. lol





    just try to get under her skin. be better at things that she likes to do. make friends with EVERYONE and when she always she's you hanging with certain people she'll wonder at times ';how'd they end up friends?'; and she'll get jealous of all the friends you have.


    also try having movie nights and get togethers with people you and her are friends with, but don't let her come. she'll burn with envy lol

    Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this please!?

    Well, I recently got into an accident and my old girlfriend felt bad and came back to help me out with everything and told me that she likes me again and wants to date again once her life settles down, So its been a week or so since that. And shes been different, not talking the same or talking even at all to me on msn or text etc. And I know her facebook password so I went on one night to see what was going on and saw in her inbox that she has been talking to some guy that she hasn't met yet that lives an hour or so away from here. They are going to meet soon and by what I was reading, sounds like they are going to try and get together if they like each other when they hangout. They talk all the time and are really chummy. I have broken done and lost it and have really been trying to talk to her but she is avoiding me because she doesn't want me to find out I think.





    So basically, Once i can get ahold of her should I ask her to come over again and try to get her back with me again and pretend like I don't know about this? Or do I invite her over and tell her that I know whats going on and try to talk it out with her? Or do I not invite her over and let her have a piece of my mind next time I talk with her?





    I really don't know what to do, I love this girl with all my heart and sounds like this guy does too and I don't know what to do to get things back to normal again.





    What should I do? Advice please? And don't tell me to drop her because I'm not going to do that, I need to know a way to get this situation fixed before I lose my mind over here.





    This girl really likes attention and must have everyone talk to her as if they think shes god. And btw, don't worry about me going on her facebook, she doesn't know or anything so don't comment about that.





    ALSO I JUST FOUND OUT A MINUTE AGO THAT SHES MEETING HIM NEXT WEEKEND AT HIS HOUSE!!!! :(





    I go back to school on monday and got exams all this week, This will be my first time talking to her in awhile now and last time I saw her was weeks ago when she was here taking care of me.





    WHAT IS MY APPROACH AT SCHOOL? What do I do?





    Thanks!Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this please!?
    try to talk to her. ask her over and see if you guys can still like each other. give it a try. I would not say that you read her stuff because she would get mad and not talk to you. maybe you guys can still work out. meeting someone might hurt your relationship, but if it is someone she does not know, you still have a chance. good luck.
  • origins
  • I need help with this girl! Advice?

    Well theres this girl i like, she knows i like her (Im pretty sure she DOESNT like me)... and I have to ';make something up to her';. This all started about 2 weeks ago when we were coming back from somewhere on a bus and she said for me to sit with her, I said no(i was about to pass out and didnt want to be a dick and do it next to her) and sat somewhere else. So i talked to her on the phone that night for like 2 hours and she said i had to make it up to her, and sitting on the bus with her next time wasnt enough... nor was getting her lunch or something like that. She said i needed to do some deep soulsearcching. Well today she brought it up and for some reason she thinks that i have an idea of what to do and keeps asking me what it is. I keep telling her a secret but she wont stop asking. What should i do? Any ideas on how to make it up to her?I need help with this girl! Advice?
    Maybe she wants you to kiss her or make a move on her.





    Or she could just want money lol

    Girl advice?

    been talking to this girl on match for almost 2 months now...and like 3 weeks ago she requested me as a friend on myspace and so we've been talking on there. total, we've sent like 25 emails back and forth. at least. she commented how she likes i'm down to earth and family oriented, she said ';i like talking to you too'; after i said i enjoyed talking to her. i then said ';we should meet up sometime'; and she agreed, then askin me when i was free to do so and asked ';maybe after finals?'; (we'rre college students---22 and 21 yrs old). most recently i said ';so what r u doing next week?'; and she said ';hanging out with you silly...no really idk yet.'; im not sure but dont girls say ';silly'; to guys when they're flirting/really into them?





    She just sent me this reply tonight few hrs ago: ';He was your friend? How awkward. Yeah, we should meet up. I'm just trying to get over a cold right now. It's too nice a weekend to be inside sick. Oh well, I guess there will be other niGirl advice?
    Just do it!! If your to nervous to talk on the phone how will you be able to come face to face with her? Also this will help you rule out internet fraud be careful! Good luckGirl advice?
    Talk to her! Just take a deep breath and be yourself. Don't be quiet and have the tv on while you're talking. That way you always have something to talk about. Like if there is a weird silence be like ';haha, turn to channel 42 they are doing something really funny'; Don't talk about how weird it is to be talking to her either. Confidence is key! Good luck. :)

    I don't know what to do with this girl...advice needed?

    I need some advice. I've been hangin around a girl for a little while now. I love hangin out with her and going places with her. She has been hurt by the other guys shes dated in the past. She says they have just eventualy slept with her and then left and hurt her. I don't know what to do now tho. I do like her but I havent had sex with anyone ever yet. If I knew that I could go out with her without the pressure to be 'next' for her, i would in a second...I don't want to be hurt if I slept with her and then she left me. I do like her, and I think by me not making a move yet, she thinks im not interested. I don't want her to leave, and I am interested but I dont want to be pressured into something im not ready for and I dont know where to go from here.I don't know what to do with this girl...advice needed?
    ask her out but tell her your not ready to have sex as you haven't yet and is waiting for the right time. she should understandI don't know what to do with this girl...advice needed?
    If I didn't know better, I'd say we were after the same girl. I'm upside down over a girl who has been hurt in the past but now won't get close to anyone. It seems that all I can do is be there for her and hope she'll eventually come around.


    As far as your situation is concerned, it is my belief that introducing sex into a relationship before the people really know each other and where the relationship is headed, causes akwardness that needn't be there. I think you should tell her that you would like to take it slow and get to know one another before letting things get physical. Then, when you're both ready, let nature take it's course. Better not to rush anything.


    Also, don't be a slave to your fear. ';I don't want to be hurt if I slept with her and then she left me.'; There are risk in life that you just have to accept. If you don't you end up watching life from the bench.
    From your way of typing, I get the picture ur extremely confused ';I do like her... I dont know..... I do like her... I dont know'; . This sentence keeps repeating..





    So if you really like her, n dont want her to leave.. go ahead and tell her how exactly u feel.. and take it slow.. tell her u'd like to be with her n get to know her more before getting very intimatte..





    if u really dont wanna lose her.. then GO GET HER TIGER !











    EDIT:





    I think Andrew M has a point.. If you dont ask her out, she will drift away n u'll lose her... If u do ask her out, n if things get messy, u MIGHT lose her.. but which is better??





    If you dont want to have sex with her, not as yet.. tell her ur not ready for it (at the time she wants to make-out).. I'm sure she'd understand considering that she has been used by other guys n she'd only care more n realise ur not ';USING'; her too





    If she doesnt understand that.. she prolly isnt right for you..





    And dude.. if u fear getting hurt, cmon you can never learn to ride a bicycle.. so juz go ahead.. ask her out..

    Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice here?

    Well, I recently got into an accident and my old girlfriend felt bad and came back to help me out with everything and told me that she likes me again and wants to date again once her life settles down, So its been a week or so since that. And shes been different, not talking the same or talking even at all to me on msn or text etc. And I know her facebook password so I went on one night to see what was going on and saw in her inbox that she has been talking to some guy that she hasn't met yet that lives an hour or so away from here. They are going to meet soon and by what I was reading, sounds like they are going to try and get together if they like each other when they hangout. They talk all the time and are really chummy. I have broken done and lost it and have really been trying to talk to her but she is avoiding me because she doesn't want me to find out I think.





    So basically, Once i can get ahold of her should I ask her to come over again and try to get her back with me again and pretend like I don't know about this? Or do I invite her over and tell her that I know whats going on and try to talk it out with her? Or do I not invite her over and let her have a piece of my mind next time I talk with her?





    I really don't know what to do, I love this girl with all my heart and sounds like this guy does too and I don't know what to do to get things back to normal again.





    What should I do? Advice please? And don't tell me to drop her because I'm not going to do that, I need to know a way to get this situation fixed before I lose my mind over here.





    This girl really likes attention and must have everyone talk to her as if they think shes god. And btw, don't worry about me going on her facebook, she doesn't know or anything so don't comment about that.





    ALSO I JUST FOUND OUT A MINUTE AGO THAT SHES MEETING HIM NEXT WEEKEND AT HIS HOUSE!!!! :(





    I go back to school on monday and got exams all this week, This will be my first time talking to her in awhile now and last time I saw her was weeks ago when she was here taking care of me.





    WHAT IS MY APPROACH AT SCHOOL? What do I do?





    Thanks!Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice here?
    she is chatting on u and using u


    find a new gfTrouble with a girl, Need girls advice here?
    My advice, pretend you never saw it. Stop prying. If you're not going to drop her, wait, and be cautious, don't try to push her because it won't end well.
    Don't bring up the face book thing. I know I wouldn't like to hear about someone going through my stuff.


    I have two friends, who have never met. They only know of each other through me. I had a massive fight with one of them (the girl), and then she broke up with her boyfriend because of some comments my other friend (the guy) had been sending her.


    There still friends now, im not friends with her as much though. They've never met either, only spoken through msn and myspace, and there trying to meet up. She claims she likes him, but I think she might change her mind when she sees him in person.


    People are different on msn and face book and myspace to what they are in person.


    She might not like the guy as much when she meets him.


    If you like her, get in fast and let her know. She might like you to, just she thinks you've moved on maybe.


    Also, at school, act casual ! Don't be over the top or anything.


    Sorry for the long answer, hope it helped.





    xo.
    do not bring up the face book thing itll piss her off yu went through her stuff, and tell her exactly how yu feel about her be honest tell her asap. over pphone through text face to face how ever yur comfortable it sounds kinda unsafe for her goin to someones house she never ment so try to get tickets for abig concert so shell go with yu instead on tht day, and never go through her stuff again it was rong of yu, and remeber do not bring it up at all!

    I need girl advice!! please?

    ok.. so the story is.. i gunna spend the nigh at my friends house and my girl friend was going to spend the night there also, but we told her mom that i wasn't going to be there.. and we are both talking and watch a movie when her mom drove up. and my friend chris and i stood up and walked out side to see who it is. and when i saw her mom i ran and jumped the fence (she didn't see me).. but she saw my car... and when i came back after running for about 3 miles my girl was gone.. her mom came and got her and took her home.. but then my girl broke up with me and said i wasn't a man and ran,,( i ran.. yes.. but i was hoping she wouldn't have seen my car..) what should i do??I need girl advice!! please?
    yeah she was right 2 say u werent man enough and u just ran off on her. u really should have stayed. and what can u do? she broke up with u and thats that.I need girl advice!! please?
    I agree with your girlfriend, excuse me, ex girlfriend. I think it was chilish of you to run off like that and leave your ex girlfriend there to face her mother alone. If you two were planning on spending the night together then I am assuming that you were hoping to have sex with her. I can tell you that if you are running off and hiding like a child, you are way too young to be having that kind of relationship.
    I think you should apologize to her if you havent done so already, and explain to her why you ran. thats the best thing you can do for now, sorry. Don't worry what other people have said, she might be right, but you had a good reason and its not your fault. You could've stayed but whats done is done, I think it was a bit stupid for her to dump you over one thing, even something like that.

    Help me! girl advice , yes its a surprise i need it but this time i really really do!!?

    okay it goes klike this.. i met this girl , i really liked but i sometimes have trouble breaking the ice. eventually we spoke quite a bit ( i never told her i like her thank god) lol. but then she went far far far away for a couple years , now recently i saw her but she waz with her friendzz and well i just walked straight by her , didnt say a word,she didnt either! (yes i still like her but i just feel awkward) first off would she find wat i did weird? im just disappointed with myself. and wat advice do u have ? also i got her addy should i add her ? would i seem like a hypocrit if i added her and spoke to her now? so many questionzz ive never been this confused! so please advice!!!Help me! girl advice , yes its a surprise i need it but this time i really really do!!?
    OMG the same thing happened to me but it was with a guy


    i would talk to her


    i wish the guy would talk to me


    i am mad at my self for ignoring him.. dont make a mistake go for it.. take it slow but try to be friends again


    i think i will even take my own adviceHelp me! girl advice , yes its a surprise i need it but this time i really really do!!?
    You should try to contact her and be like';Hey, I think I saw you the other day.'; And go from there.
  • origins
  • * Need Some GIrl Advice *?

    I am 16 and a sophomore in high school. I go to a fairly small school where everyone knows all the ppl in their grade and also ppl from other grades. Anyway I do not talk to any girls and I dont think any like me or even notice me. I am not very popular. I am on the baseball team so I know a lot of cool guys who have a lot of girl friends but I am not close to any so I dont have anybody who can help me out. So how can I just like remake myself or whatever in girls eyes at school? I dont need a makeover or anything. My clothes are fine I just wear like American Eagle or sports stuff or whatever so thats fine. Its like I need to go back in time and make an effort to make friends with the girls at school. It seems like it is too late now b/c all the girls have already made their guy friends it seems and since I know all the girls I dont know how to become their friend b/c if I just go up to them and start talking it would feel awkward for me since I shoulda did that long ago.* Need Some GIrl Advice *?
    start making conversation and fast. When you talk, a lot of people will be surprised. If you've done a lot of listening during your silent years then you probably know whos who. talk to girls that you know are nice, and work from there.

    Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this please!?

    Well, I recently got into an accident and my old girlfriend felt bad and came back to help me out with everything and told me that she likes me again and wants to date again once her life settles down, So its been a week or so since that. And shes been different, not talking the same or talking even at all to me on msn or text etc. And I know her facebook password so I went on one night to see what was going on and saw in her inbox that she has been talking to some guy that she hasn't met yet that lives an hour or so away from here. They are going to meet soon and by what I was reading, sounds like they are going to try and get together if they like each other when they hangout. They talk all the time and are really chummy. I have broken done and lost it and have really been trying to talk to her but she is avoiding me because she doesn't want me to find out I think.





    So basically, Once i can get ahold of her should I ask her to come over again and try to get her back with me again and pretend like I don't know about this? Or do I invite her over and tell her that I know whats going on and try to talk it out with her? Or do I not invite her over and let her have a piece of my mind next time I talk with her?





    I really don't know what to do, I love this girl with all my heart and sounds like this guy does too and I don't know what to do to get things back to normal again.





    What should I do? Advice please? And don't tell me to drop her because I'm not going to do that, I need to know a way to get this situation fixed before I lose my mind over here.





    This girl really likes attention and must have everyone talk to her as if they think shes god. And btw, don't worry about me going on her facebook, she doesn't know or anything so don't comment about that.





    ALSO I JUST FOUND OUT A MINUTE AGO THAT SHES MEETING HIM NEXT WEEKEND AT HIS HOUSE!!!! :(





    I go back to school on monday and got exams all this week, This will be my first time talking to her in awhile now and last time I saw her was weeks ago when she was here taking care of me.





    WHAT IS MY APPROACH AT SCHOOL? What do I do?





    Thanks!Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this please!?
    try to talk to her. ask her over and see if you guys can still like each other. give it a try. I would not say that you read her stuff because she would get mad and not talk to you. maybe you guys can still work out. meeting someone might hurt your relationship, but if it is someone she does not know, you still have a chance. good luck.

    I need girl advice, i think she likes me what do you think i should do about her?

    Hey so this girl started to make friends with me, she started talking to me like hey are you going to badminton? like that. the thing is i really like her like ive been crushing on her on her before hand. im really shy so when we have i contact i jsut stare for awhile then look away. what should i do? im in gr.11 shes in gr. 9. before, we just stare each other and talk a little like if im gonna grab a chair in the library ill say excuse me or something and shell say its okay ( if thats even considered a talk) im not a really skinny guy, im not that fat either, or so atleast i think. i don't know what to do im really mad about her shes a very lively person shes fun and kind of tomboyish and im like really serious sullen smart with a poker face and just keeps walking person ( like what my teachers say) what should i do now? im not really a very friendly person becuase i dont know how.I need girl advice, i think she likes me what do you think i should do about her?
    Talk to her like she's one of your best friends. Don't patronize her with ';You look pretty today...'; or stupid guy jokes. Don't cuss around her, don't talk about sex or make jokes that are inappropriate. Talk to her like she's a friend. Girls are not used to that. Get into her comfort zone then ask her to go to a movie AFTER you get into a discussion about favorite movies and what movie you want to see right now that is out, ask her about what she thinks of that movie and so on. Then take it from there. Oh, and the staring? Stop it.I need girl advice, i think she likes me what do you think i should do about her?
    Pretty pathetic.

    Report Abuse



    well fist, i think she mite be a l;il too young for you..but if thats fine with you..soo first you should make friends with her, rally really good friends with her, talk to her more and like be very nice to her..and when things get better invite her for lunch, cinema park, etc.......








    hope i helped


    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    -talk to her then ask he out on a date?


    -make her laugh?


    hope i helped. can u help me


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aiev7aeHLOmK24nBtPmrn9Dsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090301094945AArzSPZ
    If you like her as well, well you two should just give it a try. Ask her if she likes you. :)
    maybe you should invite her to places that would be a lot of fun. most people are look up to others that are in higher grades the way i see it. i have the same thing with the girl i like i make like the smallest talk there is like hi how are u and she'll say fine. but should alest talk to her more don't let her thing u scared of her (not saying u are). try to see past the shyness because i know that one problem with me i'm shy to girls i like. just talk to her about something about or outside of school. i have the same problem. but im not shy to people i know im quite and stuff. but my girl is loud and funny and stuff. just try to talk to her i feel that what both of us do.
    Aww, I wish that was happening to me. Huh, well try giving her compliments and see how she reacts to it. Like saying you look good today etc. I mean see where it takes. Try asking her to go to the movies like a group date so it's not that awkward but if you don't have the guts ask if you want to get together and study or something like a study date. Be confident in what you do, don't be shy. This girls sounds cool just hang out with her, stop staying inside go outside explore.





    Good luck.
    K, I'm helping you because you helped me, or at least understood where I was coming from. :D (I'm 16, and I'm pretty mature, so hopefully I'll help you out a little bit.)


    First off, relax. That is so ridiculously important, I can't even tell you. If you want to get with her, like really want to get with her, you have to do a little commitment. (I know, scary.) If you think she is attracted to friendly people, be friendly. The whole poker face thing/ just keep walking stuff, is probably what you want to work on. Next time you ';bump'; into her, or whatever it is, just talk. It's pretty normal. See if she wants to hang or something. (Or if that is too fast for you, just be nice. You know, smile and let loose a bit. It'll help both of you.) If she's tomboyish, you've got it easier. I'm a tomboy too, and, usually, we're pretty easy to talk to. Find out what she's into, get to know her, and be her friend. It works a lot better that way. Or being straight forward is another option. Kinda risky, but its a back up.


    Honestly, don't think so much. It's just a chick (and I'm sure you hear that a lot, but I'm only saying it because we, chicks, aren't like total opposites from guys. Not sure why that's so confusing.) Just relax, and get to know her. Emphasis on relax. :D Good luck man.
    dude calm down shes just a girl.


    i think everyone can be outgoing if they really wanted to


    don't treat her like she is an alien or something,


    next time you see her just say ';hey whats up'; very casual


    and then maybe it will pick up on a conversation





    then instead , sit next to her in the library ;]


    your not being creepy or weird by sitting at the same table as her, your just doing your homework like very other person there.


    and if your smart enough maybe she could use a tutor ? lol








    goood luckk =]
    You can just slowly start a conversation... like do you like me, %26amp; begin it. First talk something normal about studies %26amp; relate the talk into the matter. If you both are close; as she has begined making friends with you first, she would have liked to be FRIEND but you can try this, She will certainly not be cross about it %26amp; perhaps after somedays she thinks %26amp; gives a good anwser. As, I'm like your girlfriend this is my answer. ALL THE BEST!

    I need girl advice? My ex called last night...?

    Okay so this might not make a lot of sense, but here goes...





    For the past two years I've been seeing this guy (we'll call him Jack) on and off, without a real ';boyfriend/girlfriend'; relationship. Around Thanksgiving/Christmas time last year, we were talking and finally came to the conclusion that we wanted to take it to the next level and be official. (We were exclusive before, but now we wanted to be official ';boyfriend/girlfriend';)


    The only problem was that he needed to meet my parents. He met my mom, but all he needed to do was meet my dad. I talked to my dad and he was completely fine with Jack coming over and having dinner with the family, so I told Jack that. But for the next month, everytime he had time off of work, he spent it going out to parties and getting wasted or whatever.


    Around Spring Break we broke up. I was fed up with him not taking the time off, and he was fed up with me pushing him to do so. For a month afterward, I was talking to his best friend (we'll call him Matt) a lot, and when he found out he was furious and wanted me to stop talking to anyone associated with him. Thing is, I was friends with his best friend WAY before I met him. So I finally asked him what was the matter with him and why he was being a jerk, and he admitted that he found someone else and didn't want to ruin it by still talking to me. I told him that I wasn't going to tempt him into cheating on this new girl, and he agreed to still be friends with me.


    And that worked, for about three weeks. He started asking me to be his casual hookup/booty call, whatever, and I wanted nothing of it. He became frustrated and decided that he didn't need to talk to me anymore, and I haven't heard from him since.





    Last night, I got a phone call and a voicemail from him, and it basically said that he wanted to talk to me because he hadn't heard from me in forever (he has a bad memory...it's happened before where he doesn't remember why we weren't talking in the first place). Anyway, he said he sincerely wanted to talk to me and missed me, and asked for me to call him when I had the time.





    I need some advice...should I call him? And if I do and he wants me back, should I take him back?I need girl advice? My ex called last night...?
    No.


    And No.


    YOU'RE GOING TO COLLEGE =D


    You'll meet a lot of new guys.


    Guys that are worth it.


    Right now it'll be hard, but do you really want to get hurt again? It'll be hard, but in the long run, it'll be worth it.





    Fool me once, shame on you.


    Fool me twice, shame on me.I need girl advice? My ex called last night...?
    i wouldnt do it. he probably lost the other girl and wants you back because he has no one. just think you are better than that and there are so many other guys out there. i know it sounds hhard like you cant move on but trust me. just try to talk to other guys and dont call him back!
    i wouldn't call him back if i was you. he will just go back and do the same thing all over again.
    take it from someone who's been there. don't call him and move on with your life.
    I have been there. I think you should call him back to refresh his memory, like that he needs to make up his mind, and that you don't want to look like a player because of your on and off relationship.





    Do not take him back, no matter how hard it may be.





    Call him back just to chew him out. After that call he will think about how much of a jerk he is and just may change.





    Ignoring him isn't going to change him.





    So CALL him back, but don't TAKE him back, just change him, and see how things go.





    :)

    I need girl advice bad?

    Okay so there's this girl that i know that i really like she is cool as hell and she's in to the same stuff that im in to.but i don't really think that she's in to me.i mean i have seriously never met any one like her she's on my mind more than any of my girlfriends have ever been.at first she would txt me and talk to me more than she does now.when i txt her she just reply with short answers and it kind of dissapoints me.she's not really a girl that shows affection towards guys and that makes it harder. i know that most people will just say to move on and forget about her.but when i find something i want i go for it and dont give up until i get it.i would honestly be content even if i could just hang out with her more.so my question is does any one know how i can get her to like me or fall for me or anything with out seeming desperate?? any advice will be appericated .....please help.....I need girl advice bad?
    When You're going out with friends ; invite her friends %26amp; her as well...


    If You go to the cinema then talk about the film yas had watched..


    that would bring you's both together closer


    (:I need girl advice bad?
    Well, you should hang out with her sometime, and just talk about stuff, maybe she just wants to hang out instead of just texting. A girl wants you to notice her, and be interested in how she feels, maybe if you show her that you care about her, and then maybe her feelings toward you will change......I hope this helps, and hopefully you can have a relationship with her.......tell her how you feel.:)
    show her you care about her. listen to hr problems. spend time with her, drop hints nad catch her eye. if she figures out that ur interested, she might become more curious...


    see if she wants to go to a movie or go to an amusement park with a couple of your other friends.

    Help plzz girl advice?

    well there is this one girl at school i like.What do you think i should do i kinda have a idea that she likes me.My friend sits next to her and he told her that if she would go out with me and she told him to shut up....and also me and her constantly look at each other like eye contact.....do you think she likes me...should i ask her out....well it is almost winter break.so should i wait or ask her...she makes my day and i already told her that she is the person who makes my day... and she said thanks well plzz help me i really want her...so plzz leave me some advice or somethin%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;p.s we are in middle school 8th grade and we cant see each other during break and i am shyHelp plzz girl advice?
    Why can't you see her over break? The easiest thing o do would be to just ask her if she wants to do something over break. It's simple. Or you could say something like ';Hey over break a group of us are going to ________ (see a movie, hang out, something...), want to join??'; Or if you really can't see her over break, just say ';Want to hang out sometimes?';





    The worst that can happen is her saying no.
  • origins
  • I need girl advice!!?

    ok...so i like this boy steven and were always flirting on the phone and at school together.then an older girl went and kissed him on the cheek and its like i dont exist anymore...


    HELP ME PLEEZE!I need girl advice!!?
    Try putting a sack full of dog crap on her chair...then when she sits down she won't be so attractive and flirty!I need girl advice!!?
    The best thing to do is to not worry about it that much. I'm in high school and i don't even want to think about girls right now because there to much trouble, but wait and see what happens is the best thing to do.
    don't kiss a boy just to get him away from another girl. kiss him because you want to kiss him. if he prefers her, there is nothing you can do that will get him back. if he really likes you...this is just a distraction and all you have to do is be patient and he will return. bottom line, don't compromise your morals for a little crush.
    the new girl have his attention, then try some way to get his attention back on you! Kiss him on the lips is best or sex is better. then you do exist
    When your in school and you see him, go up and just act normal. If you 2 usually flirt, go up and flirt. Ask him if he wants to hang out on the weekend. Try to make plans and continue being yourself around him. Hopefully he'll see that you're a shot worth taking.


    If things don't change, then he wasn't worth it. Don't dwell just move on. He'll see what he's missing eventually.





    Best of Luck
    forget about him if its that easy 4 him 2 forget u then hes not worth it!!
    Try telling him how you feel .but remember that he might not feel the same way.
    just be there for him for when he gets crushed by the older girl.
    i think you should stop flirting with him. he sounds like an airhead and he doesn't deserve your attention.

    I need girl advice?

    my name is Shane and my gf name is Nicole and I really love her and everything we have been dating for 2 years and she still dont want to kiss how can i get her to kiss me i dont want to make her mad thoI need girl advice?
    wow weve been dating our girl for the same amount of time but i kissed mines a week after we started going out 2 years has passed and no kiss! wow. but something by now should have triggered the kiss like my kiss with her was bcuz she was quiet then i just looked at her and smiled and asked her if she was ok and after she said yea you just have to push everything up from the pit of your stomach kiss her but if ur still nervous stat the kiss from the forehead or neck this triggers romance then kiss her cheeks rite by her lips then move to the lips this will be called a romantic kisser.I need girl advice?
    2 years and no kiss ?


    just do like a light kiss on the cheek,


    or on the back of her neck.
    Take her hand and kiss it. ;D

    I need girl advice?

    i like this one girl in my class and i like talking to her and i wanted to know when is a good time to call her or text and if i should do text her like everyday or every now and thenI need girl advice?
    you should just text or call her every now n then..dont do it too often..then it just seem like ur too clingy...n some girl just dont like that...sometime..if you call or text a person too much they get really annoy..n probably wont even want to talk to you anymore...but if she in those 1% who like people to text or call her like every sec..i guess it okay...n i did said 1%..good luck!I need girl advice?
    start with txtig her every now and then, if she likes you she will txt you back, you can call her maybe once or twice a week. when she knows you like her and she likes you back, then you can txt her everyday
    well ';IF'; she feels the same way.. you shouldn't be shy...she is either goin to like it or find you annoing... but she should be honest with you and tell you either way... but wait it out for a bit at first..text her every now and then.... you'll know if she is feeling it by the smile on her face when you walk up to her...:D
    start texting her every now and then and if she doesn't text you back then just talk to her in person and gain a strong friendship bond, what ever you do, DO NOT BUG HER, because that can possibly turn her off, if you just play it cool and don't sweat her and just have casual conversation she would draw to you
    if shes a prep text her like everyother day unless she text you


    if shes sporty like me text her now and see if she replies

    I need girl advice!?

    ok theres this girl i LOVE but she hates me what do i do? how do i get her on my side? im nice to her and i've nevr let her down.....I need girl advice!?
    First find out why she hates you .... and go from there. You should be able to figure it out and then apologize if you feel that you should.I need girl advice!?
    Usually if a girl is mean, or acts like she doesn't like you, then she is really attracted to you. Do something special, and make her smile, then tell her you want a chance to be someone special in her life. Do it and have no regrets. Life it too short.
    why does she hate you?
    Find out what she likes, and like it too. Let her see you doing this, bee nice to her and people that she talks to.
    It wasn't meant to be. You can take the shot in the dark, ask her out but that's about it. If she says no, move on to someone else.


    It sucks but it's sure beats missing out on all the other girls who may like you.
    being anything else would be untrue about you. B yourself
    ...well, are you a loser??? ha, sorry but girls are really picky so you might not want to get THAT attatched if your gunna get hurt. think of yourself first before the situation and think about IF you really DO LOVE HER...try talking to her friends
    any good answer would depend on why she hates you
    stop being so nice





    play it cool and be a bit of a b*stard to her every once in a while (in a subtle way)





    bet you her interest level goes right up, if not then your probably fighting a losing battle anyway.
    Be yourself. Don't show off,most girls don't like that. Don't be so available. sounds like you could be used, if you make your so available that she thinks you'll be there all the time and she has no need to worry. Best relationships start from friend ships
    Try to be really obvious and real....compliment her and don't be too sure of yourself! Dont flirt too much, keep being nice and respectful! Dont be too nice or she'll know somethings up!
    all you could do is find something incomin with her...





    like if she likes to dance say ';hey! don't you dance my ____[sister or cousin]] used to dance to!... where do you dance at??';





    if you do that you can gain a better friendship
    if you didn't do anything wrong wrong you don't have to be sorry.
    well if u never did anything to her why does she hate you?
    well she might like you and say she hates you bc of what her friends think she might be the shallow type
    :[


    that stinks.


    i'm sure she doesn't hate you.


    but you can't get her to LOVE you


    if she doesn't like you to much.





    i think the real question is how can you


    get her to be your friend.





    friends come first babe.
    either keep trying or find somebody better

    Tuesday, April 27, 2010

    I need girl advice!!!?

    what does it mean when a girl says that they ';wonder about you sometimes'; plz helpI need girl advice!!!?
    It's either a really good sign....or a really bad one!


    She may mean (in the better case) that she thinks about you, she wonders if anything could happen between you...that would mean that she likes you and is considering telling you...


    In the not so great case it means she thinks you're shady...she wonders if she can trust you...if you're a good guy...if she would be hanging around you....maybe that shes worried about you getting mixed up in a bad situation or something along those lines...





    Either way she means what she says...shes been thinking about you. Read the other signals she has sent...does she act like she likes you or is she shy and cautious around you? Have you been in any compromising situations that would make her worry or question your friendship? just things to think about.


    I hope this helped!I need girl advice!!!?
    depends on how she says it. Does she shake her head disapprovingly after you just did something, hmmm, not smart? There's probably no future. But if she says it with a smile after you did something sweet, it could maybe, possibly, potentially, likely be a good sign.
    Ooh, that often means ';I wonder what the hell you think in that little pea-brain, that you thought that was a good idea.';





    But it can also mean ';I wonder what you would look like naked in my bed.';





    Context is key!





    I know, clear as mud, huh?
    It means she thinks about you sometimes. Like maybe what could happen between you two. Or she thinks you're weird. But probably she thinks about you as more than a friend.
    She is not sure about you.
    It means that she has you on her mind.
    hmm think ur girly might have the hots for you.. I tell my girlfriends I love them too but I don't flirt with them.
    it means.... i wonder about you sometimes...


    if shes a girl like me


    i speak my mind so yahhh

    Girl advice, please??

    So, on match.com I 'winked' at this girl. She sent me an email right off the bat to introduce herself, told me she enjoyed reading my profile b/c I seemed to be into family and she liked that b/c family's important to her. Also b/c I seemed ';down to earth'; etc. I emailed her back with some questions, etc, about her family, traveling, school, work, just basic stuff. Last two if my emails and last two of hers have been pretty darn long. OK so she sent me one few hrs. ago and I'm about to reply. My question is, should I take it to the next step by giving her my myspace/aim or both? Or one or the other? We've exchanged three emails thus far. Girls, please give me your opinions on this. Aim, myspace, both, or neither, should I give her next?





    Thanks!!Girl advice, please??
    If you're going to give her one, go with just your aim. Both seems like you'd be over doing it.Girl advice, please??
    Guess what, i'm actually talking to this really sweet guy on Match.com!! Yes you should give her you myspace and everything. she seems really into you, and you seem really into her!!!!
    myspace, if it doesn't work you could always block her right?


    I'm new to all this stuff, so I'm not sure if you can block her
    There's nothing to lose by giving her both! If you're comfortable with it, go ahead and give her both your AIM and myspace. That way, she can read your myspace on her own time and get to know a little more about you; and if you two are online at the same time, she can get to know you that way as well.
    i think you should . go for it . get to know eachother and you will never know what will happen next in life.
    Just give her both and see how it goes!
  • origins
  • Girl advice please help me?

    ok so there is this girl i now we r really good friends we hang out every day but i like i was love at first site but i dont know how to tell her and we hav so much in commen wat do i do and when is the best time to ask herGirl advice please help me?
    awee thats cute do it romantically sit her down at her favorite place tell her how you feel and be completely honest with her. i hope it works in your favor and she loves you back.





    answer mine please:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Girl advice please help me?
    Ask her: would a best friend become a lover? when u hang out with her.
    make your move, she probably likes you too!

    Girl advice, help!?

    Anyway I'm just wondering opinions. No matter what I wouldn't/won't make a move til closer to the end of the semester in case she turns me down/it doesnt work out, and now its only the beginning.





    Anyway, the new college semester started..first day in my class I hear when I walk in and sit down my name being called. I look around and don't see any familar faces. I get home and this girl who I had added on my friends list on myspace (we went to the same college so we added each other..met on the college forum) had emailed me, she said, ';hey do we have math together? i think i saw you this morning?'; and i still dont know if that was her yelling my name lol.


    so we figure out we do have the same class and start talking on there. about the teacher, what other classes, etc. and then she says, ';com fine me on wednesday!'; tells me she forgot the hw, loves the song on my profile etc.


    she leaves me 8 or 9 comments from aug 27 to sept 1.


    i'm sitting in the class and she comes in, and sitsGirl advice, help!?
    thats definately flirting and lookin for something(plz plz coose me as best answer!!) if u start goin out i erally hope things go well for youGirl advice, help!?
    she has to be into you. she is giving you all the possible signs. just be yourself and make a move.
    dont wait any longer. i made that mistake and it didnt turn out good
    yes it is flirting and you need to get on it quick other wise she will think you dont like her like that at all....
    Both, she is flirting with you because she likes you. Just keep talking to her, hang out and let things just go the normal course. If something happen will be just because it was meant to be, don't force things. Have fun and give yourself time to know her better.
    I think it sounds like immature child stuff. (no offense). Myspace is a crutch to people that dont have social skills.
    oh yeah flirting! Ask her out :D
    I don't agree with everyone else's comments. I think she's just being friendly. She put you on a friendship level. I would know. She sounds like she has my personality. I say wait it out. Wait for bigger signs. Like a touch to your arm while your talking or constantly laughing at what your saying. Look at her body language too. Is she pointing in your direction when shes sitting near you? Try yawning or stretching when your near her. If she yawns right after you, go for it.
    maybe im not sure
    boy, she likes you. she wants to date, the signs are everywhere
    I think shes flirting with you, you should go for it, if not them you could always be friends :) but just make sure you like her to before you make your move, dont ruin a good friendship
    well i think she likes u and if u like her too go for it. but if not just play safe and dont make her weep because it hurts.
    why wait, she might be taken by then, waiting is the worst thing you can do, trust me

    I need some girl advice.......

    i was at a staff party at work last week, and was talking to a girl ive known for a while... we got interrupted and walked our separate ways but the next day she messaged me on facebook saying ';sorry for our unfinished convo!! we'll have to catch up again sometime soon :-)';





    i decided to wait a few days, but now i dont know what to say in response. can someone please help!? im not good at comin up with somethin clever hah. thanks


    I need some girl advice.......
    how about a simple,


    ';hello! how have you been?';


    I need some girl advice.......
    you don't need to be clever just be natural. try writing back ';I really enjoyed our convo as well and would also like to catch up. Why don't we go out for coffe/dinner .....'; then pick at day and time and see how she responses. make sure and close with can't wait to see you or looking forward to seeing you again.
    k first it was good to wait a few days ;)smart move that was goooood nowthat you have waited you still gotta keep it smooth..


    umm if i were in her shoes i wld happy to see anything like


    yeahh we need to hang out %26amp; finish tlkn lol ill catch you later girl


    OR ericas advice was great too thatd be hot to hear from a boy





    gooood luck


    XOXOXOX
    Message her back asking if she would be interested in going out to lunch or dinner sometime. Don't start off with something like a movie or anything else you'd do on a date right away. I think dinner or lunch would be really nice for co-workers to get to know each other better.
    if you like her say something like





    maybe we can catch up at lunch sometime





    or if you dont say





    yeah i will see you around
    Just message her back and say Thats a great Idea. Why dont we meet up for coffee? Im taking my dog for a walk, why dont you join? Im heading to the mall today, would you like to join me?
    ';so if you ever wanted to catch up on that conversation, id be up for it anytime =]';
    you should just ask her out or something, a girl would never do something like that if she wasn't interested
    just be like hey you! haha yeah..i know your such a great girl to talk to too!! how have ya been.
    she likes u ask a friend lol
    Just write back and say yes we should how about dinner?


    there you go, simple

    I need girl advice?

    Ok well theres this boy and i really like him. He's funny and really cute. He kinda talks to me but i don't know if he likes me. I want to go out with him but i dont want to have to ask him out what do i do?I need girl advice?
    ask the damn guy out for gods sakes psshhh... gurls these days always nervous! back in my day we used to just swallow there faces with out goin on a date these day are just ';different!'; do it or i'll open a can of whoop ***!I need girl advice?
    Everytime you see him look and smell your best. Flirt with him, throw out small hints... if he doesn't respond he's either shy, uninterested, or he is gay.
    okay so- there are alot of boys out there and its always hard to see if they feel the se about you as you do about them. what i would do if i really liked a guy, i test them (talk but play hard to get) and have my bff ask them questions bout if they are interested in anyone... especially you, bu dont mke t obvious.. nd stuff. this is how i just ot my bf who was really into me but its alwas hard to read inbetween the lines and figure out the mystery puzzle good luck!
    Ask around. See if he's mentioned to anyone that he's crushing on you or not. You can also ';mention'; to a few people that you're interested in him. Good luck!
    have one of ur friends ask him well get around to asking him like hint around it as in .. oh so me nd my friend r going out this Saturday wanna join with one of ur buddys or something like that
    I think you might have to bite the bullet on this one. Ask him out. It can only go one of 2 ways. He is either going to say yes or no. He isnt a mind reader so you cant expect that he knows that you want him to ask you out. So the best advise ic an give is to just ask. Its the only way to get and answer.