I need Girl Advice from girls?

Im having some trouble understanding why i might not seem attractive to women ,is it because im not attractive enough? i am an honest guy, ive heard from a lot of girls that im handsome and cute and what not and im very positive and i also have good self esteem and very confident im also funny but for some odd reason i never get girls to come to me they just stare or smile but thats it. anyhow my myspace link is in my profile if youre interested to see what i look like, maybe something you see there will give you an idea of why i might not be getting any real interest in women. or any tips i can get from girls would be great too. Im also on the big side... could it be because of that? i know some girls are that shallow but then again some just like the meat heads and i cant blame them for it , they have their likes and dislikesI need Girl Advice from girls?
Well i know how you feel the only connection i had with guys before was just sex. People can be shallow but their human too. People have their likes and dislikes. I consider myself FAT and i am but i thought i was never gonna find anyone special until recently now I'm 20 and talking to someone who i know likes me too. Just give it time!!! Don't rush things because things that are rushed don't work out! Nah it's not bc your big girls can be stupid and miss out on a good guy. Just be yourself and you'll see how things turn out. PEACEI need Girl Advice from girls?
You seem like you may be too nice. A lot of girls would probably just rather be friends with you am I correct? That is because you are nice and honest. Not sure what's up with our society today but I suppose that is how it is. A lot of girls are shallow when it comes to weight but hopefully you will find one in a fair amount of time that doesn't care.
you sound nice, look for signals thet a girl likes you, like if she is staring at you, etc, and do not be afraid to ask her out, (or get rejected, its part of life) I know Im not gonna ask a guy out, because I got it in my head that the guy is supposed to ask the girl out, just like a lot of other girls, (sorry, I know that doesn't sound too great) you will find that they will say yes more often then you might think they would
do you talk to them


it's your age, if your young..you need to be the one to make the move..go over there and say hi





girls think you like them if you stare at them so..give it a chance and just push yourself into there circles..and pick a random cute single girl and ask her if she would like to hang..





then ask for her phone number


and call her.
You just need to talk to more people, and put yourself out there. A girl is not worth it if she doesn't want to be with you because of your weight. Trust me, there are plenty of nice girls out there that do not care about your weight.





Go out more often with friends, and introduce yourself, flirt a bit. You'll find the right person, don't worry.
your problem is ';i never get girls to come to me';


Where did you grow up that women should come to you? Did courtship get flipped around?


Be more agressive.


And nice guys finish last, get over all your ';good'; qualities, and try being interesting, not positive or funny.


Women don't date clowns.
just be your self..


and don't be in a hurry that... girls won't like you...


well, if you think that you are good looking, then go on and look for a girl that you really like...





just stick to one, being fatihfull and loyal is the best...


and you will be known for that...





goodluck!. ;)
You shouldn't worry that girls don't come up to you....go to them, go strike up conversations with girls you like, and don't worry about being shot down. You have to try in order to succeed. Any remember girls like jokes, and complements!
Dude, chill out. I saw your pictures and you look good :P





When you said ';i never get girls to come to me they just stare or smile but thats it.'; isn't it obvious?





They want you to go to them.
you are cute.. just dont wait for the girls to come to you if u see them smiling at you then maybe you should make the first move.
maybe you should just ask out the girl you like instead of waiting for girls to come to you.
dont lie to yourself, your not good looking or handsome ..


you just lack self esteem and balls to go up to a girl
girl don't normally go up to man so if they smile and stare they want you to go up to them
maybe you're not forward enough. get yourself out there and meet people.
dang i would go up 2 u well i guess u have go up 2 them and see what going up but if it was me i will so holla lol
lose weight and be proud of yourself that's all you gotta do