Girl Advice...its quite long, sorry :(?

I am 18 years old and this girls looks around 23/24 (I'm not sure of her exact age). We attend this religous function, where a lot of my family (e.g. cousins, aunts, uncles, etc.) and other friends go. Last night was the last time I would see her, as we live far away and only see each other during this function.





My family are really weird when it comes to girls. If I am seen talking to a girl, they're all like ';ooo, who was THAT girl'; or (singsong voice) ';you have a girlfriend. hee hee hee';.





Throught the time the function was going on, I saw her looking at me and I found myself staring at her aswell. Yesterday was the last time I could talk to her for a year and so I thought ';who cares, let me go and talk to her';. I didn't get a chance but at the end, everyone was putting away these tables and I saw my (female) cousin helping her with a table, so I thought ';let me help my cousin and hopefully my cuzin will leave us alone';.





As I went to help me cousin, I SWEAR I heard the girl say something like ';well...wt u doin'; in this downgrading, sarcastic tone that I sometimes use when I am practically telling someone to get lost. I looked up quickly and I think she was giving me a dirty look. However, to be honest, I don't think a woman her age would be that immature, maybe it was my mind playing tricks on me or something??





I haven't been able to stop thinking about this since!! I keep feeling sick everytime I think of this and I haven't been able to eat all day!





Please can someone tell me what happened and what I should do!!





Thank you soo much in advanceGirl Advice...its quite long, sorry :(?
theres nothin u can do,,,forgetGirl Advice...its quite long, sorry :(?
Maybe your parents freaked her out, or your cousin was talking bad about you behind your back to her?
What the hell, I thought this was going to be a good story. Forget about the girl and why are you feeling sick? Wtf! Just move on. Hm, maybe I should be nicer, I don't want you to lose sleep.
If a girl stares at you it doesn't always mean she finds you attractive. She might think you're weird or something, and she might have been staring at you the way ';normal'; people stare at people they think are freaks. That's the only thing I can think of. As for what you should do...nothing. Leave her alone.
Just go talk to her. Who knows? It could all be a misunderstanding. :D
As far as I can tell you main question is about the line ';well...wt u doin'; Which really doesn't make any sense to me. Perhaps you left out some letters? And several words. Though if this is exactly what you heard, ';well...wt u doin';. I'd say you're not dealing with the brightest of girls.





About the idea that a 23 to 24 year old woman would not do something immature, you're absolutely incorrect. Age doesn't matter nor does sex, when it comes to immaturity. Everyone is capable of everything. Though, I suppose men do act immature quite a bit longer.





Why don't you edit this question and expand on the ';well...wt u doin'; part of it.
You need to talk to her man. the fact that when you looked at her and she looked back says that she has at least one thought about you. maybe its good maybe its bad or just thoughts. never judge her age by how she looks. im 18 and my girl is 18 but she looks 16. 3try and get a number or an email. do not use myspace or facebook as a dating servise. its childish. if this girl is the age you say she is then she wants a man not a boy. you have to be that man. ask her out in person like out to eat. thats a real date. but first to get a hold of her. like say you can get her number. ask her whats up, hows her day, tell her who you are. make sure she knows who you are. face to face contact is soooooo much more important though.


go with your instinct,. your 18 im guessing you have had a girl by now. be nice, sweet and gentleman. not an A$$hole or immature


best of luck man. i hope she is right for you
Wow. You sound like a really good guy. That being said, this sounds like a situation where you should just let go. You hardly know her and you're leaving for a year. Was it really going to go anywhere anyway? If it'll make you feel better, try to get her number and call her to ask her if something was wrong or what was going on. If you can't get her number, at least you tried, right? And you won't be thinking what would have happened. Good luck. I think you deserve it.
It sounds like your family has put you down until it's become habitual for them. Start by sending this girl a nice Christmas card and tell her you're sorry for the way your sister acted last time.leave it at that for now but if she responds the starting gate is open! and take it from there! You really have nothing to loose do you?
dude, shes a girl you never even spoke to, so i really wouldnt worry about it. make yourself feel better, and find another hot chick, and be on your way... I dont kno why ur feeling sick. shes obviously not...
First of all, never assume. The comment may have been directed at you, or it may not. She may have been misinterpreting your motives or actions - for example, she might have thought you were coming to help because you're a sexist pig who thinks women aren't capable of moving a table, or you're a hick who was trying to hit on his own cousin, or you're an idiot who was not following istructions about the table, or a hundred toher things. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to guess.





First, talk to your cousin, Tell her you heard the girl make this comment and you're not sure what she meant by it, and ask your cousin's opinion. Then ask your cousin to remind the family on your behalf that you are no longer a child and would really appreciate it if they treated your relationships and flirtations with a little respect and tact. For your part, don't take the teasing so personally - yes it's a little immature, but it's good-natured and they are on your side.





Remind yourself that this is not the first crush you've ever had, nor will it be the last. It's just one chapter in your romantic story - so turn the page and move on.
Well, were you just standing around doing nothing? or did you automatically start helping.





It may have been that you were just standing there so she said that or maybe she wondered why you thought they needed help. Anyway, she should have at least said thanks for the help. So, it her loss.





Anyway, As misery loves company let me tell you a story that made me feel the same way... It happened for lunch break in high school. I went to the restroom to check my make up and when I walked out I saw a cute guy I liked and I was pretty sure he like me too. As I was talking to him this girl points at me laughing and says, ';you have tissue on your shoe!!!'; It was worse than that, The tissue on my shoe was still attached to the roll in a stall next to the bathroom mirror!! I traveled all the way down the hall way with it attached!! Anyway, he started laughing so hard his eyes were tearing up. It was totally embarrassing and I still feel like and idiot. Ha-Ha! Nothing ever happened between us but he used to tease me about it all the time.





Stuff like that happens to everyone. Just laugh it off.