Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Girl advice please!!!!!!!?

im 19 and have never had a gf............i have no idea where to go to start a convo with one or what to talk about...........where can i go to start a convo with a girl and what to talk about?? please help u ppl are all i have nowGirl advice please!!!!!!!?
Haha uhh... surely we;re not the only ones...





Basically what you need to do is just try to be the girl's friend first. Try to get to know her, be funny (but not weird), and just see what you have in common. Don't start out by being like ';Hey, you're cute'; cause then girls could immediately turn you away or suspect you're just after them for...their looks. Or body. So get to know them, talk to them, be interested. Take it from there.Girl advice please!!!!!!!?
Let me tell you a little secret about women: we're all shy %26amp; insecure. It's true. But we're really good at hiding it. well, most of us anyways.





Where to go: Find a starbucks or local eatery, get a good book and find a spot. If you see a girl that sparks your interest, find a commonality. (i.e. - book suggestions, coffee's, etc.) if she drops something, pick it up... anything will work. Even something as silly as spilling something on you and giving her the ';I'm such a klutz- puppy dog eyes'; will win you points.





Just make her feel comfortable %26amp; make her laugh. 2 main points to get any girl to agree to a ';beginning';. Good luck!
Talk to a girl whose shy. She'll like attention that she didn't bring on herself and i won't be as hard for you knowing she's also shy. And we are not all you have, You have the rest of you're life. : )


Be real and don't seem like it's fake or too hard to believe. (Big turn off)
awwww...dw! k, so if u see a gurl that u really like, just go talk to her first... like become friends with her, and then gradually tell her about how u feel about her, and then once ur ready, tell her. there's a great chance that she might like you too!
General questions like things she likes and her hobbies and stuff it's not rocket science. Just make sure that you are yourself and let the conversation just slide on it's own. Don't worry about awkward silences when that happens ask another question. It's not to hard.
Go out to a club and make eye contact with a girl, go up to her and ask to dance with her, talk about her evening, what she does etc. if you like her ask for her phone number and call her or text her the NEXT day to show that your really interested.
welllll..... it all starts with a simple Hello


it depends on the kind of girl you are interested in


for example me i love music you can tell by the way i look and who i am


just be yourself
dont be so worried about not having a gf. you should be with someone because you have feelings about them, not just because you want to be in a relationship. a few places you could meet girls... mall, clubs, parties.
be yourself. she'll understand if your a little shy and nervous. just don't be obnoxious. say you like her hair or heres an idea!! how 'bout you just ask the first girl out that you see.
well, if you are in school you must like one girl, talk about school and hobbies. just by saying hi things can go into a good conversation
if u run out of conversation


just talk about your family
There are lots of girls just as shy as you are. Look around and find one. Then you won't be the shyest.
just be yourself. find ppl that are interested in the same things as you...what are your hobbies. try online dating if you are nervous.Then move on to IRL dating.

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