Girl advice? Normal or not?

This girl was 21 at the time. I was also 21, except I was 2 months shy of 22, and she just turned 21.





Anyway, she was my ex-girlfriend. During the course of our relationship (and it was serious, had gotten her a promise ring, we were going to move in together), and no this isn't why we broke up, she did the following:





-';Accidentally'; kneed me in the nuts when I was tickling her. She told me to stop, I didn't, and next thing I know she kneed me there. She laughed.





-With my friend and It this amusement park riding the bumper cars, she chuckled as my friend was getting out of the car and crashed his balls on accident on the rim of the door. He was actually hurting for like 1/2 hour.





-At her parent's house (she lived there), as we were randomly standing hugging or something, she'd ask me, ';Can I kick you?'; I would ask ';Why?'; and she'd reply, ';B/c I've never kicked a guy there before. Please?'; And she'd always be giggling, and one time I actually said ';yes'; to see her reaction and sheGirl advice? Normal or not?
I dnt no about this but to me it sseems like she gets some kind of excitment out of seeing you hurt even though she does dnt let her do it cuz it can really hurt you in the long run explain to her that it really hurts when a man iz kicked down thereGirl advice? Normal or not?
well sounds like she was bored and needed something to do you should have replied with some off the wall comment back!
strange sounds like she needs help.
wow, that is STRANGE! maybe she just has the urge to hurt you there. i dunno, that girl is WACK
you know what you need to do, next time she is cramping really bad punch her in her boob, i dont know if its the same kind of pain but she will get the picture
Maybe a slight bit of penis envy, but pretty normal in my opinion.
She obviously takes pleasure in violence. Kind of creepy.





I wouldn't have let her kick you in the balls, though.
that is pretty screwed up, i mean god i would NEVER ask a guy to do that, ever!
if i were u i would b looking for another gf,,she sounds like she needs to c a head doctor,,for her to want to hurt u n anyway,,i would b VERY SCARED,,good luck
Um... No offense but that is really WEIRD!!! Uhm... I have no frikin' idea why she would want to do that but it's weird and SO NOT NORMAL!!! Well, there are my thoughts on the subject.
Hahahaha wow...she's kinda obsessed with kickin ya. I find that really weird that she'd ALWAYS want to kick you. She obviously has no idea how much it hurts and might be 'flirting'. Very weird flirting subject tho. haha. And since she's always giggling when she asks you or when some other guy gets hurt, she sounds kind of insensitive. If I were you, I'd tell her no next time she asks. Only in a nice way tho not like NO. Cuz I don't think she reeeally gets it. Maybe she was just trying to be funny. Hope that helped. Very weird situation.
She sounds like a freak no offense... Thats not right girls shoudn't want to do that...
my answer is she is completely nuts for you!





Shes a wack job, you just don't do that. When I was dating a guy I did it as a joke and didn't realize that it hurt so bad (didn't do it agian) I think its just her way of flirting. . . a weird way.





Maybe she has an obsession over balls you never know.


Next time you chill with her or decide to date her agian, wear a football cup :)
dump her
really weird....
that's brutal. I'm so sorry for u.





i wont do that to the guy i love... or any human being for that matter.
personally.... I think she has mentle issues or something cause that is defently NOT normal. Get a better girl that isn't well.. like her!!
She's NUTS for you ?
lol what a strange girl


i mean I've only kicked a guy there a couple of times and that's because they kicked me where it hurts a girl or they called me names.


and usually you feel or softly squeeze a guy to try and flirt not go Jackie Chan on there ***.





but no i dont think this is normal lol








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Idk I'm a girl and I've NEVER done that to a guy except once by accident and I didn't laugh... I'm sorry but she sounds kinda... agressive? and not in a good way. If you just talked to her and told her listen it's really not okay cause it does really hurt and she didn't listen to you and did it anyway theres deff something wrong with that pic
she sounds a bit wierd to me, why would she wana cause you pain if shes your girlfriend? :S
HEY this chick is obviously immature!!





why would anyone want to hurt someone if they didnt do anything wrong I could see if you were trying to rape mugg or kill her but if nothing but a friendly convo and then all of a sudden someone wants yto hurt your parts like that screw that I would tell her she needs to stop or its over!!
Dude, this girl is either obsessed or has a sick past time and humor.


I originally was going to say that people laugh at things that aren't really funny because they're worried - unconsciously or consciously - or concerned. But when she starts asking to just start kneeing and kicking you, well... that's rude. She's being immature. She might be trying to be cute or whatever, but if I were you, I'd be peeved. That's not cute at all - just stupid and immature.


When you were first tickling her, though, I'd say she really wanted you to stop. But then, most people say 'stop' when someone's tickling them since it just... ugh. It's sucky pleasure. xDD ANYWAY, think about. Was it in a light mood or was she saying it seriously? If it was the latter, I'd advise you to watch yourself in the future.


You've broken up, so it shouldn't matter any more. ;)
Wow. That's way strange.


I would talk to her about it. It's definitely not normal for her to take pleasure in that.
I think that is very weard
That's really weird. I have no intention of kicking or punching a guy there.
lmfaoo


omg wow


she seems psyco to me


very obsessed with ____s


lol


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She sounds like a kook.
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As a psychologist, I can see this girl (wit all my respect) somehow is immature. Of course, im talking ';affective'; side. Some questions should be asked first to diagnose a problem... But as u say it, i can just be a desire to see how much punching a man in the balls can hurt... call it curiosity.. whatever u want. But, it can also be a little hint to sadism... See, this is a big word, it may have nothing to do with it but u have to think abt it. Anw, has this girl ever had sex... is she aware of the male anatomy? I think it is a childish thought... nothing serious... but she may also like to see people in pain, but the ';balls part'; is rather intriguing...that what makes u think of smthg beyond just having fun...
she sounds kinda strange.


and im confused on whether you two are together or not. are you?