Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Girl advice, help!?

been talking to this girl on match.com for a few months. i invited her to a baseball game few weeks ago, and she said sure, and suggested we meet up twice, another time for a movie. we both had busy schedules so that's why a few week's have passed. anyway, her email last night or so said ';i wanna see harry potter :-)'; and i replied giving my cell #, asking if she has ur bb ticket yet, etc. she emailed me back tonight with ';hi, i dont have my ticket yet. last time i went i was able to buy it at the gate for $8 and worked out fine. see you friday!'; and then she gave me her cell#, too.


what do you think? does she like me in a more-than-friend's way? interested in 'that way'? do you think she sees this going to the game as a date?


should i during the game like kidna make a move, flirt...put my arm around her and/or on her knee etc? kiss at the end or just hug her when i see her and when we leave?


thanks!Girl advice, help!?
Don't get to anxious about it...! Just be yourself, look confident but not like you discovered America!!! Compliment the way she looks and always (if you are really attracted to her) look her in the eyes and pay attention to everything she says...If you became nervous she will understand it..Don't pretend to be cool when you really not cause some girls like shy guys! You should be confident when is necessary and shy when you feel it, too!


About the kiss thing...well if she gives you any sign that she wants you to kiss her then gently do it...It's not easy to resist a kiss when you're really attracted to somebody....!


But...all this advice can't really work if they make you stop being yourself....Do want you want and what makes you fell...you! But always think before you act cause you are dealing with a different person from you...


I hope i helped even a little and i really wish you good luck and i hope the girl deserves your stress!!!Girl advice, help!?
Who cares what she thinks. It only matters that you like her. If you do, then pursue her. Pay for the movie. Even if she doesn't see it as a date, she'll be appreciative and you'll move closer to being more than just a friend.
Well it all depends on how she acts when you see her.


You can tell whether she thinks of you as a friend or more than a friend by the way she'll act.


Although I do think that you should try and flirt a bit and deffinately be a gentleman and see how she reacts.
i think she wants to be more than friends.. dont worry about making moves, just be kind to her and ask her how she feels about you. take your time and let her know you dont want to rush. the best relationships aren't rushed. oh and have fun! i saw harry potter today and i really liked it..


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buy her ticket for sure, be a gentleman then you can move on to the flirting stuff
buy her ticket and snacks, act and behave like a gentleman the communication during this event will determine if flirting is ok, dont sit thinking the whole time whether you should or not just let it flow the date that is..know that if you move too fast you may offend her and lose going for another date altogether nice time!
Do not assume that she likes you. Maybe she's interested and maybe she's just looking for a friend. Girls love to have male friends, but if you found her on match.com it would seem that she's looking for a boyfriend.





Anyway. Take things slow. Maybe flirt a bit, talk to her, LISTEN to her, and if things go well you could try holding her hand or hugging her. If she wants to take it further, she will make a move most likely, if she's comfortable. And if things go really, really well you may get a kiss at the end of the date, but keep in mind some girls don't believe in kissing on the first date.





Oh and definitely don't put you hand on her knee the first date. She may take it too sexually, I know I would. First impressions and the first date are really important.





Oh and pay for everything. At least on the first few dates. And be a total gentleman.





I think that's all I have to say.
How old are you 2?
well u should go with the flow if it goes there than take it there. If you feel that you like her start off slow like holding her hand and lightly touching her leg but give her high fives too. When you meet her give her a passionate hug not a hug you would give your mom. Walk her to her car chit chat a little and hug her passionatly again and walk away. If you want things to go further than that maybe you should call her and make small talk so that she will feel more comfortable with you in person.
well since its match.com im guessing more than friends. say hi to her and be gentlemanly, but dont hug her or she might freak out.

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