Friday, April 30, 2010

Girl advice?

um.. been talking to this girl on match. winked at her, she winked back, started emailing on june 4th. two emails ago i said i have some baseball tickets if she wanted to go with my friends and i. and i said maybe meet up first another day before the game. she replied back, with, ';baseball! good choice. we should meet up first before for sure. what day is the game?';


obviously she is interested in meeting me. do you think it's in a friendly way, more-than-friendly/date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?


thanks!





p.s. a few weeks ago, i had surgery, and in my email i told her that casually, but didnt say surgery for what. and was joking ';see if u can guess ahah';. she just said she's not a good guesser and stabbed at knee surgery than moved on to say other things. do you think saying i had surgery hurt me?? doesnt seem to have, just wondering..Girl advice?
just be casual and nice and you'll get laid eventually








aww yeahGirl advice?
i think it's a frindly 'wants to get to know you' ';date';





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yay go me
You're talking over the computer so she probably wants to meet just to check you out and see if (as you said) ';you've got-potential-for-dating';. She probably thinks you're a nice guy and she's interested in getting to know you better but not before she sees you face to face and gets to know better in person.
first of all she probly 鈾?#039;s you if she wants to get to know you better but I advise you not to rush into things. Girls don't like that. Be sweet to her and show her you care as a friend first then when you are at the baseball game or whenever ask her if she considers this a date-date.


Also, the only thing telling her about the surgery could do is put her on ';pity-mode'; and she might feel bad for you. other than that it's nothing bad.
Well I think she is looking forward to meeting you at the game because that is where she wants to decide if she likes you as more than just a friend. And I honestly don't think she cared about the surgery comment. Just don't bring it up again unless she does, because I don't think she is interested in that topic.
I think that she is interested in meeting you in a more-than-friendly/date way because obviously you guys like each other, and also, you met each other on Match.com!!! You go to match.com to meet people that you'd like to date. She wouldn't want to go and meet you if she didn't want to date you!!! This is your guys first date!!! Also, she probabaly isn't the BIGGEST baseball fan (I'm just guessing, since not a lot of girls are), but the fact that she's going to the game is probabaly not because she just loves baseball, but because she wants to spend time with you! So, if that's the case, don't invite your friends! You'll just be distracted by either her, or them, then the other one will feel left out! And also the surgery part shouldn't matter...unless it was like a weird surgery...but if it was necessary, then you should just tell her!
more-than-friendly/dateway





no didnt influence
not sure
How old are you?
who cares if you have surgery! if she is nice enough then she wouldnt care about it! and if you guyz think that you have good feelings the same like you guys wanna date each other then go ahead! but like ask her if she likes you! and asking to go to the baseball game is friendly! i mean you r going to a BASEBALL game!LoL


good luck wit da girl!
How about you stop asking the same question over and over again.
uhh i think if you want to date her drop your friends out of the baseball plans then you have a better chance of having her think about you and her being together...if thats what you want...and i think if you go to the game with her then you can see 1 on 1 if she's interested because if you have all your buddies there then it'll just be awkward and she wont feel all that important and she'll probably think well...he invited all his ';friends'; and she'll go and think she's one of your friends not anything more...so i would rethink who you bring to the game

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