Sunday, December 20, 2009

I need girl advice. Does my best friend thats a girl actually like me?

okay, so to start off I've been really great friends with a girl since I was little. Even more, I think Imm starting to fall for her.To break it down she is by far the most beautiful I have ever seen, lights up a room anywhere she goes, and is very popular. Whenever we hang out , we always seem to connect with each other and are always staring each other each others eyes and holding hands or snuggling during movies. Our friends even say that we are both the boy/girl versions of each other because we both have the exact same thoughts, habits, food taste, and beliefs. Despite this, whenever we go to parties she always introduces me to her guy friends as her ';big brother,'; even though were always touchy/feely with each other, and connect with each other like none other (at least I think so. )Okay so enough of the rambling. Do you think she actually likes me or just likes me as a friend?? I feel like I should ask because I feel the tension rising between us each time we see each other, but I dont want to ruin anything if she doesn't. So please give me your thoughts, I really need the advice, thanks!I need girl advice. Does my best friend thats a girl actually like me?
im not a girl,but if i was the hottest in the world,which im not,i still would find it hard not to try and cut your face offI need girl advice. Does my best friend thats a girl actually like me?
I think she loves you %26lt;3 its so cute how you two connect together :)


Don't be shy and just ask the girl!~I have a best guy friend that i've known since 3rd grade and he asked me out and i said Yes :)


But it's a little shaky on the ';big brother'; but other then that you guys ARE THE PERFECT COUPLE %26lt;3%26lt;3%26lt;3%26lt;3
If you guys are really best friends, there's no problem just asking her. She seems like a really close friend and I don't know if this is just her acting as your best friend or if she really does like you too. I really envy her for having a friend like you that falls for girls, because not a lot of guys act like that anymore. Good luck.
No reading necessary.





YES





Girls and guys can not be friends unless they have sex. Then they might move to friends.





OK I READ IT





Are you nuts? Just what do you think you can ruin? Life is hard buddy. Make a move or regret it later but she will marry someone someday and if it is not you then you are out whether you are soul mates or not. Grow some will ya?
this happened to me to and she used to always tell me i was he brother and best friend. i wouldn't try asking her out yet before you know she likes you because it could ruin your good friendship. ask one of her friends if they ever talk about you and if she likes you before you do anything.
it sure sounds to me like she may have feelings for you but then again you never know. The best thing to do would be just to ask her if you dont you will never know the truth and will always wonder if she likes you or not.
I don't hold hands or touch any of my ';friends';








think about if you would do it with one of your male friends, and if you wouldn't then it means it's not a friend thing.





So make a move
Ask her, ask her, ask her now!!! Otherwise, it will bottle up and you'll live imprisoned for a year and a half like me. I just surrendered my love for this girl. Ask her now!!!!
yeah i think she does like you... i wouldnt snuggle up with just anybody... go for it!





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c dude,after reading my advice is tht she really likes u thinks u r her bf.she's a girl n girls can't say it very openly.i m also a girl even i can't talk 2 my bro. freely.almost 99% people says boys first or bla bla bla..so u should start talking about it.ya but while talking,take care of her feelings .....n keep positive thinking in u......n i know her answer will b positive only...... all d best:)
I can tell you would do anything in the world for this girl, so you love her unconditionally. If she is introducing you as big brother, she loves you as well because she trusts you. You probably have trouble sleeping just thinking about this situation....chances are she is too if there is tension. I'm assuming she does not have a boyfriend, but if she does you are playing with fire. If she is already taken and you express this, then you will lose her as a friend. I suffered a broken heart when I thought one of my friends was in to me and I was really into her but she had a boyfriend. Its been almost two years since she spoke to me but she still keeps me on IM at work just to torture me. Because I was honest with my feelings I don't have any regrets. Life is too short and one day you're gone. Not ever telling her you loved her, even if it was expressed in a platonic way, would haunt you.
i think that this girl may like you. she cuddles up to you and you only and you guys are alike in every aspect and connect blah blah blah.





i think that she may like you as a potential partner, however it could just be as friends.


about the brother comment, she may have been embarrased because she likes you or she really doesn't see you as a potential partner


i think that your choices are





A. take the risk of confessing to her and risk losing your friendship and creating an awkward bubble around her and you while on the other hand your feelings are mutual and you will become BF/GF





or





B. keep things the way they are because you don't want to risk losing good friendship with one of the closest friend you have and just forget about the feelings and thoughts going in on your head and lose the chance you could have had mutual feelings.





hope it helped





P.S. i would ask her other friends or examine a little more closely before confessing to make sure that she likes you. her friends may tell you.


XD
Yes, I think that she is because of the holding hands and looking in too each others eyes. I was once in a situation like this myself and in the end we both had feelings for each other, and we ended up being in a long term relationship. But just know that if she didn't like you that she would not be all over you trust me. Because when I like a guy I'm all over him and laughing at every single joke he makes and I'm always smiling from ear to ear. But never doubt what you can already see she likes you and you like her so go for it!!!!
I'm not a woman but I can give advice on this because I have had a similar experience... Don't get turned off too much to the ';big brother'; thing... It means she looks at you as a protector.. But just in case you don't. Like her she might uae that term.. Or she has yet to explore that area of ';boyfriend'; in her mind.. But she is probably not closed off.. It could be the best. Thing to happen to you.. So don't blow it.. Also if you are snuggling with her.. Just try getting real close and maybe make a move.. Nothing huge, just a SMALL kiss.. It worked for me.. My fiancee called me brother before she thought of me that way.. And now were getting married.
That's super cute! Well, this is what I would be thinking if I were you. Would I rather be friends with her forever and not ever know the truth if she likes you or not... Or would I rather love her for the rest of my life and take a risk. And if she really liked you as a friend.. nothing should be awkward even if she knows you like her more then a friend and she just likes you as a friend! As long as you have her as a friend everything will be okay.. you might have a little bump on the road for you. But if she is as beautiful as you say, I'm pretty sure you don't want her out of your life. So I say go for it and ask her! Take her out and explain to her how you feel. And let her speak her thoughts! and message me how it went... if you decide follow my advice!

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