Girl advice?

Well had this first date with this girl like 2 weeks ago to a baseball game. Laughed, hugged twice, got along, etc. She emails me 4 days later saying she had a good time, how she thought it was funny we basically were having a hotdog eating contest, etc, I replied back basically asking her ';how about we have another good time in a week or so and see a movie?'; Told her I was going camping.


She emailed me back Aug 3rd, I guess thinking Im back from camping, saying ';how was camping?'; and signed her name. Not mentioning the movie Q or anything. I read her profile and she says in it she's going to Spain on Aug 17th.


It doesnt soundlike shes interested anymore. Or Maybe she doesnt wanna start something so closeto leaving but had a good time so she wants to keepin touch ';just in case';? Hence why she is keeping the convo going.


Idk, what do you guys think??Girl advice?
She might be going for a short time. Ultimately there's no use dithering and guessing at her motives, you'll no doubt get it wrong. Just ask her about it.





Say something none confrontational, like ';Camping was great! How've you been? Saw your profile and the trip to Spain, and was just wondering if you wanted to try for a 2nd date or if you've got your hands full with the planning.';





Depends on your personal communication style of course, but be casual about it and don't put any pressure on her. You sound like a nice guy, so good luck with it!Girl advice?
well, as a girl, i would just have to say, that i think she is a little scared to get close to someone right before she is leaving. she had a great time, and you probably helped her forget about leaving, she is probably a little sad about it, and then she realized that you were probably not going to be there for her whole life. she got scared, and didnt want to hurt you, or get herself hurt. she really likes you though, i mean, yeah...


also, like, i think she wants to let go slowly, so that niether of you get hurt. she is a good girl, just from this. lol. the fact that she isnt concerned about eating in front of you, lol. im jk. but i mean, i would , if i were you, email her back and be like '; hey, camping was really fun, (if u havent gone, just say that you dont leave until...insert date....) maybe we could go out for one of your last nights here, you know, kind of a farewell dinner/movie/date type thing. get back to me soon!'; and if u leave it like that, you let her know you are interested, but you arent going to MAKE her go out with you. sorry this is so long btw...