Sunday, December 27, 2009

Girl advice?

um.. been talking to this girl on match. winked at her, she winked back, started emailing on june 4th. two emails ago i said i have some baseball tickets if she wanted to go with my friends and i. and i said maybe meet up first another day before the game. she replied back, with, ';baseball! good choice. we should meet up first before for sure. what day is the game?';


obviously she is interested in meeting me. do you think it's in a friendly way, date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?


thanks!





Also, since she said ';we should meet a day before the game for sure,'; do you think that means she wants some one-on-one time just me and her?





What I wrote back: ';the game is july 17th, the tuesday. so what do you wanna do, where do you wanna meet?';





She replied back tonight w/: ';i'm actually going to the game w/ my sister on the 18th, but i wouldn't mind at all going on the 17th too. i'm pretty much free this whole weekend, and next week after 7:30.';Girl advice?
she wants to meet before either so it's quiet or to make sure she likes you before she wastes your money. Seems like she is into you so play your cards right be a gentleman and things should work out. GOOD LUCK!Girl advice?
get rid of the friends and just go with her
Dude,





DO NOT OVER THINK THIS...





You met on Match.com, a dating site. Make sure you use the word ';date'; let you rintentions be known that you see her in a romantic/sexual way. If she doesn't fee the same then cut her off and stop wasting your time.





I am guessing that you are on Match for dates, not friend, right. So, don't waste your time on ';hanging out'; always ';make dates';.





Also...





DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT,





Invite her to hang out with your friends. You think that she will be less intimidated because there are more people there. Wrong and wrong.





She will be more intimidated meeting you for the first time and your friends. And you are putting yourself in a friends role intstead of a romantic slot. (pun intended)





So. contact her and tell her you want to go on a ';date'; to a movie before the game. If she doesn't react well to the word date then cancel the baseball game plans and move on.
well first, its between potential date and date date. yes im pretty sure she wants some one on one time, before the game.


if any of your friends come then i dont think she'll count it as a date, but if you end up going alone, then she probably will. if she does, you should too.
when u meet up with her... just see how things go.. dont push anyhitng and after a while id bring her around ur friend but no till u know how she feels about you and where it will go... maybe you should shoot her and email and ask how she feels about the meeting. she what she is looking for in a relationship or just friends
when you meet you will know seriously cant get anythin from an email but sounds like a little more than a friend woould write


good luck

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