Girl Advice.. Let me know what you thinks really up?

Me and my girl have been together on and off for over three yrs.. i used to take her for granted, blow her off and not act like i cared.. And she used to come back and wanted me so bad. then one day i realized i care about her so much, and once she realized it, she does it to me now, i just dont get it, like she does'nt wanna hangout anymore she would rather be with her friends, always chills with guys, and now after all this time shes claiming to be abstinent, or whatever, i dont know what to do, or why.. any insightGirl Advice.. Let me know what you thinks really up?
hmmm. i think she finally realizes that she is good enough for you and she doesn't need to try so hard to stay with you, because she knows that you care for her too. she probably feels like she needs to spend time with her friends that she may have been neglecting while she was trying to earn you. and you say that you once treated her the same way? i think you two need to have a serious discussion about your relationship. if her hanging with guys is making you uncomfortable, you should say something. you need to talk with her and clear up the things you aren't sure about. if she doesn't seem to want to work with you, you should think about giving the relationship a break, at least until the two of you figure out where you want to go with it. good luck, i hope this helps.