Tuesday, April 27, 2010

NEED GIRL ADVICE! what should i do?

So theirs this girl i really like her she's been going out with this guy for a little more then a year and they just broke up about a month and that's when she told me she's likes me so then we kissed a few times and talk every day on the phone. I think that she pretty much got over her ex for me but like we never hangout she's just always busy i don't know what to do





should i talk to her a little less make her want to talk to me and be around me more?? because i fell like I'm kinda smothering her when i talk to her every day and always asking to hangout





or should i just keep trying and hope she finds and hangout with me??





she knows i like her and we kissed it's just she told me that she's scared to move on because she doesn't want to get hurt againNEED GIRL ADVICE! what should i do?
Talk to her. The best thing is letting her know how you are feeling and your intentions toward her. Tell her that getting hurt is inevitable. The only way of getting over her fear is by taking chances. One will never know unless they try. And well It's not much but I hope it kind of works at least a little. Best of luck =]NEED GIRL ADVICE! what should i do?
right now just make sure that she knows that you're not a guy who wants to hurt her, but that your there to listen and be a shoulder to her. this doesnt mean that you have to talk everyday, but at least throw in little things like ';im here for you whenever you need someone'; and stuff like that. that would be helpful and super nice, which scores you points.





hope that helps!
Don't pressure her. Ask her when the best time is for her to hang out, and let her ask you.





And if you are the one calling her the most, don't do it so often, let her call you. Then that probably means she really wants to be around you if she calls a lot. =]
don't talk to her less just to make her want you! She might just assume you stopped liking her as much and begin to stop liking/move on from you too. Ask her to hang out ahead of time, by months if you must. AND DO NOT HURT HER
She might not be able to hang out with you because of her parents as well as being busy. But dont smother her too much. Ask her to hangout every now and then when she doesnt seem busy. But keep talking to her. %26amp;+ good luck!
Tell her that you won't hurt her like the other dude did.





And just tell her that even if she might not want to be that close with you [BF/GF] that you'll still be there for her 100%.
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